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ariel. she/they. twenty - one. femme.
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Source: butch/femme; Inside Lesbian Gender - editor Sally R. Munt , photo editor Cherry Smyth

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Disaster Relief for Hurricane Helene

If you have extra income to spare, please consider donating some to one or more of these resources. Direct Relief and Americares has efforts focused in Florida and All Hands and Hearts has teams in North Carolina. Samaritans Purse has efforts in quite a few places, focused in Florida and North Carolina, but also has efforts in Georgia and Tennessee.

If you have any other suggestions for disaster relief efforts that have Hurrican Helene recovery efforts, please let me know and I'll add them to the list. I just did a quick online search for these and they all seem legit.

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celine-song

Singin in the Rain (1952) dir. Stanley Donen, Gene Kelly

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pobopolybius

Latest reblog reminds me of how much it pisses me the fuck off how every queer person alive has to adapt to the usamerican style of queerness lest we get shunned by the community for being too different. I bring this up a lot but bro that time I got death threats for having ele/dele in my bio bc "by using neopronouns I was making a mockery of REAL trans people" when those are literally just my pronouns in my native language, and when I said that I got hit w the "well you're on the internet so speak english" I HATE GRINGOS I HATE GRINGOS I HATE GRINGOS

I feel the need to miss out a crucial detail I missed out in this post I made out of anger, and no, it doesn't add any silver linings or good context, it honestly only serves to make it worse.

In portuguese, much like spanish, we have no gender neutral pronouns. People who do not use ele/dele and ela/dela (he/him or she/her) all use whatever neopronoun suits them best in portuguese (ie elu/delu, eli/deli) because we have no access to a universal gender neutral pronoun like gringos do. When I brought this up upon them making fun of my "neopronouns", they said to suck it up, and that being foreign does not make neos valid.

In mocking people who use neopronouns in english, you are mocking a very large sum of latin american genderqueer and trans people.

I know various latin language speakers that struggle with their identities in their native tongue due to us not having they/them equivalents, so they are forced to let go of their, in example, brazilian queerness, to appease to anglos who would harass them and call them mockeries of trans people for not sticking to what The Cis want.

When non-anglos tell you the usamerican and british dominance over queer spaces ruins things for them, they mean it. We are forced to repress our identites because you people think they're too "out there and problematic". We are forced to suppress our own queer culture because we don't fit into your neat little boxes of what makes someone gay what makes someone a lesbian what makes someone trans or what makes someone anything else.

You tell us to remember "our queer elders", but do you know of any queer latin american figures? We learn your history, and you refuse to learn ours because you already have "too much on your plate". You disregard us and shame us for not fitting your ideals of queerness and using labels for ourselves you dislike, and try to baby us and tell us the proper way to be gay.

Your culture is not universal.

You are not saving queer people by making jabs at other queer people you don't personally get. Odds are you are harming an entire group of foreign queers you never bothered to consider, because your anglo bubble is too self important.

If you want to do queer people a real favour instead of getting mad at identities that existed long before you were even born, here. Make yourself useful. Donate to queer brazilian housing and support programs. Your beloved dollar is worth a lot more than the Real. Even five dollars help.

Hey man reblog this version instead lol

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you're a writer in the year 2024 yet the correct usage of poc still eludes you... it might be time to consider a different line of work.

"poc author" is it rocks? rocks in your little brain?

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are you a really a lesbian on tumblr if you haven't gotten an anonymous message asking if you're a gold star or not?

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thefemmeeros

realising I'm a femme was like a relieved exhalation. realising I was meant to intertwine with a butch gave me the space to release my sexual shame, the stigma of being a bottom, and realise there is nothing shameful about receivership. butchfemme made my lesbianism click into place. it gave me the language to describe the sexual dynamic i so desperately craved, the safety of masculinity wrapped around the sensual, sharp-clawed femme-ininity, all in the name reclamatory power. butchfemme is sacred. it is the story not of two opposites but of two halves of the same heart, of two identities that are home to each other, that are safe for each other.

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