Hello
sorry to bother you, it’s a bit strange, but you see I think one of my friends might be otherkin, but I don’t feel like I can just tell them that because they should probably discover that by themselves
but like, they have made vent art kinda stuff about not having wings, they felt very euphoric putting on fake fangs for the first time, they are constantly frustrated because they are feeling some kind of discomfort with their body that doesn’t line up with gender dysphoria (what they originally thought it was), and like there’s more I just can’t put into words.
should I keep trying to nudge them towards looking into it? Should I just say “hey you might be interested in this”, should I stop trying to nudge them towards it at all?
sorry you’re probably not the best person to ask about this but your the person most available for me to ask. And it’s not something i experience so I’m very cautious around it if that makes sense
It’s not strange at all! I’ve been through a similar situation with a fellow friend.
being cautious is responsible and respectful, but it likely won’t hurt to nudge them! maybe casually bring up examples of species euphoria that aligns with their desires. saying “hey, check this out!” in a friendly casual way could be the best option, or saying how interesting, cool, fun, etc the kinmmunity is on tumblr and ussering them to look into it. sending or showing them posts that indicate otherkinness in a positive way never fails.
they could possibly be a bit afraid of their feelings and may be subconsciously awakened, but not consciously. awakenings can take some time and is a personal journey, but it never hurts to show support for however they feel!! they seem to have a small bit of species dysphoria that can come with the possibility of being otherkin, which is understandable. being accepting is the most important step, and I’m glad they feel comfortable enough with you to talk about their feelings and thoughts, even if you aren’t otherkin yourself. many here have gone this route alone or with not much information or support, but there’s tons here to learn and many to meet!
if you wish, my blog is full of otherkin stories and experiences, please feel free to show them! there’s many winged creatures here that would love to see another added to our family!