I saw this one comment on a post about ao3 comments, and I can't find it anymore (see, this is why you like things, Nisile), but it's stuck in my mind. It was something like, this person had commented on a fic, and then one author blocked them, and another author was posting about how "nobody liked their work." So as a result of being blocked, and being called "nobody," there are now far more hesitant to comment.
And I thought, maaaan, it's sucks that this sort of thing happens. I mean, blocking someone who legitimately makes you uncomfortable, fine. But saying "no one" likes your work is hella invalidating to the people who do like it. It's very understandable to wish more people liked your work, but pushing away the people who do doesn't help things.
I understand the barriers to commenting, and I'll be the first to admit I don't do it enough myself. (I usually just like or kudos or reblog silently because I am 1) busy 2) tired 3) shy and generally allergic to strong public shows of emotion 4) I think someone else has said what I want to say already, not necessarily in that order). But I'm also here to say that I appreciate every read, every like, every kudos, every reblog, every comment, and every private message, and I probably don't say it enough. I am not even particularly good at thanking people for commenting, but I do try. So, uh, thanks again, everyone, who follows and engages with what I make, in whatever way. Your words and even your quiet gestures mean the world, and are the fuel that keeps me going.
It is not easy to comment. Sometimes I do it and I am, like here, a bit of overflowing in my speech and then I think "Maybe the author will not like it? Maybe it is too much".
I am trying to do it, as often as I can because now that I write more often, I know how sweet it is to read a comment, to see a kuddos, like a breath of fresh air, like a sip of cold water in an hot afternoon.
Just want to say I appreciate all of your comments @annab99awritersdream @emmanuellececchi @from-the-coffee-shop-in-edoras @sotwk (on AO3 and/or Tumblr). Seeing a notification on Tumblr or a number other than 0 in my AO3 inbox is more often than not the only good part of my day. So thank you.