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The Friendly Black Hottie.

@lookatthewords / lookatthewords.tumblr.com

Hey. I’m Colette. The ripe old age of 20-something. I write stuff and things. WritingWithColor is my diverse writing advice blog. I'm all about PoC, particularly Black + Woman of Color Issues, Writing, Diverse Beauty, Art, Self-Love, and funny ish.
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At home date ideas for couples (great for iso)❤️
  1. Play a board or question game
  2. “Finger foods only” meal
  3. Dress up fancy for your dinner at home.
  4. Backyard picnic
  5. Build a fort
  6. Cook or make food/snacks together
  7. Candle light dinner
  8. Share a book or swap books or read a book together.
  9. Paint, colour in, draw, do art together
  10. Play a sport together
  11. Do a puzzle together
  12. Listen to each others a music together
  13. Have a bath together
  14. Create a Bucket/Travel/Microadventure List
  15. Listen or watch vintage scary movies/shows/radio shows
  16. Play a video game together
  17. Make your bedroom look romantic or like a hotel room for a night. Or spend the night in another room in your house.
  18. Have a spa or self care night together.
  19. Do a theme dinner night: time period, country, all meals use one same ingredients, visual themed (like everything’s green or Halloween etc.)
  20. Have a cook off (each makes a seperate part of dinner; entree, main or desert)
  21. Have a Karaoke night
  22. Do online quiz’s together (love language, type of intelligence etc.)
  23. Write each other a love letter and leave them somewhere each over will find it.
  24. Do or create a treasure hunt together.
  25. Comedy night (watch stand up together)
  26. No technology date night. See what you come up with
  27. Blind fold your partner and have them guess the food you fed them.
  28. Nerf war or water gun war date
  29. Watch the sunset or sunrise together.
  30. Learn a dance online.
  31. Star gaze
  32. Try yoga or Pilates or working out together.
  33. Create a playlist together or for each other.
  34. Learn or try a new skill together
  35. Binge a tv show or marathon a movie series.
  36. Host a film festival full of films you both want to see or that the other hasn’t it you’ve wanted them to.
  37. Do a DIY or home improvement together
  38. Buy fancy food you usually wouldn’t splurge on and have a “fancy” food date
  39. Try a sex game or something you’ve always wanted to try in bed.

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what i’ve learned is that if you’re gonna engage in a romantic relationship during your young adult years, it damn well better be with someone who makes your insides explode with nothing but positive emotion. someone who takes the time to be kind, patient and understanding, more often than not, and who is as warm with their words as they are with their touch. life is too short to be focused on people who do not have your growth and best interest in mind. the right person will love you in a way that makes you feel completely free and accepted within your own skin. they won’t attempt to hinder your development out of fear or insecurity that your new experiences might lead you into the arms of someone else. good lovers will desire to see your personal success just as much as you do, and they will support and respect your decisions. stay away from people who make you feel guilty about desiring the best for yourself. they don’t love you for you, they love you for what you can provide for them. and that is not love.

this goes for friends as well

Source: niggablvd
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Break ups are hard, there’s no two ways about it. Whether you’re the dumper or the dumpee, going through a period of separation after months or years of romantic bliss can be sad, frustrating, and depressing. Here are some tips to help you move on and get your life back together.

1) Go through it

The only way to really get over a break up is to deal with it. Don’t distract yourself; let yourself feel the emotions one at a time. There will be good times and there will be bad, but the most important thing is to give yourself time. Ask a friend to listen or just to sit with you while you figure things out.

2) Regain your independence

After being the second half of a couple for a while we tend to forget what it feels like to be on our own again. Be your own person! Do whatever you feel like doing! Try thinking about you (and only you!) for a little bit to regain that awesome sense of independence that you lost while being someone’s significant other.

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I think you’re saying 2? Hehe ;p

2:If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?

To stop running! At least to not be so quick about it. I’ve had far too many occasions where, once a guy I actually liked, started to pursue me, i’d start distancing myself or find something nitpicking I didn’t like because I just got scared of the prospect of being something. If I could, I would’ve told myself to suck it up and see what unfolded.

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greelin

you could take me on a date anywhere and i’d be happy. like it could be the movie theater. or watching a movie at your house. fuck you could take me outside and we could look at clouds or climb trees i do not care as long as we hold hands or something at some point

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You know you're fucked up when..

Someone comes along and treats you right and you’re fucking scared and want to run.

And start thinking they are using you cause it isn’t normal for someone so be so kind to you and you’re wondering when shit is about to go down.

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strayheart-

And you’re terrified that one day they’re going to wake up and suddenly not want you anymore and leave you for someone else.

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astrayastar

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