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The Friendly Black Hottie.

@lookatthewords / lookatthewords.tumblr.com

Hey. I’m Colette. The ripe old age of 20-something. I write stuff and things. WritingWithColor is my diverse writing advice blog. I'm all about PoC, particularly Black + Woman of Color Issues, Writing, Diverse Beauty, Art, Self-Love, and funny ish.
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what happened with abbie mills?

they sidelining her. they not giving us enough of her story. they putting this crane mess over her life, family and storyline. they keep putting her in this damn "strong black woman - mammy" role where she's gotta save herself, save crane, and tend to Poor Lil White Woman again and again.

they giving her a recycled love interest to *flavor* the text that's only gonna push the sisters away from each other when that relationship is one of the gems that keeps me watching. we're not getting her emotions. we don't know the full scoop of how she's dealing with all the death she's faced + the experience in purgatory. etc etc...

basically they're doing everything i feared, and let them keep it up and i'm just gone tbh. they don't deserve my time and ratings if they won't treat Abbie/Nicole with respect and are forcing us to beg that she be respected through hashtags.Rallying so the main character be written well should not be something we have to do. it should be a given.

they've already totally fucked the men of color; enough is enough. i'm sick of seeing black women stuffed into these roles. and i'm sick of these traps -promises that they'll do good- and yet we get this bullshit all the time, again and again and again.

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block me if you don't wanna hear my thoughts about some real shit but

Moments like these make me even more salty they killed Luke like??? A man committed to her and her alone. Nobody’s “kinda wife” or “kinda ex.”

(like except luke to abbie but that's the point there?! who what when where why?!)

I feel like Black women’s relationships, when they happen on screen, always gotta have a catch. Somebody’s second, or teased about without really being allowed to unfurl fully and unabashedly…

I’m looking at a few shows here..(cough the walking dead cough cough richonne) and even though they’re not over these facts still remain in the now and I’m wary to trust things will manifest our way even though every finger, toe and limb is crossed for it to be…

Especially when on both TWD and Sleepy Hollow you got Black women who risk their lives for white characters (White men and women) with hardly any protection or recuperation (especially look at how Michonne was treated vs. how much she did for Rick & the group. Especially all the violence she was made to endure but oh she's a "strong" woman she can handle it right)…

I mean Ichabod shows obvious concern for Abbie but his attentions are preoccupied and actually endanger her (we ain't forgot about that map) and while Ichabbie could be endgame and (should?!) when all this ichtricka ish which they insist is real is completely resolved but in the meantime, Abbie deserves love from a “baggage-less” source (so no blondie aint gonna cut it if he's still doing stuffnthangs with Miss Jenny.).

In the same way Michonne deserves a soft touch and someone to SHOW they care about her that is of her peer group. Yes Mamachonne is magic but there’s something weird about the only one who can show any sort of close companionship and physical affection with her is a young boy. And they just completely dropped the dixonne connection that has some obvious history like wtf was that about?!

Last night's episode with Beth was a great show of the disparity of how Black women are allowed to be represented vs. white women like Katrina (damsels, innocent, who also can grow into their own and be stronger) and yet get to balance love relationships. Like Katrina got a husband and a headless boyfriend (lbvs), Beth has had TWO boyfriends, one maybe relationship that we were allowed to see played out unlike Dixonne that was some off-stage BS and then dropped, and then you got her and Noah which might not be a thing but still. but still.

And what Abbie got? A pending love triangle with her little sister's ex boyfriend (please no) and two men of color who really loved her but were killed. And Richonne; will they insist on giving us sideline scraps that put us in constant disbelief, background scenes we gotta zoom into to gif? Like I said, the show ain't over, i'm going off of what i've seen in the past and what i'm seeing now (and i'm parched as hell).

I'm hoping they'll give us more than this on both shows. That these Black women are allowed to have more than this. But we'll see. And I will remain hopeful. But I shall remain realistic too and needed to note my concerns or else they'd keep boiling in me..

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And another thing...

You know the racist trope of black women being hyper-sexualized and de-sexualized all at once? You can really see how certain parts of the fandom are doing this to Abbie. I knew this was already present in the fandom, but now it’s glaringly obvious

a)  Accusing Abbie of being “all over” Ichabod – because black women are overly sexual jezebels out to get everybody’s man, right?

b)  In the same breath, demeaning Abbie with SBW trope and insisting her and Ichabod have a bromance/brother sister/*insert other platonic relationship here*

These yt devils really out here we ain’t know about their coded language tho. 

We survive learning codes and knowing when to switch them. It’s something they can’t seem to grasp at all.

Damn. You're so absolutely right tho. I aint even think about how much that's exactly what's playing out. In one breath they're like "OMG ABBIE NEEDS TO STOP CRUSHING ICHABOD SHE IS TRYING TO RUIN THEIR MARRIAGE" and in the next "AW LOOK AT THOSE BUDDIES! MUCH CHASTE! VERY FRIENDSHIP!"

Fuck these rhesus monkeys brah.

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what pisses me off most about the introduction of floptrina’s parents is the fact that i know it’s an attempt by goffman to make his white fave seem more interesting. but let’s be real, it’s too late. no one cares about katrina’s character development.

secondly, we haven’t met mama and papa mills yet. so far crane’s wife, son, father, and ex-bff have been introduced and next season we’re gonna meet his boring ass in-laws. the most we’ve seen of abbie’s family is jenny and briefly grace and joseph dixon. the scales are unbalanced in favor of crane and his boring ass family and i’m tired of it.  

i wanna know why mama mills made abbie and jenny memorize bible verses. i wanna know about her illness and what ultimately made her leave her babies. i wanna know where she is now. i wanna know why papa mills drank so much. i wanna know why he left his wife and daughters. i wanna know where he is now.

i adore crane, but what i don’t want is more of crane’s family drama at the expense of abbie.

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I know a lot of people think I ship Ichabbie, and to be sure, I’m not against it a would love it to be canon but I’m findng myself more and more unwilling to ship it. Not because of the chemistry - that actually makes it really hard not to ship it because…

Yes exactly. All of this. It’s even more telling with how they played Luke. Because they really could be at least friends again, maybe lovers. Instead Abbie rebuffs him unnecessarily and Andy outs the fear of god in him. With Corbin deceased the only other person in Abbie’s life it’s her sister. And that’s fine until we are shown that she’s not a priority but Crane and his happiness is. So Abbie is set up took be this chaste nun that ships Ichatrina. Girl what about your happiness?

Can't even really much add to this, cuz every damn thing I've been thinking ya'll put out there. I lost my shipping juice in the middle and have since been silently supporting ya'll but no longer on board... more like on dock. The beginning was cute, when their bond was really about them, so it seemed. The partnership and the two witnesses having each other's backs, and exploring Abbie's emotions and relationships.

Then it did a full swap on us and made it all about the poorly contrived ichatrina and Ichabod’s angst, while in the meantime Abbie was sidelined and told countless times by Ichabod to stay out of his business and wait out front while he saves the day. And she's just cool with being his emotional beck and call. She's okay framing her life around him. Who is Corbin? Who is Luke? Who is Andy? Who is Jenny?

Then all of Ichabod’s rancid behavior is swept under the rug and they're cool with each other, but all he does is blah blah blah Katrina. And Tom can't even muster a fragment of deep emotion in that woman's presence and every time she's even mentioned I'm painfully aware that I'm watching a TV show. The illusion is broken.

But basically... Yeah. They're not treating Abbie right in this show. They can talk all day about co leads but she has become Ichabod’s Robin and they're not exploring her depths anymore and are doing her relationships little justice. Ichabod and Abbie are not equal in the narrative as her life is now framed around the Cranes and their poor decision. But, apparently, she doesn't mind it.

Yeah fuck that.

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CAN WE TALK ABOUT ICHABOD AND ABBIE’S FRIENDSHIP PLEASE

Last time I check Abbie does not identify as a man so why are people still referring to her a bro?

are they still gonna be the ultimate brotp when they fuck each other senseless

Oh I’ve completely given up at this point. Why should I hold back in the face of endless stupidity?

making fun of them is better for my sanity

And, once again, the OP’s blog is still a shrine to white people. Just once, I would like to see something else, but that would be asking too much it seems.

IKR? ULTIMATE BROTP!

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I honestly wouldn’t even mind the friendship thing so much if they didn’t insist on desexualizing Abbie in order to maintain it. They’ll talk a pretty lie about how refreshing it is to see a man and a woman lead be just friends while trying to take away Abbie’s identity as a woman. 

Exactly. No one gives a fuck if you're scared of a black woman in a healthy, loving relationship. You are not new. But let her remain a woman.

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just saw the SH spoiler that said "two walk in and two walk out." Goddammit, Katrina's fucking getting out of purgatory!! And that means either Abbie gets stuck in purgatory or stuck with Katrina. I'm honestly not sure which of these is worse. So no matter what, I'm gonna be pissed off for 9 months. Although Nicole saying season 2 would be drastically different implies it's gonna be the Abbie and whats-her-face fight evil and try to save Ichabod from purgatory show. Not here for that.

 are you serious.

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JFC THIS IS LITERALLY THE WORST THING EVER NOOO

Well hopefully this inspire some lesbian fan fiction because lord knows there’s not enough

Abbie/Katrina smut … 

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Abbie sees through the BS and doesn’t have the time for the lies. So…nah she’s good.

why is she gonna sacrifice herself to free katrina for the greater good or some shit though… i mean i only watched the trailer for the finale once but i feel like this is happening? i don’t know

i don’t want to know

IDK it makes no damn sense at all. Abbie’s not some save a hoe and there is no greater good in freeing Ms. Shady pants from Purgatory. Between Orlando’s tweet about the reactions of us which coming from him is side eye worthy and anon’s post…I’m seriously gonna need some alcohol in my system and I hate alcohol

yep i’m gonna be like 

I’d readily incest ship Abbie/Jenny before even considering an Abbie/Katricka friendship. That witch bitch too basic to so much as smell Abbie’s air.

If they try to make Abbie the Righteous sacrificing herself for the greater White good, I'm afraid I'mma havta bounce. I'm not here for no Abbie - Katrina buddy team thing either. Like they need to leave the things that work, aka ichabbie, the Mills kicking at and mending their bond etc etc, aloneeee. No more ichatrina pushed at us at Abbie's expense. And no more martyr Abbie mess either. I am not and won't be here for that.

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