Astro-Observation - Leadership vs. Confidence

If I read “you’re a born leader” with Leo/Capricorn/Aries/Sagittarius placements one more goddamn time I swear…

Having natural confidence isn’t mutually exclusive with wanting to lead people. Sometimes these placements come off as leaders because they attract attention, which they may or may not like. I’m sorry, but unless there are placements that are more on the humanitarian side of the zodiac in someone’s chart, the Leo/Cap/Aries/Sag people more often than not are relishing in the benefits and power of status and popularity than anything else. That doesn’t make them heartless, they’re just real about it. Having public recognition is thrilling for these placements and there’s nothing wrong with that! Don’t sugarcoat it by calling them “leaders”. How many Instagram influencers would you call “leaders”? They’re entrepreneurs and personalities.

Leadership comes with a cause. Confidence comes with power.

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I get that “born leader” shit because of my Leo ASC vibes, but I wouldn’t even have a modicum of patience for people if I didn’t have my wonderful Cancer dom mother (with an Aqua moon) raising me and teaching me the value of caregiving and not abusing your power while doing so, which I think reflects my Mars in Cancer and Aqua stellium (Sun, Merc, and Sat). BUT do I genuinely enjoy leading and taking care of people? My Aries in Venus says fuck to the no with my Leo ASC and Sag NN. My Gemini moon shows how I can switch from one to the other too depending on the social situation, but trust me, I’d rather focus on me. I know how to be a caretaker and a leader. That doesn’t mean I actually AM one, let alone like it lol. People are interesting, but I don’t want to babysit them everyday of my life. The people I care about most are those who have earned my trust and are capable of taking care of themselves, and I’ll know that when they ask for help, it’s fucking serious. But other than that, my Nep/Ura in Cap in my 6th house said I got shit to do.

The placements that have the highest potential to be productive leaders, if you ask me, are Cancers, Virgos, Aquariuses, Libras, and Scorpios. Y’all keep calling this group a bunch of overthinking crybabies, but at least they’re thinking about other people with empathy and a sense of justice lmao.

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moonlitmagic

Tips on Invoking Mars/Aries

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Mars loves pine!
To invoke Mars, use pine scents, offer pinecones, burn pine branches or decorate altars/sacred spaces with them, leave them as offerings.
Color association! Wear red to invoke mars and feel confident and willing to stand up for yourself. Especially helpful if you are a more passive person
Carry a red stone to help you be more confident and speak up
Consider what time of day/night you are invoking Mars. Try to do so when he is overhead, as he will be likely to "hear" you better
In music, Mars is brass or rhythmic instruments. Of course, it depends on which one, and there is some variation, but i'll post a bit more info on this soon
Spoken invocation also works, try words of praise and saying the name of the planet/god multiple times
The more of these things you use in combination with each other, the more likely you are to invoke to energy of Mars

A short post this time, just a few tips! Though if y'all have questions or requests please let me know and I can make it happen :)

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#planetary invocation #invocation #planetary energy #astrology #color magic #color association #mars #aries #invocation of mars #witchblr

lonelyleliel

This sun/venus in Aries energy is a beautiful vibe.

#astrology #Aries #sun in aries #venus in aries

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mermaidastrology

“I am boiling inside and out. Everything is burning, my soul, body, outside, inside, heart, flesh… Do you understand? Do you really understand.”

—

Maria Casares

Quotes that remind me of Aries

Source: mermaidastrology

#aries #aries quotes #maria casares #quotes #astrology

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imawitchywitch

Fire signs 🔥

Instagram - Facebook - Zodiac prints

#fire signs #astrology #zodiac #witch #witchcraft #zodiac signs #aries #saggitarius #leo #witch art

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scorpiofx

Anonymous asked:

Hi! Can you do aries venus culture? Thank you.

scorpiofx answered:

loves the chase, not always the relationship
takes a lot for them to want to commit to someone
frequent mood swings towards partner (wants forever with them one day, wants to break up the next)
when in love, feelings are so ridiculously intense and powerful
loves with their entire being
prone to jealousy
has to be careful of being overprotective of friends and s/o
very expressive in their love; going to show off their friends/loved ones everywhere and every way they can
pure love ; aries venus love style is very ‘young love’ or ‘first love’, no matter how old they get
tend to get heartbroken very easily because they have a very pure and optimistic view towards love
they might often avoid dating for a long time, not just because their pickiness with committing to someone but because of their fear of being hurt and vulnerable
hard for them to be vulnerable and intimate with people in general (be it friends, significant others, etc)
they show love heavily through encouraging independence, showing their s/o or friends new places, introducing their loved ones to new people; just taking them to new heights, on new adventures, etcetc
LOVE. AT. FIRST. SIGHT.
defends their loved ones until death
will probably ask you out first (depending on mars)
may have a very “dark” aesthetic, fashion style is either going to be very bright/bold and out there or very very dark and pretty vampire-like or emo lol
despite being quite forward and initiators; aries venus needs a LOT of guidance in love because they don’t ever really know what they’re doing

#aries venus #venus #aries #placementculture #needed a tag for these #anonymous #question

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When you need a pep talk and a confidence boost, consult an Aries.

When you need a helping hand and useful advice, consult a Taurus.

When you need help solving complex problems or adapting to new experiences, consult a Gemini.

When you need to a night to relax, cry, and vent to a friend, consult a Cancer.

When you need to let loose and pamper yourself, consult a Leo.

When you need to work on your flaws and organize your life, consult a Virgo.

When you need to evaluate a decision or realize your worth, consult a Libra.

When you need to embrace your dark and overcome life’s difficulties, consult a Scorpio.

When you need the push to make a major risk or get away from your mundane life, consult a Sagittarius.

When you need someone to help you deal with setbacks and to offer you “tough love” lectures, consult a Capricorn.

When you need help accepting your differences and standing up for yourself, consult an Aquarius.

When you need a new perspective and a soothing vibe, consult a Pisces.

#astrology #Zodiac #Zodiac Signs #astrology signs #Aries #taurus #Gemini #Cancer #leo #virgo #libra #scorpio #Sagittarius #Capricorn #Aquarius #Pisces

lonelyleliel

To My Witches With Their Moon or Venus In Aries

I feel led to say today, on this Dark Moon in Aries, that this is the ideal time to do a spell, ritual, incantation, or meditation for any emotional insecurities you have. This is the time for manifesting self-acceptance and prosperity and banishing the idea that because you are “too intense” when it comes to loving or connecting with others that you simply can’t. This is the time to reinforce the grit you have when it comes to protecting your loved ones; banish the naysayers who resent you for your loyalty and integrity. The moon is dark tonight so your fire can burn bright. Blessings.

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#dark moon #dark moon ritual #dark moon in aries #new moon in aries #aries

lonelyleliel

Happy Aries Season

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(Please don’t punch anyone this month)

#aries #mars #march 20th

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astroluve

Venus In Aries people are blunt and direct in love, nothing is sexier, lovelier or sweeter than openly flirting and being honest with them when interested. They want to show you and win your heart by projecting their independence, fiery passion and free spirit. They have an aura about them, that’s innocent and of a childish nature that may even be a bit self centered. They behave and love in a fun, jovial manner. When they see something they want they go and get it, they won’t like you being vague or too hard to get. They don’t want to be oppressed, they want to be uplifted and encouraged, driven and fly with their partner. In this case they usually if not all the time like to be the leader in the relationship, they like taking you along and you must let them. They can be adamant on Love, they want to chase and also be chased. They have a lot of passion and little patience, they want you now and they will get you. They express their affection and sexuality with enthusiasm, spontaneous actions and activities. They want someone that can keep up with them, that inspires them and that can go on every adventure they have dreamt of and plan on doing with your support following them!

#astrology #astrology signs #venus #venus aries #zodiac #aries #me #gotta learn to love this side of me more

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Sun: Soul, Energy, Battery, Functions, Shine

Moon: Maternal Instincts, Intuition, Phases

Mercury: Spacial awareness, Functionality, Processing

Venus: Values, Love, Vanity, Relations

Mars: Offense, Tactics, Primal Instincts

Jupiter: Openness, Travels, Luck

Saturn: Structure, Disciplines, Grandship

Ascendants: Confidence, Stability, Technique, Formal

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etherealeo

pretty words that remind me of the signs

Aries: Ebullience {English} (n.)- bubbling enthusiam

Taurus: Komorebi {Japanese} (n.)- sunlight filtering through trees

Gemini: Epiphany {English} (n.)- a moment of sudden revelation

Cancer: Dulcet {English} (adj.)- sweet & soothing

Leo: Naz {Urdu} (n.)- the pride you feel from being loved

Virgo: Sonder {English} (n.)- the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own

Libra: Redamancy {English} (n.)- an act of loving the one who loves you; a love returned in full

Scorpio: Commouvere {Italian} (v.)- to move someone to tears

Sagittarius: Cafuné {Portuguese} (n.)- the act of tenderly running one’s fingers through someone’s hair

Capricorn: Orenda {Iroquoian} (n.)- a mystical force present in all people that empowers them to affect the world, or to effect change in their own lives

Aquarius: Meraki {Greek} (v.)- to do something with soul, creativity, or love; when you leave a piece of yourself in your work

Pisces: Petrichor {English} (n.)- the pleasant smell after it rains