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Being The Best Man I Can

@localtransdude / localtransdude.tumblr.com

He/him|FtM|💪8/2/18💉|🔪6/14/19🔪 | 20 | side blog | neurodivergent | I am not a discourse blog | porn blogs go away
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I’m not here to argue or start discourse and if you disagree with something I say, just keep scrolling. A lot of my views have changed since 2018. I was a former discourse blog but now I just want to be a regular transman and live my life and help other men. That being said, feel free to message me if you need help with trans stuff. 11/23/2020

I would like to add, I deeply regret and cringe at a lot of my old posts (2017-2019ish). However, I have so many posts that the amount of time it would take to private all of them is not something that is accessible to me. I private/disable reblogs as they appear on my notes. I apologize for the harm they may have caused. 8/15/2022

I tag ftm triggers as “/ [trigger]” and non-ftm triggers (EDs, self harm, etc) as “tw: [trigger]”. I only tag common triggers. I follow/reply from @/thekidnapvan

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Well, she said she liked me today and I told her I liked her too and so now I will have to come out to her eventually and it’s not that I’m scared to it’s just ughhhh cause it’s always so awkward at first

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An update no one asked for but like a few weeks ago we were out and I decided to be big brain and come out to her without having to say it. I have a dysphoria playlist of Spotify and so I told her to look for an old playlist I knew was really down there and my dysphoria playlist would show as well. She saw it and didn’t even register what is was until I asked her about it later. She knows I have an ED and just thought it was body dysmorphia lmaoo. She even clicked on it but just didn’t scroll far enough down to see “transgender dysphoria blues” on there.

That being said, that’s as the easiest and least daunting coming out has ever been. And the whole, “3 day awkward period” didn’t even happen. We just kept talking and things were perfectly normal. But also, she is asexual so like, it REALLY did not matter

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another update no one asked for: I’m writing this in bed, and she’s lying with me. It’s our bed, in the apartment we share. With our cats, one which we raised together, sleeping in the living room. She forgets I’m trans, and I do too sometimes.

#he speaks#I deserve a cherry pie
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Hey gang, I know I’m not nearly as active on here anyways as I used to be, but I am here to say it will probably be a hot minute before I post again

To put it quite bluntly, I’ve been struggling with a sex addiction for quite some time now and tumblr has been a big source of that recently, so I will be uninstalling it. Yes, I could access the mobile/desktop website but I absolutely hate the format so I don’t think I will lmao.

Love yall, yall been the best supporters of my transition. See yall when I get a grip on this whole addiction thing. Remember, jackets are great but bunching up the sleeves to bulk up your shoulders is even better :)

#he speaks
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matt-is-trying asked:

Hi! I came across your blog because of an old post you made about transmasc outfits. I am very short (almost 5'2) and I'm also skinny, but my thighs are quite big (genetics, I think). Men's clothes are too big for me, but I feel awkward wearing boy's clothes, even though I can get away with it because I'm still a teen. Shorts are a nightmare because there are too loose on my waist and too tight on my thighs. Do you have any tips? (sorry to bother, as well)

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Hey brother, so I’m also right around your height, and I can’t recommend wrangler enough. For pants, they have a lot of room in the hip and thigh area while still fitting the whole leg, but you’re best bet is going to be to get the tailored for the length (easy tutorials online, my mom worked in a fabric store so she usually helps me). Given our height, pants are hard to find for that reason. Shorts on the other hand can be more finicky as you said. I’ve found a lot of luck in Walmart shorts (George brand), they tend to run a little wider in the leg but don’t balloon like others.

Less fashionable, but honest life savers early in my transition were cargo shorts. They were always roomier in the thigh. My problem area has always been more my hips than my thighs, but these did wonders and I’d assume for you, they might hide your thigh bulk with the pockets, giving the illusion that that’s what’s making your thighs bulkier.

There’s no shame in wearing boys clothes, esp at your height. My dad wears child size beanies. I have pajama pants from the boys section and one of my favorite long sleeves is an XL in boys. I stayed wearing stuff in the boys section until I was well into 16. By then my body kinda bulked out.

With that figure and height and just being trans, we don’t have lots and lots of outfit options or clothes options, but when we find them, they’re gold. You just have to keep looking, and keep what you find so you can grow what you have. A little mundane but hey, it means we won’t fall into fast fashion right? Lmao, best of luck king, if you need anything else dw just send away

#ask#ftm
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I love my relationship dynamic bc we both are bi and both have our days where we want to express ourselves outside of the cishet norms so she’ll dress really masc or I’ll be feeling like being really flamboyant and we can do these things. It’s not like “I’m in a het relationship so I have to feed into those roles” we just are who we want to be whenever. Get you a partner who loves you in all variations of yourself.

#she loves me at my fruitiest#not to mention it makes us both feel secure in ourselves#so there isn’t that insecurity of being#not manly or girly enough for the other#he speaks#bi#bisexual
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Anonymous asked:

Saying this 100% respectfully you’re hot af dude! Keep at it

LMAOO thanks you anon, I needed the ego boost

#anon#ask
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Therapist does in fact think I have autism and I’m like yay possible diagnosis? But also now I have to like, process and accept that and suddenly I don’t want to cause now it’s real

#he speaks
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