liothediabolus reblogged
u guys know sexuality gender and the way u feel attraction can change right. u know you can put labels on and off right. nothing is solid swim a little if you like etc
normalize saying "it was a phase, mom". in a way that doesn't take away that it was real.
this should go without saying but this is also especially true if you identified as ace and then suddenly you're head over heels in sexy romantic love. or if you were bi and then are suddenly feeling hetero feelings only. there's nothing shameful about that. maybe it was real, maybe you we're figuring things out - that's for you to know only.
#sometimes i wonder if im not actually ace anymore#or if i was ever really ace at all and just confused it w aromanticism#idk yet#i definitely think its a possibility#but ive been using ace as a label for so long its scary to let go of it#and demisexuality is so broad that i feel p comfy still using it even if my experiences align far closer#to the non ace rather than ace side of things#so alas#but who knows#maybe in a few years i'll change it again#gender#sexuality