You were incredibly patient and polite with that little debate you had going there. After a while, I personally would've gotten very aggressive 'cause it's like "NO UR NOT GETTING IT" (then again, I kinda identify as a rage player lol). I admire your patience.
thanks lol n haha yeah stuff like debating and arguing i never really see as negative, so i never feel negative emotions attached to it
to me its like, when two people debate its like two people trying to carry a coach up stairs and into an apartment
youre at different ends with the same goal in mind focusing on different things and it can be hard to see what the other persons doing, but you still gotta figure out eachother and ultimately help eachother figure out where the coach is gonna go, help eachother manuevre around corners and hallways and fitting through doorways all while carrying something heavy
and sometimes people can work together nicely and smoothly and figure how to carry the coach effectively, and other times it ends in frustration with the other person not doing the thing you want them to do and a coach falls on somebody and then nothing gets anywhere and people get sore feet cuz a coach got dropped on them, not very productive lol
id rather just keep my focus on the task at hand, where is this coach going and how do we get it there lol nothing else matters and no worries we’ll get there in time, even if we have to stop and take breaks and figure out our next moves or whatnot lol its easygoings and really were working together lol not a race to see who can get the coach there first yea?
this is the best metaphor for arguing i have seen in forever