Eh, you're right, I was just caught thinking about classics like Utena & SM; I'm aware of the problems Japan has, I just feel like it's not my place to harp on them. Re: Madoka. 'Course it's not a show for little girls, it has always been marketed as a shounen. Overall darkness & emotional suffering is the exact reason why I like it though - honestly, there's nothing wrong with dark themes. Also, Utena is way more depressing, so I really can't see why people bash one & celebrate the other.:/
Utena has been made to specifically call out and deconstruct sexist tropes (witch vs princess... yeah) and it does not go out of its way to sexualize the main female characters. It’s dark and heavy but it’s not fanservice for male audience.
I prefer dark&heavy themes and emotional suffering to actually mean something. To point something out, to teach a lesson, something. There has to be a point.
Utena has a point. Princess Tutu has a point (holy shit that one was also pretty dark).
Madoka... well it pretends to but when we look at what exactly the themes and ideas are it’s a bit repulsive.
My most emotional trauma came from Mai HiME, Puchi Puri Yuushi and one other show that I can’t remember the name of and can’t find in my anime tag but one that had a disabled magical girl from the start but it was all revealed to be evil... whatever the fuck that even was I can’t really bring myself to remember the plot. The Hero Club one. Uuuuuuugh