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Aremo Shitai Koremo Shitai Onna no Ko ni Mietatte

@lilietsblog / lilietsblog.tumblr.com

Wow, it's been like 10 years since I updated this. Neat. I've made a dreamwidth blog just in case tumblr dies. I think dreamwidth is neat. My username on Discord is Liliet#1061 (and no I don't intend to update it, they're asking but they haven't tried to force me yet). My username on reddit is LilietB. Read PGTE. Homestuck is great. Peace and love on the planet Earth. I'm Ukrainian. Wish us luck.
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I fucking despise when things fake being higher quality than they are. I don't mean like slapping a slightly misspelled brand name onto an identical non-designer product for purely aesthetic reasons I mean like rivets or thread that are actually glued down rather than punched or stitched. Fake pockets on jeans that are actually just an extra seam. Heavy looking chain that's plastic or very soft flimsy metal rather than anything sturdy. I bought boots which looked like they had a stitched sole 8 months ago and lo and behold the glue holding the sole on is revealing itself by falling apart. You PUT a STITCH IN THERE. YOU HAD THE NEEDLE AND THREAD. AND YOU DIDNT ACTUALLY STITCH DOWN THE FUCKING SOLES. Oh it makes me so mad. Cheap cunts taking the aesthetics of durability or practicality while handing you a product that won't last you the year

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lilietsblog

Here's the worst example of something like this I've ever seen: two pockets one overtop each other at a slight diagonal, the top one being smaller. Quiz time! Was the top pocket

a) stitched to the bottom pocket, leaving both functional,

b) stitched THROUGH the bottom pocket, leaving like 1cm of it accessible?

There's no prize for getting the answer right, just depression.

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cr: 百变花央

I’m out here buying tshirts and pants like a chump while some people are just wearing the world’s best rectangles

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vergess

I swapped to a silk rectangle based wardrobe in 2019 and it was the best decision of my life. I have not bought new clothes since then because rectangles have no seams to tear or add stress. And I look cooler than everyone else in town. I am a fixture of my community (weird brightly coloured lesbian with poodles).

Highly highly recommend.

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unpretty

wayne enterprises almost certainly has clothing as one of their retail subsidiaries and i like to imagine it getting really profitable just because bruce spends so much time listening to models bitch at parties. all of their product lines have names like “It Has Real Pockets” and “Not See-Through” and “Full-Length Sleeves” and “Secret Elastic Waist”. the marketing department is like “okay obviously these are all working titles” and bruce is like “no. leave it. that is what it’s called.” and they try to talk him out of it but he owns a helicopter and you can’t argue with a man who owns a helicopter. they sell so fast. the women of gotham are well-dressed and comfortable and always have somewhere to keep their phones.

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Wait, wait…. Is that seriously it? How their clothes go?

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lilietsblog

I... when I saw this post... went and found 2 old sheets... and made the secone one of those (the one that requires much less measuring and sewing) (the Dorian one)

I can't say it looks good, in all fairness, nor that it looks like that. I mean, there was SOME measuring to be done, and the draping there is much more idealized... also it was probably the wrong fabric.

But it sure does hold, and it sure does, well, behave exactly like that! I'll post photos when I take some, but meanwhile, I'm wearing the abomination, and it's hella comfortable in the weird intensely-heated-but-still-winter temperature conditions of our apartment. Although I could probably also use socks.

(It's very hard to not smear with food when you are around some, and the belting took some practice to get right so everything wouldn't be underfood and in the way - there's A LOT of extra fabric in there - but as a result I could actually conceal the holes in the sheets that caused them to be discarded and usable for weird projects ^^)

(If I like this proof of concept a whole lot, I might want to buy actual normal fabric and try to sew and actual normal non-shitty one. That would be cool)

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the gap also has “girlfriend jeans” which made me perk up for about .2 seconds before i remembered how straight women use the word girlfriend. though i still don’t really understand what exactly that’s supposed to convey about the jeans

“‘The Girlfriend is a more feminine version of the boyfriend jean cut, so yes, you could say she’s you!’ explains TOPSHOP Jeans Buyer Keda Rich.”

the jeans marketing has looped back on itself. normal women’s jeans, but about men somehow

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solacekames

I’d be scared to put those jeans on, they’re so conceptually complicated they might flip my ass into a mirror universe

I’d say it’s pretty basic structuralism. I’m not hugely well-read on Levi-Strauss, and only a very little better on his later “post-structuralist” deconstructionist critics like Foucault, so my ideas about structuralism are pretty third-hand, but from what I’ve read and been told of it, it seems to me that if you take heteronormativity and patriarchy as “structures” of our society, then the “Girlfriend cut jeans” based on the “boyfriend cut” makes perfect sense. They are recasting normal woman’s jeans as the jeans of a woman who “belongs” to a man, thereby reinforcing via messaging(you are a woman, these are appropriate for you, it is appropriate for you to be the girlfriend of a man) conventional gender-roles/sexuality as a typically weird and fevered response to growing female agency, equality, and gender/sexual openness by the industrial forces of Reaction.

They also replicate in jean-form the conventional hetero-patri-capitalist narrative originated in Roman “Adventure” Novels(and carried through, into the Medieval period and beyond, by works like the Sinbad stories). The Boyfriend(male) cut “inspires” and leads while the girlfriend(female) cut is led and acquired; it trailblazes and innovates while the “girlfriend cut” follows behind, emulating it and piggybacking upon its success. And of course, it does all this through patriarchy’s favored method, Appropriation; the “girlfriend cut” already existed as just plain “women’s jeans” and filled its function more or less fine(I mean, they could be roomier, sturdier, last longer and have actual pockets, obvsl, but they were clothes and reasonably wearable, for a certain strained definition of “reasonable”), but in renaming them after a successful male rebranding campaign, they have been conceptually repurposed to serve the conservative social-engineering goals of our patri-capitalist overlords(how serious am I being with this? *shrug-emoji.gif* :p).

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WHY WON’T YOU TAKE MY MONEYYYYY?

My frustrations with the clothing industry can be summed up in this one wailing lament.

Listen, industry, I’m not the one at fault here. I like my squishy body just fine, or at least I’m working real hard at getting there. And that’s a good thing. So I’m not gonna play your game anymore and get mad at myself because I can’t find anything that fits when I shop for clothes. Why should I be mad at myself for your failure to provide me with the one thing you’re supposed to provide? That seems like an unfair portion of blame ending up on my shoulders. That seems like I’m carrying the blame couch upstairs all by myself and you’re just touching it with one finger and pretending to carry it. It’s your couch, friend, pull your weight! But don’t worry - we can fix this. We can get rid of the need for blame altogether with this simple solution:

MAKE IT IN MY SIIIIIZE.

See, here’s thing: it can be cute, affordable and right in front of me, but if it’s not in my size then it may as well be the emperor’s new clothes (though at least those would definitely fit me). If it’s not in my size, I’m not going to buy it. If I don’t buy it, you don’t get my money. You know who gets my money? Me. I have more money, and you have less money. That sounds like a pretty bad business plan, huh? But if you made it in my size then I would buy it, you would have more money and we’d both win! See how easy it is?

Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that you’re a disaster and I hope the couch falls on your foot.

There was a time, owing to some interesting medicinal side effects, when I was suddenly skinny with triple D boobs.

“Great!” sez I. “I have achieved the thing society has been telling me I am supposed to look like! The fact that I can only eat three bites of food at a stretch is troublesome, but by god, now I can buy the wardrobe I have never been able to buy!”

And I went out.

And Not A Damn Thing Fit.

I cannot tell you how pissed I was. I was conforming! I was doing the thing I was told to do! I looked like I was supposed to want to look! And STILL there were no clothes?!

I uttered many curses and when I finally went off those meds (which, since I had dropped so much weight, had made my blood pressure so low that I kept graying out when I stood up–I am overweight again now, but my blood pressure has always made angels weep with envy, and it’s still way on the low side) I no longer felt bad that clothes didn’t fit. They hadn’t fit when I was exactly what I was told to be, so clearly it was the designer’s fault, not mine.

Screw it. Is there any other product on earth where if something fails utterly to work, we blame ourselves instead of the product? If the mechanic puts the transmission in wrong, it’s not because my car didn’t want it enough. If my travel mug leaks, I don’t blame water for being so revoltingly liquid. If my copy of Dragon Age freezes on every third cutscene, I have a lot of things to say about the company, but somehow I do not scream at my thumbs that their position on the controller must be at fault and jeez, maybe if I just had better thumbs I wouldn’t have to keep rebooting and fiddling with the settings.

We have seriously been sold a bill of goods on this one.

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lilietsblog

I, myself, am not overweight, far from plus-sized. I'm just slightly chubby, well within the accepted norm. I never even got a second look on the beach.

I am just short.

Not even like... dwarf short. I'm 155 cm tall. I've met quite a few girls shorter than me. I'm not a far out there outlier.

My mom has never, ever been able to find any pants that fit me without trimming.

When you got a choice between jeans that have your leg length but don't fit around your hips and jeans that make your butt look hella fine but are additional 20 cm long, it's clear what you take. My latest jeans are not even trimmed yet, I just roll them up and walk like that.

This has been a problem long before I suddenly switched from "tiny child eats too little" to "fat, needs to exercise more and not eat after 8", so I never got body image issues from that. I just knew that clothing industry was fucking ridiculously awful at actually providing clothes for all sizes and body types.

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Traditional African attires
(<Sekai no MINZOKUISHO Zukan (世界の民族衣装図鑑)> Japanese Illusrators Drawing Many Different Kinds of Traditional Costumes.)
1. Gomesi : Ugandan Traditional Clothing &  Traditional Clothes of Maasai People in Tanzania
2.  Traditional Clothes of Afar People in Djibouti, Ethiopia and Eritrea & Traditional Clothes of Herero People in Namibia, Botswana and Angola
3. Royal Court Dress of Kuba Kingdom in Democratic Republic of the Congo & Mushanana : Rwandan Traditional Clothing
4. Milaya Lef : Egyptian Traditional Veil & Djellaba (جلابة) & Moroccan Traditional Clothing
5. Traditional Clothes of the Amazigh  (the indigenous people of North Africa) & Gandoura (قندورة)  &Traditional Clothes of Algeria and Morocco
6. Kente : Akan Traditional Clothing & Haik : Algerian Traditional Veil
Sources 
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forever reblog. dat elbow

The second panel. What a fucking SLUT. Respect yourselves, women!11!!! How else can you expect a guy to ever respect you?

her shoulders. they’re… bare.

She’s obviously a brazen whore, revealing her forearms like that.

guys please can we tag this stuff as not safe for court

HARLOT

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Casually posts this at 3 am when no one is going to see it. 

but FOLDS hoyl shit folds folds are so awesome man you literally have no idea I like drawing folds som uch I’ll put them in places where they don’t even belong sometimes. Honestly this is far from definitive and is just my understanding of how folds works gleamed from hours upon hours staring at strangers pants on mass transit, so don’t take my word for it, do your own study! Look at your own jeans in the mirror! look at other peoples jeans! google jeans on the internets! Each different fit is going to come with it’s own folds, depending on factors like the cut of the leg and how much fabric there is and how heavy it is and man there are just so many variables and things to think about it’s awesome

THANK YOU

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rosalarian

This deserves so many reblogs.

Feminism is having a wardrobe malfunction.
Does your brand of feminism remove barriers for women, or simply move them around? Does is expand options for women, or does it just shift them? You don’t liberate women by forcing them to choose option B instead of option A. What is comfortable for you might not be comfortable for someone else, and it’s entirely possible that what you see as oppressive, other women find comfortable or even downright liberating.
Some women would feel naked without a veil. Some women would find it restrictive. Some women would feel restricted by a bra. Some women would feel naked without one. Some women would feel restricted by a tight corset. Others love them. Some wear lots of clothes with a corset. Some only wear the corset and nothing else. What makes any article of clothing oppressive is someone forcing you to wear it. And it’s just as oppressive to force someone not to wear something that they want to wear.
— rosalarian
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Hi, I looked through the tags to see if there was anything about clothing but there wasn't, so I hope this hasn't been addressed before and that it's fine to direct my question to this blog: I would like to know how realistic it is to fight in heels, stilettos and such? A lot of stories, movies, etc. have been doing it for ages, but imo it just doesn't sound like a good idea. There seems to be a lot of challenge and danger to it

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High heels are like bikini battle armor. In the realm of fashion, they are helpful because of the way they draw the eye and shape the visual impression of the leg. High heels lengthen the leg, draw the eye up, and highlight the shape of the butt (and more). However, with long term use, they are very hard on the joints (ankles, knees, and hips) and can lead to long term damage.

I know there are people out there who will argue that catsuits, spandex, bikinis, and high heels are practical combat gear for women. Some of them are very well-meaning, some of them are women who buy into it. You’ve probably seen some of them on this site. They’re the ones who take the stock photographs of female martial artists doing (slightly awkward looking) high kicks in high heels as “YES GIRLY GIRLS CAN FIGHT TOO!”. Well, they certainly can but not in high heels. (I applaud the women who can do full extension sidekicks in high heels though! What flexibility! Much balance! Incredible skill! A woman who can do a high kick in high heels is a badass. It’s a testament to their mastery of their body though, not high heel combat viability.)

High heels tip the body forward, putting all the weight on the balls of the feet. If you’ve ever walked around in high heels, then you know finding your balance can be tricky (especially on slick surfaces) and running is mostly out. (You can, it’s just awkward.) The original design for high heels was 14th/15th riding boots when they were a men’s fashion choice. They were never designed for walking on land.

My personal problem with the emphasis on high heels and women’s fashion for female combat oriented characters is the emphasis on visual beauty over practicality and professionalism or any respect for the problems created by reality whatsoever

When it comes to clothing, how you dress your character does actually matter. If a creator or artist approaches their female character with the belief that women don’t fight anyway, so further sexualization of them through their clothing doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things then they are actively contributing to the dehumanization of that character and upholding that ideal that women fighting at all (much less on an even plane with men) is a fantasy. (The reality is women all over the world do fight, do take on dangerous jobs in various shapes, sizes, and personalities.)

Why? Because it prioritizes emphasis on their appearance to the outside observer over the concerns of the reality they are facing. Whoever put together their outfit was thinking primarily about how they’d be perceived not on practical choices of what they’d choose to wear for traipsing through a sewer. When I think about sewers, peep toe shoes, skinny jeans, and spaghetti straps don’t exactly come to mind first as preferred spelunking wear. Galoshes, raincoats, and pants that repel moisture, yeah. Clothes from the $5 bin I don’t mind throwing out after, sure. My Coach bag and (if I owned any) $400 Jimmy Choos? Hell, no.

A character doesn’t become more badass by ignoring the physical constraints and dangers of the world around them. They just look more stupid. The required level of suspension of disbelief is higher for these characters than their male counterparts.

Now, male artists do this for male characters too. The problem is, of course, that you can actually make a case for fighting in biker boots, a loose leather jacket, and jeans. That’s actually practical street combat wear. Leather jackets work as makeshift armor, they can absorb a fair amount of impact. Biker boots are thick, made of leather, protect the shins, and they’re designed to take impact. They armor the foot. Loose men’s jeans are practical, provide freedom of movement, and they’re durable against friction burns. They survive longer and they’re thicker than other kinds of pants. So, when Steven Stallone turns to the camera in a goofy 80s action movie and says “You don’t need to get fancy, lady.” He’s actually right. You don’t.

However, if you have Black Widow do the same in a catsuit, high heels, or even just skinny jeans, a tight fitting leather jacket, a very nice red satin shirt that exposes her breasts, and heavy makeup, it’s not exactly comparable in impact. (One of the nice things about The Winter Soldier was how practically they had her dressed when wearing civvies.) 1) Because she already is dressed fancy and 2) her clothing isn’t any more practical to the situation than the person she’s bitching out.

Plenty of Urban Fantasy protagonists, super heroines, and movie characters do this. I’m not picking on Black Widow, but she’s getting passed around a lot. Buffy did this all the time and it’s part of why I couldn’t take her seriously (especially in the early seasons). Going down into the sewers in a satin pink spaghetti strap, a mini skirt, and matching sandals. Why? Because she likes sacrificing $100 to $200 in clothing every day. Single parent home, pushing minimal income, constantly complaining about her allowance, while burning a metric shit ton on clothing every single week. How is she affording that? The answer is she’s not. The clothing just pops out of the snow, like daisies. The same can be said of the female protagonists on The Vampire Diaries.

On the other hand, I give Charmed a pass because they constantly acknowledge how hard demon fighting is on their clothing. They try to fix their clothes with magic, they have to come up with money to repair the manor, they have to buy new clothes, they think about trading in their old styles for more practical ones and decide against it. The daily rigor, the stress on their wallets, the general mundane realities of every day life are expressed in the choices and habits the characters make and maintain. If they have time before facing a given crisis, you’ll even see them go run to change. Their clothing isn’t practical, but the show at least acknowledges that and uses it to humanize their struggles with being women and demon hunting witches.

The big problem with style and fashion is they help contribute to the idea that women primarily exist in fiction (and in real life) to be looked at. They’re decorative first, even when they’re dangerous. If you remove that aspect, men and women will in fact complain.

Yes, both of them.

Women are presented with a cultural idealization of beauty day in and day out, the stereotypes we’re presented with become a part of what we expect to see and may even idealize in ourselves. Recognition of beauty, being admired, is presented as a goal all women (whether or not they can even achieve the standard)  should aspire to. Not appearing beautiful is presented as bad by media, unworthy, unable to be loved. Conform to be worthy. For many people, they want both. To fit the cultural ideal of female sexualization while simultaneously rejecting it. It’s wish fulfillment and there’s no shame in it, media has told you you’re entire life that this is what you should want to be.

It doesn’t exist, but you’ll see plenty of people try to make it so anyway like the girls I knew in gym who’d cake on makeup before going out to play basketball or run the mile.

Looks first.

To challenge the stereotypes, you have to recognize them and that may require changing how you see women in media. It’s insidious and, more importantly, not necessarily evil. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be wanted, to be beautiful, to be recognized. But how a character looks and what they wear should always, always come second to what they need to get their job done.

I try to beat this by thinking about the situation first, instead of character. I construct a character to deal with a situation. With this set up, practicality usually prevails.

I challenge you followers. When you think of a powerful woman, or a dangerous female, what do you think of first?

-Michi

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lilietsblog

1) Snow Queen (gorgeous, magical; the original one, not Elsa) 2) Lina Inverse (hell yes) the next thing I think of these days is how she should be dressed practically because lately I've been struggling to yes, overcome this ridiculous idea that women should look pretty all the time

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