The professional mourner Ofimija Houtari with a relative of hers comforting her. Karelia, 1933. Source: The National Board of Antiquities, Helsinki.
Laments survived in Karelia until the twentieth century. Performed only by women, they represent a very old genre that contains elements of prehistoric culture. Dirges, the most important kinds of laments, were sung when people died. The songs helped women manage relations between the community and the world of the dead.
Family ties remained intact after death. The dead were also seen as influencing the lives of their descendants in a number of ways. In other words, family-centredness and the cult of death were intimately connected.
The tradition of laments was strong in eastern Finland, in the orthodox areas of Karelia. Souls made their way to the kingdom of death with the help of a woman. Unless a woman sang a lament, they could not join other family members who had died but had to wander near their earthly homes as restless and dangerous creatures.
The laments unite life and death. The women often gaze in opposite directions: towards the family’s children (the future) and the those who have departed (the past). Their weeping is painful and agonised. They pray to the Creator and the dead for help in bearing the burden of their lives and raising the next generation to assume the responsibilities of adulthood.
How shall I bring up my little cranberries
And take care of my young protégés?
With sombre thoughts I start to raise them,
I shall bathe them in my abundant tears
And immerse them in the rivers of my eyes.
The tradition was a concrete manifestation of a woman’s spiritual affinity with her own family even after marriage had separated them. Eventually she would follow her parents to “the holy whiteness” or “the magnificent Creator of the kingdom of death”. As a skilled mourner, she could establish contact with departed relatives by attending official commemorative rites, visiting graves or simply by being alone.
The lament represented a powerful message both for the dead and for living family members. It allowed a woman to appeal to her listeners and convey emotions so powerful that ordinary speech, not even ballads, sufficed.
Taken from the article Sorrow and Bitterness by Nordic women’s literature. Read full article here.