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I posted about this in one of my supportive discord servers but I thought I’d share it here too if anyone has any advice. Ok so like. Is it ok that I strongly feel that my sexuality is more important than my gender? Like I'm afab and am attracted exclusively to girls and I've been out as Gay for literal YEARS before I came out/realized I was genderfluid. I mean, I'm still genderfluid don't get me wrong but it's like especially lately I care more about my sexuality/sexual orientation way more than the label of my gender. Like. Idk if I'm making any sense but like I'd be ok if someone didn't know I was genderfluid but be really hurt if I had to closet my gayness. Is that weird? It feels like it should be weird but like most of the time with my gender I'm like "Well your guess is as good as mine lmao ¯\_(ツ)_/¯" while meanwhile I'm really protective and proud and serious about being gay and I have no idea if that's normal or not(edited)Either way I feel better when I don't even think about/bother with my gender most of the time? but I'm always so proud and confidant about being gay. My gender is so confusing and complicated a lot of the time while meanwhile my sexuality is like "You're gay my dude relax n' hang out a while" without question. Am I questioning my gender again and don't even realize it? Am I just sorting mental priorities? Am I actually confused about gender but fixed on my sexuality and am only just now realizing it? AM I WEIRD??? It just took me so long to accept myself as being gay and be proud of it and not hide while meanwhile I've only discovered I was genderfluid last year so like??????? HECK I DON’T KNOW