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mental health checkpoint

@kiindr / kiindr.tumblr.com

• psychology major • future therapist • intj
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you don't have to have a clinical mental disorder in order to go to therapy. you can go to therapy even if:

  1. you are having issues with your interpersonal relationships
  2. you find it hard to regulate your emotions.
  3. you are struggling with balancing different aspects of your life.
  4. you are experiencing a stressful period.
  5. you want to gain more insight into your own thoughts, feelings, and actions.
  6. you want to build skills like time management, assertiveness, emotional management, goal setting, etc.
  7. you feel lost.
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reminders for you:

  • you are enough
  • nobody gets to decide what hurts you and what doesn't
  • you have done hard things before and you will succeed at doing them again
  • you deserve to be loved and taken care of
  • you deserve to be respected
  • you were not born to please everybody on this planet
  • it's okay to prioritise your own peace
  • you don't have to continue even if you're tired
  • please feed yourself well
  • you do not need other people to "complete" you
  • Please breathe. you will figure this out somehow. you've got this.
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things that therapy can help you with:

  • improving your interpersonal relationships
  • sorting out and planning for your goals
  • living a more structured life
  • tackling your issues head-on
  • facing your fears
  • building resilience
  • grounding yourself in the present and in reality
  • managing thoughts and emotions
  • living a better, more meaningful life
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things that do not make you a weak person:

  • being sensitive
  • crying easily
  • being affected by other people's pain
  • caring about things/people
  • being soft
  • not having traditional masculine traits
  • treating others with kindness and respect
  • 'little things' being not so little for you
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on grief:

  • it's okay to take your time dealing with loss
  • you can grieve the loss of entities that are not people and it is okay
  • there is no one way to deal with it
  • you can be actively grieving somebody/something and still find moments of respite
  • grief looks different for everybody
  • sometimes grief does not set in immediately. it's alright if it takes a little while for you to get there.
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