You don't owe anyone anything.
Life's not fair.
You can't make anyone feel any kind of way. You aren't responsibly for how people feel.
Wrong. All of it is wrong. Somewhat at least. Logically it all makes sense. But you can't possibly read that and think it's right. Because it's not. It may be logically correct but it is not morally right.
No you don't owe me anything, but you should still treat people with kindness and love. Why? Because it's right.
No, what happens in life doesn't always seem fair. But you should still treat people fairly. Why? Because it's right.
Logically speaking, no, you can't make anyone feel any kind of way. And no you don't have a written responsibility to make sure people feel well. But you do morally. Morally you have a responsibility to reach out to the hurting and you should make sure that the words you speak aren't hurting people. Why? Because it's right.
Who cares of something makes sense if it feels wrong. Sense and sensibility.