some ppl dont love you they love the way you care for them and give them attention and energy. they love what you can do for them

No toxic/draining relationships 2k17. 🤘🏾

i’d take the cash and spit in their drinks

I fucking hate customers like this

Also unless you’re just getting like a few drinks, five is a shitty tip.

Honestly if I knew beforehand that the max tip u were gonna give me would be five bucks you’d get the most minimal degree of service I could provide.

Don’t do this. This is the most disrespectful thing on earth.

“We have always talked about doing this. Boy honey wouldn’t it be fun to taunt the person likely making below minimum wage who is already expending far more emotional labor on winning our approval than we’ll ever show our own children. What if we just left money out on the table, just to watch them sing and dance for our sense of gratification and take a dollar away for every time they don’t sit back and clap like a performing seal. Boy I sure do love being a shitstain on the underpants of humanity.”

this is literally in an episode of third rock from the sun

telling someone “it could be worse” when they’re already upset does not help so stop

No offense but if one of your friends is excited about something & you make them feel stupid 4 being excited about it, you’re the worst type of person. 

THIS IS SUCH MOTIVATION

This is fucking disgusting, good god.The last thing I want life to be is predictable. FIVE YEARS, she worked on the SAME BASIC GOAL for FIVE YEARS. It’s an amazing accomplishment, great, woo-hoo for Akinosun. There is much to admire about this kind of greatness.

But my motivation to work hard in life comes from the dream that every day could be even more unexpected than the next. I’m looking to dive into chaos and use the vast breadth (rather than depth) of everything I’ve learned (plus a bit of improv) to wrestle it to the ground, not to wrap myself up in the long-term chains of committing to a single fucking skill.

Your comment is embarrassing. I wanted to reblog this directly from you to make certain that you knew that. Good luck wrestling intangible concepts at your underwater improvisation class, or whatever this was supposed to mean.

Imagine being this bitter

Have you guys seen this flag before? I feel like a lot of people assume that this is a cool way to draw the Japanese flag or something, but it isn’t.

This flag is called the Rising Sun flag. And it seems to me that people aren’t too aware of the history behind this flag and why it should not be used.

This flag was used by the imperial Japanese army. When Korea was under Japanese rule in the late 1800’s and the early 1900’s, my people were treated like animals. My great grandmother was a lucky few that wasn’t robbed of her culture and language in her generation. My great grandmother’s brother was a teacher, and Japanese men took him and rolled him in a hay carpet and beat him up. He was always sick and wobbled when he walked until the day he passed away.

These are the less scarier stories, because my mother’s family was one of the richer families. Women were kidnapped and taken as sex-slaves for the army. They were raped and were tortured. Children were beat to death by Japanese teachers. My people were used in all sorts of experiments to fulfill curiosity. I’m not gonna speak more about the terrible things because they were horrendous and inhumane. You can do some researches on your own.

I’m not much of an expert, but the Chinese also went through the similar things as we did.

But that flag was hung all around Korea during that time. This flag is a constant reminder of what my families had to go through.

This flag is no better than the Swastika. This flag will forever be tied to the horror that my people had to go through.

It is so disgusting to see people justify this flag because it “was originally a symbol for good prosperity”. Swastika was “originally a symbol of well-being”.

Does that give me the right to wear the flag around in every merchandise? and when a Jewish person comes up and tells me that it is offends them and explains the history, can I just say “It originally wasn’t the Nazi sign. It’s only cultural appreciation.”?

Absolutely not.

But when I looked up the Rising Sun Flag, it says that the use of the flag is controversial because Koreans and Taiwanese take offense to the flag, and it pretty much says that people were told not to bring it to Olympics for the sake of the butt-hurt Koreans and Chinese people. As if we weren’t supposed to take offense to this flag.

Although I’m not an expert of everything related to this, I’ll do my best to answer if you have any questions.

Also, no, I don’t have any ill feelings toward Japan. (some of my family members do, because their parents and siblings were killed and/or was tortured) Although I do want the government to acknowledge and apologize the fact that they did in fact torture my people, and teach what happened to their students. I am not angry at the Japanese citizens.

The reason why I’m making this post is because this white anime-lover boy came to school with a shirt with this flag during our school’s color wars by grade, and he has been wearing the shirt every year. Even after a lot of our Korean students asked nicely him to not wear the shirt again. Every. Year. He manages to complain about the “so much shit I got” from wearing the flag. I asked him later and he word for word said “Yeah, the Japanese raped the shit out of your women” he knew the history just as much as we did. He justified it with cultural appreciation. I know that some people may own merchandise with this flag on without knowing what it means, or even sell it without knowing. But please, it really hurts us when we see this flag justified, worn and drawn all around by all sorts of people.

So please, educate yourself, and others. Spread the word.

For context:

I just got off a ten-hour work shift. During work, my phone kept ringing incessantly. The number is an 816 area code (Missouri), but doesn’t appear in any database that I looked.

The voice in the other line was distinctly male. They used my first name–mangled it horribly, of course–and threatened to hurt my family. My last name they mocked, since it’s Castro, and they (correctly) assumed I’m a communist.

Going to the cops with this is useless. IDK if I want to take this up with my lawyers. Sadly, because I was so shaken up, I deleted the voicemail. IDK if T-Mobile keeps records of voicemails and, quite frankly, I don’t want to look.

So, yeah. Love you too, MOGAI Tumblr. Good job posting me in Stormfront and getting these crazies to dig up my name and phone number.

This is fucking horrifying. For context, this is the “anti-SGA discoursers” crowd that decided to post a lesbian of color’s contact information to Stormfront. All because she doesn’t subscribe to the idea of acephobia as a societal force of oppression.

This is dangerous. This is real, actual violence being done to real actual LGBT people who dare to disagree with the new ace discourse.

It’s not fucking funny anymore.

the people who’ve been harassing scotaboo and doing shit like this is calispaniard and officialpajamaelf in case you wanna block them...or otherwise.

when u go to reblog a post but see it was made by a Satan™ so you have to pass by it sadly

Have you ever been too nice and ended up in a situation that could’ve been avoided if you just would’ve been an ass hole??

I hate that specific brand of male that thinks they’re special because they’re cynical of everything. Example: the other day i met this guy for like two seconds and when i left i was like “have a nice day!” And he goes “don’t say that. I hate cliches.” Like we get it you just watched fight club calm down Tyler Durden

Words to live by✌

IMPORTANT

Drag huuuuhhh

PoC vs White People

It really does suck that we have to fight harder.

Things a relationship should not be:

Friendships, parents or relatives either

^^^

this is literally “buy my silence for $8000 a month” except instead of funny it’s a pedophile and abuser saying her victims have no place to speak up because they’re poor anyway roachpatrol can go die