this is not a duet

i’m not against vaping, but man, vaping two inches from my face on the subway is a ridiculous asshole kind of move. this dude was billowing like he was auditioning for the role of haunted house fog machine. the humidity in the whole car changed, he was ruining haircuts. just jump starting the water cycle. condensation was dripping down my glasses. people were slipping off poles, it was chaos. it was like watching one man try to terraform the moon. a planet with one dense, root beer scented atmosphere blocking out the sun and choking all life. 

Dear young females, if a man ever interrupts you say “excuse me I wasn’t finished.” and finish ur statement. The looks u get and his mortified reaction will make u unstoppable. demand respect.

Dear young males, if a woman is talking, don’t interrupt. be respectful.

the irony of “CULTURE SHOULD BE SHARED!!!” arguments is a lot of poc do try sharing their cultures with you and you deem it disgusting. when i suggested making paper lanterns to sell, i was literally told “nobody wnats your dirty chinese things.” when a vietnamese girl brought in mooncakes to the class, everyone spit them out in front of her and dumped their unfinished ones on me because lol im naturally supposed to like these things.

when we try to open up to you and share our cultures, you mock and degrade us and call us dirty, disgusting. you just want to cherry pick and have the watered down western-centric gaze of our cultures but never actually live the way we do cuz lol fuck those dirty ethnics amirite???

I’m sorry but the food thing, peoples mouths aren’t going to automatically adjust to food they don’t usually eat. Sure they may say it tastes sweet, but usually texture and other things play a part. That person that said “nobody wants your dirty Chinese things.” was a dick, and I’m sorry you had to deal with him/her. But let’s face it, you have people from other cultures who genuinely enjoy learning about other cultures, and when you push this “Only this skin colour can do this, and that but this skin colour can’t.” You’re basically seeing them as unworthy and below you. And that my friend is pretty clear racism. :( No not try and fool me. I know this directed at white people. Because Tumblr is a petri dish where people are cultured(lol) into hating them, seeing them as monsters, racist, and the root of all evil and wrong in the world.  And if at the rare occasion this aimed at another group of people, well then. We can all just agree that you’re pretty hateful and should probably stop looking at everything so pessimistically. :(

i get so grossed out when people make fun of other people’s appearances like u know when u overhear two guys talking about how “man she has no ass at all” or a couple of girls making fun of another girl for wearing a pair of shorts that “aren’t made for her body type” i legitimately feel sick to my stomach like why would u do that…

Wow.

This is so important yet it has so few notes

Please don’t be rude to people just because they’re not allowed to say anything back. (ie waiters, cashiers) That’s so shitty

passive aggressive family members

"guess i’ll never be a grandma"

"guess i’ll never be an aunt"

"guess i’ll never be able to dress a niece/nephew"

stop feeling so entitled to my hypothetical offspring. it is not yours. it is mine. i will grow it if i grow it. and it will be mine. not yours. i am not an incubator which grants you familial titles. jesus. go away. this “have a baby i can play with” thing is so impersonal and insensitive and annoying.

Harley & Ivy, S2 E56