Advice.

I can’t believe this just happened to me. I am a good Christian man, I don’t deserve this. Not this early in the morning.

Was he white girl?

You already know the answer to that

don’t cater to straight boys laziness by pretending they’re better in bed than they are. don’t fake orgasms. don’t tolerate bad sex. if you go down on them, ask them to go down on you. tell them how to make you orgasm. tell them if something hurts. don’t let men think they’re sex gods when they have no fucking idea what they’re doing.

Reblogging because I think this needs to be read.

If you’re feeling down, I’ll go down on you

:) :) :)

Tips for performing oral from followers

“swirling tongue works”

“Dont only lick the clit eventually after youve done that a bit a more intense yet still gentle sucking motion is what really drives an orgasm”

“Hands on the inner thighs, Grab the ass, finger, lick fast with tip of the tongue”

“ all about the clit ;)”

“ if she pushes away dont pull her back sometimes im really sensitive aand I am just re adjusting so it doesnt hurt.”

“dont be afraid to go outside the lines aka thighs etc”

“The “alphabet” if you are an absolute beginner ….basically find her clit and start making the shape of each individual letter A-Z”

“Variety of speeds while concentraiting on the clit, dont just use your tongue, but also thy lips”

“Well, for eating a girl out, just spell out the ABC’s on her clit.”

“Eating a girl out: Try licking the alphabet and finding what she likes the most, then switching between them”

“Enjoy it.”

“just build up a climax then fuckin rattle her!”

Swallowing semen

Someone asked us:

Whether it’s “okay” to swallow semen depends on whether you’re okay with it. There’s nothing unhealthy or wrong or dirty about swallowing semen, as long as you’re comfortable with it. It’s not possible to get pregnant from oral sex, whether or not you swallow. That’s because your mouth isn’t connected to your reproductive organs. But having unprotected oral sex  (whether you swallow or not) can put both partners at risk for a number of STDs, including gonorrhea, hepatitis B, herpes, and human papilloma virus (HPV). For safer oral sex, use a condom to cover the penis, or a dental dam to cover the vulva. -Alex at Planned Parenthood

Things I've learned about sex only through having it

-Keeping your fingernails reasonably trimmed is of the essence.

-It’s really not that difficult at all to take your partner’s bra off.

-The vaginal opening is further back than I had expected.

-Condoms have a smell. Not necessarily a bad smell, but it’s definitely there.

-Once in a while the penis falls out of the vagina. It just happens.

-It’s fun to just mindlessly play with your partner’s genitals afterwards.

-Washing my nose is a must after I perform oral.

-If we’re doing non-penetrative things to each other in turns, I have to do her first. If she does me first, I wind up too drained to return the favor as competently as I should be able to.

 -Shower sex is tricky. Even when you find a position that’s comfortable, there’s still the obstacle of someone potentially getting blasted with water in the face, or someone getting no water at all and being cold.

-Silly happenings during sex is inevitable once in a while. Learn to laugh at it.