this is not a duet

Since y’all always wanna talk about not romanticizing shit, how about we stop romanticizing pain and discomfort? 

Stop telling people they will only ever be successful if they take risks and leave their comfort zone.

Stop telling people that choosing contentment and security over “success” is lazy

Stop belittling disabled and mentally ill people for not “trying hard enough to overcome” their disabilities.

Stop forcing people to do things they hate to make them “grow as a person”

Stop telling people they’re supposed to hurt, that they’re supposed to be scared, that they’re supposed to be struggling to get by.