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Marko | 20 | he/him | achillean | Mostly Moon Knight/Marvel and writing stuff. Yell at me about things I like talking | writeblr is @lungs-and-gills | Icon by embrace-the-laters-gators | Ao3 | | Lungs and Gills | Fanfic Recs | My Rec Lists |
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Welcome!

Hello there! Welcome to my blog! Here’s all the shit ya need to know:

My blog is mainly Marvel and writing related, and at the moment I’m particularly excited about Moon Knight! I also have a number of other fandoms that may show up, but I often try to tag accordingly so people can block those tags. 

I’m also quite obsessed with mermaids due to my novel I’m working on, and I tag all mermaid related posts as #syreni! I love to reblog fanfic and support other fanfic writers, so all my fanfic recs can be found under #fanfic recs!

I don’t have a DNI, if I don’t like you or something you’re doing then I’ll just block you. I’m a pretty fandom drama-free blog, at the most I like to watch fandom drama go down from the sidelines like it’s a silly show lol.

Here’s where you can read my writing!

I have another blog where I post icons, phone backgrounds, etc that I’ve made, most all of them pride related: @embrace-the-laters-gators 

And I have a third blog that’s a writeblr, solely for my original writing, seperate from my fanfic: @lungs-and-gills 

Feel free to send me asks or DMs about anything, I love to talk to people about their obsessions!

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aropride

i understand toddlers cuz if i was just born a couple years ago and someone tried to get me to understand and say words while i'm growing insane amounts of teeth very quickly and painfully i'd be having a temper tantrum on the floor of a department store too

at the point in my life where whenever a kid cries in public i'm like man i get it. carry on

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Anonymous asked:

AITA for calling someone a homophobe in a queer club meeting?

This was a few years ago back in college and I still wonder if I handled this correctly.

Bit of backstory, I (now 20s gay man) had a lot of internal and external homophobia growing up, realized I was gay at a young age and tried to convince myself at “worst” I was bi and could just ignore the gay part of me, obviously didn’t work and lots of bad times followed. Eventually started working through my issue, accepted myself and came out as gay in college.

Now for the issue that occurred between me another club member who I’ll call Z (20 F). I was in my 2nd year of college and I joined the queer club on campus. It was a get together to talk about anything queer community related every other week. One meeting someone brought up the Kinsey scale and I said something about how it’s a good intro to the idea of sexuality being complex but has obvious issues. Z interjected something about a major issue being that exclusive sexualities don’t exist and everyone is some degree of bi/pan.

Well that kind of idea is a huge trigger for me and I could feel a panic attack coming on (looking back probably should’ve just left) but I stayed and told Z that was not what I meant and that I find that kind of idea invalidating and is no different from saying I’m not gay I just haven’t found the right woman. Z said she agreed with that statement and I was being ridiculous if I thought out of all the people in the world there wasn’t at least one woman who was right for me.

At that I snapped “oh so you’re just a fucking homophobe” and then the panic attack hit me and I got up and left the room as fast as I could. One of my friends ran out with me and I eventually calmed down and explained and asked them to go back and tell the club I went home.

My friend came by later and said they understood where I was coming from but that I really upset Z and that most of the club thought I went too far and could only come back if I apologized to Z. I refused and never went back. My friends thought I was in the right but the club didn’t and years later I still have conflicting feelings about it.

Hi all! OP here.

First I would like to sincerely thank everyone for their comments, I genuinely appreciate them all and this was really helpful. Wanted to clarify just a few points some people have made.

1. I did not yell at Z, there was definitely anger in my voice but I didn’t raise it. The issue was what I said, not how I said it (as far as I knew from what was communicated to me)

2. For people talking about gender/sexuality being nuanced and complicated, I absolutely agree! The variety of attractions and identities within the queer community was the exact point I wanted to make. I just think these conversations can be had without insinuating gays/lesbians don’t exist or are inherently problematic.

3. I actually transferred colleges a few months after this (for completely unrelated reasons) and joined the queer club there and had a wonderful time. I never brought this event up with them though cuz I was worried it’d be a repeat reaction, but after these results probably shouldn’t have been worried about that.

This was just always one of those things my anxious brain would bring up on sleepless nights, but I think I’ll finally be able to move on now. Lastly, huge shoutout to the LGBTQ+ community at large! Most of you are so wonderful and I’m so glad to be a part of this community. Hope everyone has a wonderful and safe pride month 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

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Not feminist as in "women should be included in the draft" but feminist as in "being drafted is a violation of bodily autonomy for any gender".

The draft should not exist. Drafting people into the military is a violation of human rights. You should not be able to force someone to risk their life. If you can't find enough people who care about a conflict to keep it going then it simply shouldn't keep going. You can't even force someone to donate a kidney using government power, why the fuck can you force them to donate their whole body and life to a cause they don't agree with or don't care about?

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the image is from an article on skin color measurement in regards to oximetry readings, it was the best I could find as far as having a decent range but a small enough number to fit in a poll

no you guys need to see these results it's really funny and also hits you like a fucking truck

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tlirsgender

People trying to pathologize like eating sweets and jerking off is wild. "I stopped doing this thing that feels good and I want more now ?? So this is an addiction and I have to keep avoiding it until the craving goes away" no you just want to enjoy things because you're a human being. Chocolate and porn and whatever aren't, like. Meth. It won't kill you to feel good. You don't have to be a medieval monk

Like yes it's possible to have an unhealthy relationship with whatever gives you the easiest dopamine hit but the thing is that that's more symptomatic of, like. Being depressed. Than pleasure itself being evil and bad for you

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lierdumoa

If you feel like you're overindulging in 1 thing, the solution is to fill your life with a variety of indulgences, not live in deprivation.

If you feel like you're overindulging in 1 thing, the solution is to fill your life with a variety of indulgences, not live in deprivation.

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akindplace

Your exhaustion is not shameful. It is not a moral failure to be physically, mentally or emotionally tired. It is okay to be overwhelmed. You're not inferior to anyone just because it's hard for you to keep up with a fast-paced life.

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A new mode of production arises out of the newly networked masses.

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praeca

Fanartists:

Thingiverse users:

Royalty free sounds

Flash games

Productivity has always been there

Because shockingly when people enjoy what they do (you make it enjoyable instead of just hammering on them) people WANT to do things!

Fanfiction authors!!

Where is the button to shout this from the rooftop?

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Just a quick not friendly reminder: someone who has apologized for past mistakes, made amends for past actions, and clearly no longer holds past beliefs, is a far better person than one who digs up old dirt and uses a person's past that no longer exists against them.

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happy birthday to all goth and emo characters whos creators in strokes of genius made your birthdays on halloween to symbolize how goth and/or emo you are. and to frank iero who this happened to in real life somehow 

thank you and happy birthday to these icons and pillars of the community

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