ive worn heart shaped glasses for almost 4 years and they are just like my Thing and i love them so much and so often people will say shit like Oh Id Love To Wear Something Like That But I Could Never Pull It Off and like... babe no one can theyre heart shaped glasses u dont wear them to look flattering or stylish or whatever u wear them to make ur soul happy

stop worrying about whether u look Nice and start worrying about whether u look like You

i didnt articulate it well so i just wanna clarify. the point of this post was not "fuck the haters wear what you want" it was "fuck the idea that clothes and accessories exist to make you look good they should exist to make you happy"

NO TIME FOR SELF-HATE YOU GOT SHIT TO DO Shop, Patreon, Books, Mailing List *•. ✧˖°`

Friendly reminder that fashion rules aren’t real, you can mix as many patterns as you want, your metals don’t have to match, you can wear boots or sneakers with dresses, clothes don’t have gender, trends are fleeting, if you’re comfortable in an outfit then it does fit your body type, every single one of your material possessions will rot into dust someday and so will you, it literally does not matter what cloth you drape your living flesh in, you are going to die and there is so escape. If you feel good in something just put it on, take a deep breath and have some tea or something.

I’d been kicking this idea around for a while and trying to think about how to articulate it. Pretty happy with how it eventually turned out! 

Sometimes I think about my reasons for getting tattoos (just for myself, not because they need justification). Adding onto this painting metaphore, I think getting ink is a way for me to put down portable roots. I move a lot and will be doing it again soon, and until I can actually settle down and paint some walls I’ll take visual control of something more accessible, namely myself.

Your gender is who you are, not what you look like (img source)

“Feminine black men”

The model: Isaiah B.

Photographer: Gina South 

This is fuckibg beautiful. beautiful man, beautiful photos, beautiful ass aesthetic. in love ❤️❤️❤️  P.S. This goes for trans men as well

Read: A Crash Course in Gender and Gender Identity

Men really think that women’s liberation is about whether or not we let them view our bodies lmao

“Which vision for women do you want?”

The vision in which no one cares about what clothing female athletes prefer but rather focus on their talent and achievements

darling, you don’t have to alter yourself to fit into your gender identity.

you don’t have to cut your hair short or dye it a funky colour.

you don’t have to wear a binder.

you don’t have to stop wearing dresses or trousers or anything.

you don’t have to feel ‘not trans enough’.

you don’t have to start wearing makeup or stop wearing makeup.

you don’t have to think in a certain way or not think in a certain way.

you don’t have to speak in a certain way or not speak in a certain way.

you don’t have to like certain things or not like certain things.

you don’t have to act in a certain way or not act in a certain way.

if you want to, that’s okay. do whatever you wish to. but if you don’t, then remember that you need not follow the gender identity stereotypes to identify as it. you make your own rules. you are not limited up to a tag. you are your own person. don’t let the mortals get you down.

I need to prove something to my mom

Reblog this if you think it’s okay for girls to wear dress shirts and ties and for boys to wear dresses to formal events

I enjoy bending the rules for male fashion. We look good in more than a suit and a tie. - Kenneth

IG: Kenneth.NoCole || SC: SigneKenn

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Honestly fuck the whole “queer people are just like you!” Respectability bullshit. I’m not like cishets thats the whole point, and a lot of lgbt people ARENT. I’m here for flamboyance, for butch girls who make old people uncomfortable, for trans people who dont pass. I’m here for all of us who are very obviously different, not just the upper/middle class cis white gay and lesbians with a picket fence and 2 kids.

Friendly reminder: Not all Nonbinary people want to look androgynous. Nonbinary doesn’t mean you can’t have boobs. Nonbinary doesn’t mean you don’t want genitals. For some it does. For some it doesn’t. Nonbinary can look feminine. Nonbinary can look masculine. Nonbinary can look like both. Nonbinary can look androgynous. But Nonbinary doesn’t have to look like anything. Nonbinary looks nonbinary. If you are nonbinary then you look nonbinary. There is no specific look you have to have.

I love grandma activities… sleeping early, drinking tea, knitting, buying ugly sweaters and tacky clothing, gardening, feeding all the neighbourhood cats, sewing… Im all abt that!