Please reblog this if you think “They” can be used as a gender-neutral singular pronoun for something. I’m trying to prove this to my ignorant parents. Please please please don’t scroll past this
How to dress steampunk I guess
EDIT: hey I appreciate the love but as the notes grow on this post I am seeing more and more transphobic shit on here. For those posting/tagging this with things like “he looks so good” and “I love men in dresses”; I am not a man. I’m nonbinary and I use they pronouns.
i’m glad you guys like my look, but I stressed about this for months because it was my first formal event where I was able to present as my gender. Nonbinary isn’t just dfab people in suits. As a very “masculine looking” dmab person I prefer to wear dresses and skirts to present as nonbinary. I’m not a man in a dress. Saying “I love men in dresses” or “why does he have better legs than me” is not supportive of me. It’s transphobic. Cis women do not have a copyright on good legs.
Please do not use my post where I actually felt good about myself to enforce your binary. I have spent too long panicking over what to wear to work, and to school, and to family dinners, and to formal events, and to weddings to be labeled as a “man in a dress”
You should have a life where you are respected as nonbinary, and as a person.
This isn’t a life that you need to earn. It’s a life you should have had by default, just like every person in this universe.
I hope that one day you live this life even if though it has been thus far denied you.
