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does it lessen your affection?

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I’ve realized that one of the things that bothers me about Jem and Magnus and now Aline is that none of them have Asian last names, and they’re all half-Asian, which to me just says that Casserole wanted to make their non-white heritage as invisible as possible.

To clarify the half-Asian point: mixed race people are full inheritors of their non-white heritage, and the fact that Cassie doesn’t bother to try is very telling. Mixed Asians are Asian, and should be portrayed as such, but white authors like Cassie treat them as discount-white.

I have a mixed-race SEAsian protag in one of my own WIPs. But the difference is I’m writing him as actually mixed-race, with all the emotional baggage that comes with rediscovering your culture after being raised away from it. Cassie just slaps a half-Asian label on her characters and calls it a day. And not only that, she made sure that all of them have Asian mothers, so that in her fantasy patriarchy, they would have white last names from their fathers.

And sure, it doesn’t need to be the focus of the story, but it’s NOT THAT HARD to drop hints, like mentions of an altar or the lingering smell of incense, or always having a platter of fresh tangerines on the sidetable. Where are the mentions of doubling up on holidays? Of mixed feasts with turkey and potatoes and fried rice and roast pork? I think Cassie has them drink tea a few times, but could you get any more stereotypical?

tl;dr: Mixed-race PoC deserve to be represented with just as much nuance and grace as any other PoC, not used as shields so a white author can claim to have representation without putting in any effort.

Adding a slight correction: there’s one more Asian character, Divya. She’s the only Asian character to have an Asian last name. Which… i really don’t want to get into all the fucking baggage of East Asian women marrying white men in this post.

This is her entire entry in the fandom wiki. What the fuck does she actually look like?

I mean, why would CC put any thoughts into it? Why would CC in her 900 page book of unnecessary sex, and steamy scenes, and horny white teenagers take the time to describe divya a little bit? I mean an Indian woman? Of course she’s going to be quite. Of course she’s going to be the perfect, sweet, inncent girl, shy girl. Why would CC show am Indian girl fighting, kicking some ass, being sassy, sarcastic and intelligent? I mean that’s only reserved for whites isn’t it? Indian woman? Of course the only thing that describes her is her nose stud. And of course brown woman exist only to prop up and support white protagonist.

Fin.

@CC and the fandom

The only other full blooded Asian in CC’s books in Shinyun Jung from The Red Scrolls of Magic, and later she is revealed to be the villain. This really says a lot doesn’t it. There wasn’t even any effort put into her character, the only signs of her Korean heritage are her bringing up which dynasty she used to live in, but other than that she could’ve been white for all i know.

Shinyun,,, is not, as far as I know, a particularly Korean name. Like, maybe very technically? Can someone korean confirm or deny this?

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jemsdrug

Hi, I’m half Asian.

  • Mixed Asians are mixed, meaning we all have different identities, personalities, cultures, heritage. Some of us grew up with both/multiple cultures, some of us with only one. For my case, I am more of the latter as I was born and raised in a European country, and the way I was raised, I wasn’t much in touch with my Asian heritage. But there’s nothing wrong with that! I know who I am and it’s all that matters, I don’t need any labels. Mixed Asians are not just Asians who you can all portray the same way. You can’t paint all of us with the same brush.
  • I personally think that Jem’s mixed heritage was very well portrayed in the books, but that’s just my personal opinion.
  • I will not comment on that shadowhunters wiki page as it’s fandom content and yes I agree it’s pretty cringy, but... Y’all keep forgetting my girl Lily Chen! She’s also a full blooded Asian.
  • Def not Korean sorry, but I’m pretty sure Jung Shinyun is a Korean name. (what even is a ‘not particularly’ Korean name?) Jung is a common Korean family name and you can find notable Koreans named Shin-Yun / Shin-Yeon with some research.
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Wtf is sephora

It sounds scary

isn’t that the guy with the long white hair from final fantasy

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venatus

no your thinking of sephiroth, a sephora is an angel belonging to the highest order of angels

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punlich

No you’re thinking of a Seraph

A sephora is a second year college or high school student

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one-eyed-pom

No, you’re thinking of sophomore. A sephora is when you use your phone to take a picture of yourself.

no, you’re thinking of a selfie. a sephora is a calm breeze.

No, you’re thinking of a zephyr. A sephora is one of those Greek vases with the two handles and the pictures.

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leeshajoy

You’re thinking of an amphora. Sephora is the web browser you have to use on iOS devices.

You’re thinking of Safari.  Sephora is an informal term for the seven-week period of counting the days between Pesach and Shavuot in the Jewish calendar.

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hhertzof

You’re thinking of Sefiras. Sephora is a bright blue gemstone best known for combining with Ruby to create Garnet and lead the Crystal Gems, training Pokemon, and/or assisting Steel to fight against time’s intrusions into our realm.

No, you’re thinking of sapphire. Sephora is actually a part of a flower; it protects the flower in bud and supports the petals in bloom.

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jewishdragon

No, you’re thinking of sepal. Sephora is the wife of Moses, who lead the Israelites people out of Egypt. 

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osheamobile

No, you’re thinking of Tzipporah. Sephora was an ancient Greek poet who inspired a lot of lady-lovin’.

No, you’re thinking of Sappho.

Sephora is the youngest of the five Marx brothers.

No, you’re thinking of Zeppo.

Sephora is the Heimdall’s sister.

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flatbear

No no no guys, you’re thinking of Sif. Sephora is a venereal disease that turns your brain to swiss cheese, going so far as to destroy external features like the nose. Famous gangster Al Capone suffered from sephora.

No, you’re thinking of syphilis. Sephora is that radiant feeling you get when you have found perfect peace and happiness.

No, you’re thinking of euphoria. Sephora’s a fucking makeup store you dipshits.

Only blogging because this is my favorite tumblr post and i can never find it when I need to.

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The summer before my first year of high school, I met a guy and while we were seeing each other we used to hang out with his friends who slowly became my friends too. One day, his best friend told me that he liked me and I realized I had feelings for him too, but It wasn't fair towards my boyfriend so we decided to keep these feelings locked and try to pair him with one of my friends and so we did it. (I'm out of characters so I need to make a part 2 do you want to hear the rest?)

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I NEED YOUR HELP

Hi. My name is Anne and I’m 26.

For three years I lived with my boyfriend in his house. We were happy. Well at least I thought we were.

I’m from really religious family. And REALLY conservative.

Five months ago I met a girl. Joanna. We connect really easly, we were friends. But two months ago something changed. I started to have feelings for her. I was confused and scared because I never thought I would be attracted to girls. And then she told me she likes me.

I knew I had to be honest with my boyfriend so I told him everything. He calls me sick slut and a perver and throw me from the house. Then he told everything to my parents and they stopped talking to me. I can’t go back to my old house now, because they told me I’m not his daugther anymore. Can you believe that parents can hate their child so much?

And now I don’t have a job because I was working in my parents flower shop. They kicked me out.

My girlfriend is a student and live in the dorm. She can’t take me to her room. One of my friends let me stay at they house for now. I don’t have money for bills, for food or anything.

My ex even keep our dog saying that I need to pay him at least 600$ to take him back. He doesn’t even like dogs.

I need at least 1000$. Or at least 500 to pay my bills.

AND I NEED TO PAY ALL OF MY BILLS TO WEDNESDAY (19.10)

I had different blog here (I don’t want to say the name) but my ex boyfriend knew my password and he was writing horrible things on my dash. So I deleted it. And this is the new one. Please don’t put this in any other sites, like facebook. I’m afraid he will find it again.

I never thought that I will ever had to do this but If you could help me and donate something it would literaly change my life. It can be even1$, believe me. Also you can use any currency you want. You can usepaypal. My e-mail [email protected]

Thank you so much for any help!!

NEWS!

MY FRIEND ASKED HIS BOSS IN SUPERMARKET WHERE HE IS WORKING FOR A JOB FOR ME AND I GOT IT. ONLY FOR HALF TIME BUT IT’S BETTER THAN NOTHING. BUT STILL I NEED 370$ FOR BILLS FOR TOMORROW (19.10) SO PLEASE STILL REBLOG THIS AND HELP IF YOU CAN. 

AND THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH! FOW ALL YOUR KIND MESSAGES, FOR DONATION, FOR REBLOGGING THIS POST. I LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH.

Also If you see this post floating around but it’s not on my blog anymore it may be because some “NICE” person reported me once to tumblr staff and they deleted my post. I don’t know why. So yeah, it may be deleted again. 

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EDIT. THIS POST HAS 500 NOTES AND I STILL NEED THOSE 370$ BY TOMORROW. SO IF YOU COULD REBLOG AND SPARE A DOLLAR I WOULD BE REALLY THANKFUL.

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“Don’t push me away.”

This line is killing me and I’m finally taking a break from making gifs to break down why it is the best thing to ever happen to me, ever:

The showrunners know, and we know, that they could easily coast with the Malec relationship; they could inundate us with nothing but kisses and cute dialogue and know that the majority of fans would be more than satisfied without any deeper layers of complexity or meaning. But this line shows us that they’re taking the relationship seriously, they’re taking the characters seriously, and they understand the characters and the context of this layered and complex relationship.      

This line is not just Magnus being there for Alec; it’s not just Magnus trying to reach an Alec troubled by the disappearance of his parabatai. It’s a plea.

Throughout season one, Alec has been – essentially – pushing Magnus away, at one point telling him outright to “back off.” Alec’s motives for this behaviour did not stem from a lack of interest or desire to be around Magnus, but from a decade of conditioning himself against desire, and his own forced self-isolation. Of course, Magnus still backed off, because at this point in season one, they were just two people with a mutual interest and infatuation who were unable to make it work.

Now, in season 2, we have this:

Of course Alec can’t unlearn in a matter of days what a decade of self-imposed restraint forced him into being, and can’t undo the tendency to build walls around himself rather than open himself up to other people. One kiss isn’t going to change that, and I’m so glad that that’s being reflected, instead of Magnus being an insta-cure for Alec’s myriad issues with relating to and interacting with other people, even someone with which he now has a relationship (Magnus).

And that’s the reason why this line to me is so bittersweet. It’s not “When things get crazy, I’m here for you.” It’s not “when things get crazy, you have me to help you.” It’s “when things get crazy, don’t push me away.” It’s a plea, rather than a statement of intent.

Assuming this is in 2x01, and knowing the breakneck pace of this show, this scene is probably taking place a few days at most after 1x12. I.e., a few days at most after Alec told Magnus to “back off” for the last time. Their relationship is a tiny, fragile newborn thing, and has stemmed from a lot of contention – a lot of pushing and pulling and angst, and walls and boundaries being erected. So that Magnus is saying specifically don’t push me away speaks volumes to how the way that their relationship formed is going to inform how they are able to relate to one another in the early stage of it.

Magnus is pleading to Alec, I want to help you, I want to know you, please let me. It speaks just as much about Magnus’s insecurities about their relationship as it does Alec’s. After weeks of being pushed away by Alec, and then finally being affirmed by him, he’s essentially imploring that Alec be open with him, at least now, now that Alec is out and ostensibly willing to enter a relationship. That Magnus – who is in many ways just as guarded as Alec – is asking this shows that Magnus has opened his heart and is pleading with Alec to do the same. So that they can help each other, so that they can make this work, so that they together can learn to love each other. And it’s four fucking words of dialogue from a twenty fucking episode season and I’m dead already.

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Anonymous asked:

i love the idea of your sh fandom rant, and i (and my friends) have had bad experiences in the fandom, but i hope that there is some consideration of how amazing the majority of the fandom is!! i have made amazing connections with some people here and i am happy and proud to be in this fandom!! i think there is a vocal minority of people who ruin it for the rest of us

of course! I also think it is a minority.

look, I can’t tell you guys how much this fandom means to me. I’ve joined in 2012, I’ve been loving the Shadowhunter world with my whole heart ever since. I’ve never been this obsessed with anything else, even more than with Harry freakin Potter. I’ve met wonderful people from the fandom on tumblr since 2013, and we’ve been through a lot together, we’ve survived COHF, we’ve survived the box-office failure of the movie, we’ve survived the criticism of the show, people not believing in it, and look how far we’ve come. Shadowhunters ended up being a real success and we’re getting a season 2 with 20 episodes, with a wonderful and loving cast!

I am super grateful to be in this fandom and honored that people even know about my blog. I didn’t forget where I came from and why I am even here. I joined tumblr because of this fandom.

so at this point, I feel like it is in my duty to make sure the fandom on tumblr is as welcoming and safe as how it felt to me 3 years from now when I joined. But I noticed that some drama has been happening lately, and some people didn’t feel safe anymore. I believe we have to do something about it, and I don’t want, by any means, call anyone out on it and draw people apart. I think it is something we’ll have to fix together, and I believe we can ♥

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jemsdrug

I’m pretty sure it’s the same hoodie Magnus is wearing in the balcony;

it has the same black strings thingies (not sure how do you call it in English sorry x))

so, what if this is Jace’s hoodie that Magnus took to track him?? this is clearly not the kind of clothes Magnus would wear.

what if:

  • Alec walked in to Magnus doing some yoga/martial arts shirtless
  • then got so flustered that Magnus had to cover his body with something
  • and the closest thing to him was Jace’s hoodie (that he took for a tracking spell)??

Ok, so I want to make one theory too. Now I am pretty sure these are two different hoodies. Cause Magnus’ one is much darker and Jace’s is light grey. And they both have those ‘thingies’.

 And Magnus is wearing his outfit from 1x13 (almost sure, but it doesn’t have a ring or a scarf and the nails are not painted red) and he couldn’t change back to the same otfit after training session. 

So Magnus is holding Jace’s hoodie to track Jace with it

good call!!

I really like this theory ^-^

^^^ and kudos to the anon who also noticed it

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Anonymous asked:

hi, i didn't know what would be less creepy, writing this on anon or personal as i've never really talked to you before, but i hope you don't mind. i just wanted to say that maybe you should give your rant a shot. you generally seem like such a genuine nice person that is really trying to make this fandom a nicer place. i've just had tumblr for 2 months or so and we NEED people like you. maybe we all really need THIS. like a bit of a kick to find a way back to be a better more positive fandom.

hi anon! oh no I don’t mind, don’t worry, and there’s absolutely nothing creepy about sending an ask - anonymously or not - to someone you’ve never talked to before, I’ve made a lot of friends on here this way ^^

That’s the #1 reason I want to rant actually; making this fandom a nicer place. But I’m not a good writer nor a good speaker, English is not my mothertongue, I’m awkward with words, and I’m afraid I might unintentionally offend someone because of it... well anyways I will probably because what I have in mind concerns at least 80% of the fandom. It’s not all criticism really, but things I wish would be different. And since I’ve been in this fandom for more than 4 years now (and 3 and a half on tumblr^^), I have a lot to say about the differences, then and now; some are good, and some are bad, in my opinion...

but yeah again, it will probably be super long so I don’t think that a lot of people will read it. I’m thinking about posting it to let it out once and for all and for those of you who are curious :)

thank you so much for the kind words anon ♥ there still are true gems in this fandom and I still love this family with my whole heart c’:

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Shadowhunters Season 2 Spoilers!

We know so much about Shadowhunters S2 already, because of interviews, pictures, tweets, periscope & more, so here’s all we know so far:

- The runes are black now - Camille won’t be a threat to Alec & Magnus’ relationship, but more to Raphael and the other vampires - We’ll see Seelie Queen, who will be played by someone Dom knows very well - There will be a scene between Alec & Mayrse in episode 2x01

- There will be plenty of mother/daughter drama about the fact that Jocelyn basically lied to her for 18 years. - There’s a scene in a hospital with Jace, where ‘Jace tries to tame the beast and shit gets scray’, and it’s probably in episode 2x03 - There will be a fight scene in episode 2x01, which includes Jace - Although Jace and Clary give into their urges in the books, despite believing they’re siblings, it won’t be like that in the series, but they still have feelings for each other. There’s a moment with the Seelie Queen, but that’s a little different than in the books

- There will be a new character from the books, Maia, who will be played by Alisha Wainwright. (Maia is a bartender at the Hunters Moon and one of the newest members of Luke’s pack. She is brave, slightly stubborn, and extremely loyal to her friends. Although she doesn’t like talking about it, she struggles with trust issues due to her troubled past and often uses humor and sarcasm to mask her true feelings. Now, with the Mortal Cup in Valentine’s hands, Downworlders are in more danger than ever before and Maia will be forced to jump into action or lose the only family that she has left) - Maia will probably first appear in episode 2x03 - Valentine, Maryse and Jocelyn will be in 2x01 - It seems like Jace’s hair will be more like it was in the other dimension, and he’ll wear an all black outfit

- Lydia will come back - Clary’s main focus will be finding Jace and stopping Valentine - There’s a lot in store for Jocelyn and Luke - There’s also a lot in store for Maureen - More Izzy fight scenes - Possibly Jace jumping from one building to another - There will be a scene between Jace & Jocelyn in (probably) episode 2x03 - We’ll probably see a shirtless Magnus - Women who are covered in blood in episode 2x01 - In episode 2x01, Alec will try to track Jace with their Parabatai bond, Magnus will hover over Alec with painkilling magic, but then drops the stele - Episode 2x04 is said to be a game changer episode - Magnus & Alec will probably go on their first date - We’ll see a lot of the relationships: Clace, Malec, Sizzy and Climon - There might be a little Jimon & a Jimon fight scene - Malec is going to break your heart, lift you high, take you low. You will be crying about Malec - They redesigned the institute - Clizzy is a huge part of what they’re up to in S2 - There’ll be a Simon fight scene - There’s a Parabatai crisis - Blood

- Big things happening in episode 2x10 and 2x20 - Valentine is in episode 2x04

- Knives - There’s a new character, Victor Aldertree, portrayed by Nick Sagar - There’ll be 20 episodes - There will be a scene with Magnus & a vampire - There’ll probably be flashbacks to Jace first meeting Alec and Izzy & Jace asking Alec to be his Parabatai - Jace will go down a dark path, he’s gonna get worse before he gets better

- Magnus and Raphael will interact

- Magnus, Raphael and Simon have a scene together, most likely in episode 2x04 - There’s a fight scene in episode 2x03 (one of the writers said it’s the best fight scene of the whole series) - This season is gonna be creepy, darker, grittier, the demons are scarier and we’re gonna cry a lot

I’ll update this post when we get new info

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tagged by: @kklainesmalec, thank you so much!

name/nicknames: Angela / patate, Ang gender: female height: 158cm hogwarts house: Ravenclaw favorite color: yellow time: 7:07 pm last things i googled: a french expression I think fictional character you’d like as a sibling: ISABELLE LIGHTWOOD number of blankets i sleep with: one only favorite band/artists: Ghost, Muse, Florence + the Machine, The Strypes, Glass Animals, Queens Of The Stone Age, Slaves (UK), Tchaïkovsky, Nothing But Thieves, Them Crooked Vultures, The Black Keys, Alt-J, The Hives, The Last Shadow Puppets, CL, Radiohead... dream vacation: Japan, Iceland when did i make this blog: April 2013 how many blogs do i follow: 722 what do i post about: book fandoms essentially (The Shadowhunter Chronicles mostly), fashion & art, movies I like do you get asks on a regular basis: it really depends aesthetics: peaceful landscapes, bookshelves, sunsets, gigs and festivals, the color yellow

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Anonymous asked:

Have you ever had a boyfriend? Because I haven't and all my friends did...I'm feeling super late. But I want it to be a person I really care about

No!

The only experience I’ve had of a romantic relationship was early middle school, and we’ve never really dated so I’m fairly sure it doesn’t count. I’ve kissed 1 girl and 1 other boy in my life and both times it was for a bet. So I don’t think that counts either.

The thing is, at the moment I don’t seek a relationship, and I’m perfectly fine with it. Sure, I get teased at times about it, people just don’t seem to understand why at 19 I’ve never really had a boyfriend, and why I don’t mind staying single. But I honestly just don’t??? I have and still am questioning myself as an heterosexual lithromantic, but I generally keep that information for myself. Most people outside tumblr don’t even know what aromanticism is to begin with, and overall I’m just tired of the idea that people who have never been in a relationship or people who don’t want to have to explain themselves.

I don’t get why we - girls especially - are so pressured at our age to be in a (het) relationship. This post made me really think about it, and I couldn’t agree more. JUST ENJOY YOUR LIFE ANON! It’d be such a waste for anyone to be with a person they don’t really care about just because Society tells you it’s the norm. There is no “late” or whatsoever. You do you

Also, there is this quote from Lady Gaga that is particularly dear to me;

“Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you’re wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn’t love you anymore.”

- sending you my positive vibes, and I hope this will help ❤

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From the article: “The teen has a point. Her courage to confront the ugliness of racism, with a camera in hand, reveals just how rampant bigotry and anti-blackness is in America society. Within the five minutes of vulgar obscenities and racist remarks shouted at the black family, no one intervened. No one got up from the seats. No one told the white family to refrain from using the word n*gger. No one defended the black family. No one said it was enough.

It’s 2016, and a black family in one of the many diverse cities in Texas can’t even sit down and enjoy a meal in peace without being called anti-black slurs.”

This was a 15-year-old girl, and she’s right. This is NOT rare. This irrational hate permeates far too much of society and police forces around America. The only difference between Facebook racists and these white “people” is they were so full of hatred that they didn’t feel the need to hide their racism behind a keyboard.

Also, yes: “All lives matter” is exactly what racists say.

Does anyone know their names?

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