I honest to God think that is a load of HORSE SHIT that people give others crap if they choose not to date someone for whatever reason. 

Now let me say this first, If the person is rude & is like “EWW why I would ever even consider dating someone like that, thats fuckin disgusting” 

BY ALL MEANS RIP THAT RUDEASS MOTHAFUCKA A new one.

But if they for whatever reason turned down someone and that other party BLEW IT UP and made it a big deal? I cannot stand people like that because what's happening is most of the time is they’re reacting that way because they got their feelings hurt and now they’re taking they’re bad day out on someone else from an emotional response. Thats mitigating feelings of inadequacy and I can’t stand folks like that at all and also it just makes the other party even more validated for turning them down because they’re acting a fool over & causing unnecessary drama. 

If you have something about you whether its you being Black, white, asian,indian, hispanic, gay, lesbian, bi, trans, pan, ace, too fat, too skinny, too muscly, too loud a personality, too quiet a personality, wears too much makeup, doesn’t wear makeup, too self obsessed  etc etc

Whatever you have about yourself if you had the courage to go up and ask someone out and they POLITELY *key word here* POLITELY turn you down and dont talk about you behind your back or to their friends, they’re is absolutely NO REASON to villainize that person. Because that just makes you look bad in long run when it comes back to how it all started. 

Just because someone else doesn’t see it doesn’t take away from any of your self worth there are 7 BILLION+ People on the planet who would possibly love you and all your traits. If that ONE person has their own personal issues or just personal traits they like, Dont take it as a HIT on your person, You’re great and ya know it and someone will see that oneday! 

PEOPLE ARE NOT AND I REPEAT ARE NOT OBLIGATED TO BE ATTRACTED TO EVERYONE OR EVERYTHING, You can be the sweetest peach on the tree and they’ll always be one person who doesn’t like peaches.

Shit i’ve been turned down because of my skin color and my voice but Im still going strong, aint affecting me cause I know my worth. And especially if its someone else who has a particular dating choice that isnt affecting your life at all, leave them be and FOCUS ON YO SELF and YO SUCCESS instead of trying to bring down others cause that is seriously weak.

Once your 18 you can choose to date whoever the fuck you want (as long as they’re the same age or older) and Dont let anyone make ya feel bad for your choices and if you meet someone and your tastes change down the line that is completely fine as well. But I don’t tolerate jumping on someone who literally just said no in the politest way they could.

Well first off, I will commend anyone in asking someoneout that they like because that takes a whole lot of courage just BALLS to doit.

But I’ll just be honest cause I don’t want to wasteanyone’s time or give them false hope cause I see so many people do that.

Now if they did it in a public area wheres theres tonsof folks around and if I just say no everyone’s just gonna start booing me orchiming in cause Humans are stupid annoying like that then I’d politely askthem if we could talk in private and just POLITELY say to them

“You’re very sweet and I’m flattered but I’m just notinto you that way but I wish you the best”

I would never react like “EWWW NOOO” cause I’ve seenthat shit happen several times before and its heartbreaking to witness and it took this person so much courage to ask you out.

NOW on the flipside of that if I ask them if we can gotalk privately and they decide to make a big scene like “JUST GIVE ME A YES ORNO AM I NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU” 

Nice Jordan is gone now,

first off you’ve completely just annoyed me by DEMANDING me to give you the time of day. 

Secondly I respectfully asked you if we could move somewhere else as I didn’t want to turn you down publicly but now I will straight up say I’m not into you and if you try to say 

“OH SO YOU WON’T DATE ME CAUSE YOU DON’T DATE *blank* people”

You’re doing what I fucking hate. Mitigating your own feelings of inadequacy because your feelings just got hurt that the person you liked didn’t reciprocate your feelings and I’ll Fuckin say that in front of everyone and just be blunt about it.

I DO NOT RESPECT PEOPLE Who take their own PERSONAL ISSUES OUT ON OTHER PEOPLE! Because I used to do that and honestly its a bitch punk move and I lost people close to me because of it and thankfully I found meditation to help me keep a clear mind.

And to be honest I fuckin hate when that happens and I’ve seen it many times over the year In High School, in College, in Bars etc theres always someone who gets their feelings hurt and decides that they want to make this person enemy #1 cause the person is not their type.

If a person is BASHING YOU for what you are or saying something like 

“Why would I ever go out with someone like you” 

Thats one thing to be justifyingly upset over.

But if someone politely says “I’m just not into you” for whatever personal reason they have and lets say you happen to be something like (Black, White, Asian, Middle Eastern, Lesbian Gay, Bisexual Trans, Fat, Too Skinny etc etc) 

DONT AUTOMATICALLY TAKE IT LIKE ITS A DISS ON whatever you are! If they are respectful about it and never said a single negative thing to or about you don’t take it personal. There are tons of people who would willingly go for you and this one person just happened to not be into you. And if it is for one of those reasons REALIZE There are 7 billion people on the planet you can easily find someone more of a match for you. Thats life not everyone is gonna love everyone in that way but have some sense cause if you fuckin start attacking them for saying No to you thats gonna just make them sour on the whole situation in the first place and make a once open minded person now judgemental.

DO NOT MITIGATE FEELINGS OF INADEQUACY CAUSE YOU GOT YOUR FEELINGS HURT! 

Notice your own self worth, recognize it, Love it, and move on to better things cause just being angry and full of hate will poison you. 

Sorry about that little tangent. I saw something like that happen to my friend when we were in college and it pisses me off whenever I think about it. 

But as I started this post I think its best just to get it out the way and not give them false hope that maybe one day you’ll like them back cause its going to keep them glued on you and getting their chance. Just be polite but firm if you need to and you can both get on with your lives. 

Well if you have to ask to be someone’s friend that is never a good sign. Friendships for me grow organically.

You can be an acquaintance if you want.

But not including family I have 15 genuine friends in my life and If I’m being real I don’t feel like I need anymore. I mean if a genuine connection happens I won’t be a dick. But like I said in that getting older post I’ve started not to care as much about certain things which is good in the sense that things that bother other people don’t bother me as much, but sad as somethings that used to give me joy just don’t anymore.

Also I’ve realized As you get older you naturally start to lose some relationships and basically trim the fat of who you want and need in your life. 

For example when I was teenager I had like 1000+ friends on facebook and myspace. Now I just got barely 100 but I like it that way. Its people who if they showed up at my door I’d be like yeah sure you can stay here for the night. 

But I have tons of acquaintances I’m on really good terms with so there ya go and I’ll always be cordial and polite to people who show me mutual respect because that’s how I am as a person.

You’re asking the wrong the guy cause I’ve never once in my life experienced that lol xD

The most I’ve gotten are girls thinking I’m cute and buff but never that but its all good ;P 

I’d guess warm?

Look I have good friends that are gay, lesbian, trans, ace, bi etc

I don’t care what you are as long as you are a cool nice person. 

But If you’re any of those and happen to be an asshole/prick/scumbag of a person than I’d personally tell you to fuck off. 

Okay let me think 

My BiggestTurn Ons

- cute face

- likes nerdy stuff (comics, video games, anime, cartoons, star wars etc stuff like that)

- Good sense of humor

- likes working out/exercise/fitness stuff

- likes DBZ (instant +5 to attraction to me tbh)

- showing their passions in what they love

- Genuine Kindness

-Nice Boobs & Butt (well you asked)

- intelligence

- Strong/willed ( I love a strong woman who can be her own hero I think thats why I know so many female martial artists who kickass)

-Open minded 

-Independence 

My Biggest Turn Offs 

- bitchy attitude

- Narcissistic or thinking they’re better than others

- Making fun of others appearances (I’ll call any motherfucker out in a heartbeat for doing that)

- Heavy heavy makeup and lipstick but i mentioned that here 

- Overly Clingy 

- smoking

- Pessimistic 

- easily triggered and go off on this since something like there are somethings I completely understand being triggered over but sometimes its just being a stick in the mud when you know the person doesn’t genuinely think that they were just having fun. like for example I just saw an hour ago  there was this post on facebook someone made about a mother accidently cooking brownies with breast milk and someone made a light joke not taking it seriously and they replied with an essay of why its not funny and blah blah and the dude was just making a quick joke not serious and I get if someone has personal issues they have to deal with daily but don’t take your own issues out on someone else

But those are my turn ons and off tbh

I’m sorry to hear that @resistance-princess

Use your Pain to benefit you. Ive had my heart Broken numerous times and I used that to motivate myself to be healthier, become a stronger person. DONT Break yourself down BECOME a stronger better version of yourself. Do what you want Focus on School, making money and becoming the Badass you were meant to be. Dont listen to this notion of since Im fuckin sad im gonna make myself even worse and then if you see your ex they’ll be like “dodged a bullet on that one” Hell be strong enough so that if you Ex sees you they’ll be like damn they were a catch and I let them go and Mentally make yourself stronger so that you care about yourself and your goals. and Im not gonna lie IT SUCKs IT SUCKS like the WORST Fuckin Pain for a few months to have your heart broken but each day it gradually gets better.

if you keep thinking “Oh i couldve done this and I couldve done that” then it will mentally destroy you. Experience is the Harshest teacher you will ever have but it gets the point across so that lesson is learned. Im telling you striving to become a better version of yourself does wonders and you dont know how much you got to give till you’ve got no choice to be strong. Best wishes momentai

I dont know why people always ask me relationship questions lol but I’ll give it the old Jax try. 

Okay look dude what you wrote me is honestly really sweet and the fact you’re trying to rekindle things shows you’re a genuine guy. You told me you love her but how about her. You should tell her that everyday without being overbearing.

Why dont you Tell her justknowing she’s out there thinking about you, caring about you, makes you feel so at peace. All your fears, all your yesterdays, wash away. And only hope remainsin the promise of her embrace.

TELL HER “you make me THANK God for every mistake I ever made, because each one led me downthe path that brought me to you. Andwhen we finally come together, I want to hold you. Hold you all night.” 

Stroke her hair. Tell her she’s a woman, and show her your a man. Until there is only now.You, and I, and now.

Or something like that. SOMETHIN PASSIONATE she’s the LOVE of YOUR LIFE so Treat like that. She’s a Dime, someone you’d fight ANY MONSTER FOR or any monster with because you dont care what physical pain anyone can bring you, losing her would be the worst form of suffering you could possibly endure.

The best lovers are best friends so tell that and show her that.  and thats a relationship that cannot be matched.

SHOW her how much you care about her.Don’t have unfinished business and if all your words are true and your love is pure best of luck to you!

Well my Friend I’ll say this dont worry about it too much. Just accept it and shave it. I know what you are thinking 

“I’m Bald so all I’m gonna hear from my friends is that Stupid Spongebob meme”

But heres the thing that you just gave me which should give you an Ego Boost.

My Friend YOU’RE BLACK!!! Black People CAN EASILY ROCK THE BALDY

 and No one can give em shit because so many of them do it just cause they like the feeling and if they dont they Still Own it!

For example if you ever feel bad about being Bald Just remember some of the Greatest folks around are.

Michael Jordan

Tupac Shakur

Dwayne The Rock Johnson

LL COOL J

Terry Crews

Luke Cage

Brandon Carter

Shaun T

Jordan “JaxBlade” Downs

Its SOOOOo COMMON for Brothers to shave the Head so if anyone gave ya shit you’d could easily give em the stare like

Also think now how much money you can save on Haircuts. Also make sure you shave the whole thing off if you do it. Dont have a spot like Mr. Poe did in the Series of Unfortunate events. Just clean it off.

Also No Racial I have a white friend who recently lost their hair and they said that for white folks its better if they shave it clean and grow a goatee or beard

like Stone Cold Steve Austin

Or walter white

But rememeber some people look WAAY better without Hair like the Rock

MAKES YOU LOOK WAY MORE ALPHA!! Also for the Lady thing I’m not sure on that so why just ask the ladies what they think of a shaved head SO ANY LADIES READING THIS give your feedback lol But hope this post boosted your self esteem and remember you can always say you trained and got too strong ^_^

I used to but this one girl accidentally bit the fuck out of me one night when she was doing it and it felt like getting your manhood stuck in a zipper x 1000000090010000 and was bleeding. And the week afterwards was hell trying to pee so nowadays I don’t give a fuck I don’t want TEETH anywhere near Goliath 😑

I explained before I am working on myself first before giving my love to someone else but Also Honestly while my brain has gotten more knowledgeable these last few months my perception of the opposite sex’s interest in me still eludes me completely haha. All the girls who’ve liked me in the past have taken initiative and made the first move.

and on the flipside if I start to like a girl who I dont know their feelings toward me I inevitability start to act Awkward and weird

I’ve always been so blind to notice if anyone likes me or not especially if its a mutual attraction xD.

Like I vividly remember this time in High School I was in a class with this really cute chick who wasn’t doing too well and I was a genius in the subject. I remember I didnt think much of it I offered to help her with her project and she got an A on it which saved her from flunking. She then kept coming up to me and was always so giddy on hugging me for the rest of the year

. But I’m literally so Blind on this I thought she was just thankful. My friends told me at the end of the year she had the biggest crush on me AND I FRIGGIN COULDNT SEE IT!

I was SO Salty cause she was Hot too haha.

But Literally a girl has to either come out and tell me she likes me or I will be as oblivious as DB Goku/Luffy haha

For some reason If I wasnt the Lesbian Girl but Started to like Dudes I’d have really High Standards. Like my female form Jaxette would be a Sexy ass Lady. So my standard would be SOOOOOOOO FRIGGIN HIGH.

I mean I Have a MAN CRUSHES on Zac Efron, Chris Evans, and Brad Pitt From Troy so I can only Fathom my Female self liking dudes like that haha

Honestly thinking about Girl me I’d probably be really shallow and like dudes like this

I’m just going by the fact Male me Really admires the work these dudes Put into their Physiques so Female Me would Be like OH GOD THESE DUDES ARE SO HOT

Id honestly be Gou from Free

I mean Male me really likes Big Boobs and Butts so the Inverse of that for Female Me would Be Ripped abs and Muscles. 

And then for the dude’s “Fire Man” size I’d Guess something Big but not too big 

but definitley not small But I dont want to be getting it on with a guy then all of a sudden my stomach starts hurting.

Hmmm But I guess I would if I had no choice and have fun with it Also I’d feel better than the average woman since I know what a dude likes 

Haha Im just goofing around xD Honestly it doesnt matter to me either way but I’ll give you a real answer. I have a lot of things going on in my personal life.

Just personal things I need to workout by myself and I need to really evaluate myself. I’ve gone through A LOT these last 2 years and it was all so eye opening. 

You ask why I’m still single, So I’ll say I need to really work on myself before trying to work on a relationship because if I am in one I want to treat that girl like a diamond and never do anything to harm her in any way. Not saying I would ever be Abusive like that, GOD NO. But I have realized I have some personal emotional issues and inner demons I need to work on myself and losing someone really close to me as a friend last year cause of those issues really opened my eyes and I have Goals I will accomplish with or without people’s support so All my focus is on that right now. My Work, My Body, My channel, My Business stuff thats where my mind is and I’m not really concerned with that relationship stuff right now. I like to make jokes about it cause its funny to me but for the most part I’m busy building myself up and realizing my own self worth. And I know what I’ll want when It comes around but right now I’m putting myself above a lot. But thanks for your concern ;-D