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I just need y’all to remember to not threaten this child and focus on the true monsters. His parents and the fetish gear company who is trying to sexualize him.
This poor child is being brainwashed by predators while the media cheers.
The fact that this is happening and no one has stopped it means it’s already been normalized
I’d like to take a moment to reflect on one of this countries finest and purest moments.
Trump can spread descrimination and he can even pass anti-LGBTQ legislation but he CANNOT wipe our victory from the slate or void all that we stand for.
History will remember. We will remember. Love will always trump hate. United we stand.
Do let me know at what point, during what speech or as part of what proposed policy did he even hint at an anti LGBT sentiment? Man people love to hate him but they can never back themselves up.
Oh wait whoops.
Nice Photoshop by the way OP
Here’s the actual source;
It was a short lived meme, apparently?
Lmao wait, so OP showed photoshopped pictures of Obama and Biden holding rainbow flags to prove a point about Trump’s supposed anti-LGBT leanings, only to have a real photo of Trump holding one thrown in his/her face?
Doubling down in three…two…one…
Tumblr’s hatred of The Straights is probably why they also hate bisexuals, pansexuals, asexuals, and aromantics.
They hate anyone who isn’t gay or a lesbian.
And with the way it looks, it’ll soon be anyone who isn’t a lesbian.
Some of the lesbians on Tumblr can be legit scary. Like every bad stereotype you’ve heard about lesbians is what some of them are.
Creepy, bitter, entitled to girls, think that all men are pure evil, hate trans women, hate bisexual girls, would rape a woman if given the chance and say “lesbians can’t rape uwu”
I once saw a post by a lesbian about how she was planning to spike her best friend’s drink. Like… dude, that’s some messed up shit. If you were a boy you’d be in jail for succeeding in that.
And the saddest thing is lesbians in real life can be decent people like Ellen DeGeneres, but these girls are just… awful.
As a bisexual I can honestly say I trust girls way less than guys
As another bisexual girl, I definitely trust guys more than girls and it’s not helped by the shit I see on Tumblr.
As an ace person who has been attacked by the lesbian side of tumblr, I can attest to all of this.
All of you are so gross I have never seen such rampant lesbophobia (and just plain misogyng) so horrible and open
This isn’t even an attack on anybody, this is people sharing the gross and creepy behaviour they see within the LGBT community and you feel the need to invalidate their concerns and experiences with your bullshit and make it about you because people don’t like it when you treat them poorly.
Please explain how calling lesbians “ Creepy, bitter, entitled to girls, think that all men are pure evil, hate trans women, hate bisexual girls, would rape a woman if given the chance” and saying that straight men (who have both male privilege and straight privilege over lesbians) more than lesbians is not lesbophobic or an attack
holy fucking christ
you know there are ace lesbians, right??? those are the only lesbians I can think of that any of you would give a shit for
people: Shares their creepy and negative experiences with lesbians in the LGBT community.
Y’all: Thats sooo gross and lesbophobic :(((
The lack of self-awareness though…I mean this is kind of what people are getting at here. A person so much as suggests lesbians aren’t gods gift to this green earth or perfect goddesses each individually and you suddenly get dog piled by a bunch of bitter bitches who clearly don’t have or allow reflective surfaces into their homes.
Perhaps that’s why they hide behind collectivism. Deep inside they know full well they are fucking awful people and try to hide behind all those that are not awful, especially from themselves.
The sort of hypocrisy that could explain a good half of SocJus Tumblr…
And the comments were accurate enough, I know how fucked up my dating pool is…
@kyuuti-hanii @someoneintheshadow446 @valarie-lynn @princess-has-a-pen @katemarie999 @road-h-o-g-g @rainbowloliofjustice @judgingeternity @alaija just wondering but why are you guys such massive homophobes and lesbophobes? i know y'all will claim that you came across one lesbian that didn’t kiss ur ass or smth but like… how does that justify hating lesbians and gay men as a group of people?
I respect and care about anyone regardless of sexual orientation. I’m just not going to be bullied into hiding the fact that the group that has victimized me the most on tumblr have been lesbians who then have the complete lack of awareness to actually turn around and accuse me of hateful behavior based on a ship.
If you want my respect, maybe stop sending anon messages accusing me of benig a lesbophobe with knife emojis isn’t the best way to get that respect. Maybe attacking my friend, who is a MASSIVE supporter of LGBT rights, by shrieking that she’s homophobic because she disagrees with you is just going to make you look like brats. But throwing the label of “homophobe” and “lesbophobe” on everyone who you’ve victimized after they’ve had enough of your crap is exactly why posts like this exist.
Clean up your own act and go after real homophobia next time, okay?
oh my god you’re a homophobe, how did u manage to go from mildly homophobic to full on “MAYBE IF U QUEERS DONT WANT ME TO HATE U, MAKE SURE THOSE OTHER HOMOS STOP SENDING ME KNIFE EMOJIS FOR BEING a HOMOPHOBE! IF U WANT ME TO STIP BEING HOMOPHOBIC THEN DONT CALL OUT MY HOMOPHOBIA!” homophobic?! holy shit @acecommunityreceipts just in case y'all need more proof of how rampant and normalised homophobia is amongst ace tumblr
If the only excuse you have is to keep throwing around buzzwords again and again and not actually address anything they’re saying properly, you’re beating a dead horse and it’s getting pathetic to watch. Because all I’m seeing you do is take what they say and throw it all out of proportion and then shout buzzwords over them as if that invalidates everything they experienced and said when all you’re doing is being an asshole who doesn’t understand that bad people exist in all communities, in all walks of life.
Grow tf up, you only prove your own idiocy in having a decent conversation because you jumped to conclusions so fast on people for daring to voice their experiences that didn’t line up with your own opinions, and then you went on to demonize them for it without knowing jack shit, and it’s appalling.
"Lesbians can't be violent", cries tumblr. Just saw a story on the local news, a woman in a lesbian relationship is on trial for killing their daughter and trying to kill their son. Will tumblr mention it? Probably not.
seen another story recently where a woman brainwashed her girlfriend into thinknig her daughter was evil and to kill her
A girl I met once and who was the best friend of a friend, was a lesbian and murdered by a lesbian ex-lover. I remember seeing the missing reports on fb as posted by her worried best friend who I was friends with, then the police searches on TV and I was rather shaken especially when they found her dumped body. So don’t ever tell me lesbians aren’t violent.
Additionally when I used to frequent an lgbt bar in my old area, pretty much 95% of the fights were by lesbian couples fighting with each other or a lesbian ex fighting with her ex-girlfriend because she was jealous about the new girl her ex was courting around the bar. The police often made visits to the bar when the lesbian drama went down because it got THAT violent.
I hate them, hate them, hate them and they only make it harder for the LGBT to be taken seriously and to fight stereotypes.
How are scantily clad men dancing in the street and acting like gay strippers supposed to be helping us? Opponents and the right wing think of us as sexual deviants and we always go, “Nooooooo! We act like everybody else!” But then the parades come around and it’s time to bust out the neon thongs, heels, and anything rainbow to wave and put on our butts as they’re shaking all over the place.
This might be me as a lesbian who hates the male anatomy but it only makes the whole “sexual freak and out there” stereotype harder to fight. Maybe if they made it less raunchy, less flashy, and actually did more than focus on males and remembered the lesbians, I’d change my mind. Cause I might love NSFW material but lord have mercy, don’t go parading it in the street in the colors of the rainbow.
I have never been to a pride parade, I have no desire to go to a pride parade, and I probably wouldn't support a pride parade if someone was asking for donations or reblogs.
I imagine the original purpose behind those parades is to put glbt stuff in the spotlight to get random people to notice it and get used to the idea, because a significant portion of the reaction of people to glbt stuff is based on how much exposure they've had with the concept. I think it's so colourful, attention grabbing, and loud because they wanted that many more people to notice.
It seems to have become nothing more than a loud attention-grabbing spectacle, and I agree with the sentiment that this is bad. This assumes that the intent is to raise awareness or promote understanding and extend olive branches to promote peace and stuff. If we look at it as just another excuse to have some kind of a public festival or party, then it's doing that job pretty well from what I head and see. I just think that going for the loud flamboyant party vibe sacrifices a lot of the potential of a somewhat more subdued kind of parade.
I have, however, eaten lunch in my campus's lgbt room and had some pretty good conversations with the other people in there. So far, most of the people I've talked to who mentioned that they're gay have been pretty cool people.
(hate anon) i dont try to be bigoted. i really dont. i dont advocate for hatred of the group. i rarely even bring it up. and im trying to get over the fact that i dont like them. it's just really hard when your first experience with a group of people is BAD and then you go on a site where it seems like PEOPLE OF THAT SAME GROUP HATE ALL STRAIGHT CIS PEOPLE. so like i dont think im spreading hate or being bigoted because it's internal. and now i feel like shit for even confessing (cont)
(cont) something like that because i just got yelled at AGAIN and it’s kind of like THIS IS WHY I DONT WANT TO EVEN MENTION THINGS because as soon as i say “oh i feel x, y, and z and i’m ACKNOWLEDGING it’s bigoted and i’m ACKNOWLEDGING it’s WRONG and i WANT TO STOP AND GET OVER IT” but no i just get put down again and again and fuck this is stupid i dont know why im still typing i just wanted to know if there was a way to make it stop because i hate being bigoted but i cant just CHANGE THAT.
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Not all trans people hate cis people. In fact most of the cis hatred on this site comes from cis people.
If you confess to something that is despicable you’re going to get a negative response. To me that your confession seemed like you wanted us to coddle you and say it’s okay that you’re bigoted because you were abused, and that is not something we would say. “Everyone thinks I’m mindlessly hating” well, you are in fact mindlessly hating, and apparently enough to give “everyone”: this impression for some who “rarely brings it up”. You don’t get a pass. Even as we speak you are trying to justify your hatred by saying “all trans people hate cis people on here.” No. Sorry. No pass.
If you want to stop and get over it, stop making excuses for it.
If you want to stop being bigoted, try educating yourself. You can start by looking into the massive amount of gender-based violence transfolk put up with every damn day:
I’m sorry, what they have to live with makes your “I can’t un-bigot myself” nonsense look like nonsense. Use your basic human empathy. Humans are individuals. This is not hard.
"i just wanted to know if there was a way to make it stop because i hate being bigoted but i cant just CHANGE THAT."
Bullshit. Have you even tried? How about you try volunteering at a LGBTQ center and actually HELP some transfolk. How about you put some fucking effort in if you want to change? Stop whining at us hoping for a free pass to be a bigot and get out there and actually fucking work at it, and don’t allcaps at us when we tell you something you don’t want to hear.
-Jafar
No. No. Enough is enough.
The anon came here seeking advice on how to be a better person, because they didn’t want to be bigoted, because they felt bad for hating trans people for the things a selected few did to them.
What happened? They were yelled at. They were called names. They were told to suck it up.
Does that sound familiar? It fucking should. It’s the same thing we tell people not to do.
The anon thought they were safe here, that they could get help. Well, they are not the only ones who were mistaken. I was mistaken too when I thought we were better than social justice warriors.
- Hades
They have demonstrated absolutely nothing to me thet indicates they were trying to get help. They were saying that, and then they went on to provide justification after justification for why their hatred is okay. They’re still fucking doing it. “I hate trans people because one didn’t like it when I called them pretty” is a justification, and a shiity one. This is not a safe space for bigots and it never was.
We would never accept this if it was a trans person against a cis person.
I’m really disappointed in the lack of integrity I’m seeing here. We don’t get to pick and choose who gets sympathy for BS based on who we can identify with.
-Jafar
And this is giving no indication whatsoever, right?
and i know it’s irrational but i cant seem to get over my bad experiences and everybody hates me because they think im just mindlessly hating them. any advice? i just cant seem to get over my hatred because of how those people treated me so now i hate the whole damn group.
I’m glad we came to an agreement. Because I was really thinking that the anon came here trying to change. But, oh I was mistaken. Thank you for making me see the light.
- Hades
She has said she “can;t” get over her hatred and has continued to give excuses for why she “can’t.”
I’m not impressed, and I think she came here looking for sympathy, not actual change. And I’m not going to give her a pass we wouldn’t give to someone who said the same things about cis people.
Just FYI I am not angry at my fellow mods, we are allowed to disagree.
-Jafar
The anon said that they were having a problem, and that they had hit a wall. They were trying to describe a couple of the issues that they thought were making up the wall.
It was more of a problem-oriented ask than a solutions-oriented one (as in "here's what I've tried in the past"), but that's because they don't seem to know where to start.
If the anon is reading this, then what I'd recommend is finding a place where a group of non-asshole trans people might congregate and hang out there for a while. If you're a university student consider hanging out in the lgbt lounge and eating your lunch there. In my experience, the people there are usually interesting conversationalists if nothing else. Usually in a decent-to-good mood, and friendly, but not too pushy. I only went a handful of times the other year because it was kind of out of the way.
This is assuming that you can at least keep asshole thoughts inside your head and that you can recognize asshole things you might say before you say them. Just stay quiet and off to the side and get a feel for the ambiance.
The idea is to gradually get used to being around them in real-life and get a feel for the kinds of things they talk about. You want to disassociate the asshole-type personaliy from the trans*-person-category in your head. Then you can slowly open up to each other over time and see them as more varied people in general, with the hateful stereotype fading in relevance.
If you're not a student, and you have to juggle a full-time job on top of meeting new people, then I suppose I'd recommend seeing if there's some kind of community centre that occasionally holds events for the lgbt community. I don't know what kind of result or admission you can expect from this, though..
I went to some kind of event like that at a new-ish centre. The formal extent of my invitation and decision to go was just that I was walking home from something, my friend was walking towards me from the other direction, and she just told me to come with her to a thing. I didn't really know what kind of meeting it was going to be about, but there were snacks. There were a little less than ten people there, including the coordinator running the event and myself, who was kind of on the sidelines participating in a way that the guided events weren't really designed to accommidate, since I don't really fit under the LGBTA***** umbrella.
