I’m at, what I would consider to be one of my closest friends wedding, and I have already come to terms with not being in the wedding party but had to endure the most awkward convo when she realized she didn’t clarify that I was not invited to rehearsal dinner (meanwhile partners of bridesmaids/groomsmen she’s never met are allowed to go) and. So it’s like ok… you all go do that and uhhh text me when ur done I guess