#relatable#izumis relevant#koseki#japanese family registry#family registers#(Coming Back To That On Here Eventually When I Stop Sighing At Wider Fandom Issues)#(For the record I DO in fact '''have''' my birth certificate {BUT})#(This is me stating very direct and blatantly that im NEVER showing it online)#internet privacy#identity theft#adoptees#adoptees rights#adoption#adoption issues#({SECONDLY} IT **WILL NOT HAVE MY BIOPARENT NAME ON** EVEN IF ***YOU BEGGED ME TO SHARE IT***?!??!)#donor children issues#anonymous donors#I DONT KNOW WHO NEEDS TO HEAR THAT#why do i have to prove to strangers on the internet that i was born when im right here#internet fuckery#right to privacy#dont feed the trolls#internet safety 101#(What I do NOT have full access to *at the moment* but SINCE have 'word of mouth' of from *bioparent fam* is bioparent own)#MEDICAL RECORDS#actuallydisabled#what the fuck is a medical record actually showing family history of illness why do i gotta prove to you i have this im sitting right here#anyway i am in a Mood today and it is pesach aka passover at sundown