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We've all gotten just a bit too comfortable being jerks to strangers on the internet I think

So I've hidden this reply, both because it's obnoxious and because I don't want the person who wrote it being harassed for it, but I need you to understand: I don't know you. We are not friends. This is not fun or cute, we are not sharing a charming joke together. You are just being an asshole.

literally that is what the post is about, I am saying people should be less eager to jump on any chance to be snarky and rude to total strangers on the internet

It was a 'fuck you' with a ':D' for fucks sake, that's a nice connotation

I think that was a very affectionate 'fuck you'

I am frankly at a loss how to explain to you that strangers are not your friends, and what might be taken as affection in your groupchat might not be appropriate for people you don't know and have never spoken to before

Fucking hilarious the irony at play here. Maybe you should stop being a jerk to strangers OP

Being a jerk is when you ask people you don't know plainly and without ambiguity to stop coming into your house and swearing at you apparently

It's so weird and exhausting how "asking people to please stop being jerks" so often leads people to think "but actually I am funnier than everyone so when I am a jerk, this time, in the exact way you asked people but to be, it will be funny and not the exact kind of horrible that you said it is."

Please. You are a stranger. This is not funny. It's just exhausting.

guys, in regards to reading comprehension, if it's something you struggle with — read the whole thing. If it's something you don't struggle with, yes you do — read the whole thing.

don't respond or comment or whatever before you have read the whole thing.

The number of times I've gotten responses from people who clearly didn't read beyond the first few sentences of what I wrote is genuinely staggering. Think about it: if you don't have time to read someone else's thoughts, why should anyone take time to read yours? Communication is a two-way street.

TL;DR read the whole text before you respond to something, for the love of spiders georg

I know social media is full of death threats and suicide baiting and violence all over the place, and I know people often use this form of language in a sarcastic way, but please know that if I see that bullshit in my notes at all, you’re blocked. No second chances. No excuses.

It’s harassment, and it’s unacceptable, and I have a zero tolerance policy for that kind of bullshit. Don’t let the screendoor hit you in the ass on the way out.

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Reminder that “tard” and all variations of it (“fucktard,” “libtard,” etc) are literally just a “PC” way of calling someone a r*t*rd and I’d really appreciate it if my mutuals stopped putting words like that on my dashboard.

I had to get schooled on this one myself a while back; I’d mistakenly assumed it was meant to evoke “bastard”. But nope!

As ever, we learn better, we do better.

The same is true for the ‘reeeeeee’ noise.

^Important addition

Most of the people who say these things absolutely know what they mean, and choose to say them anyway. On the off chance that someone truly does not know what they mean, here’s your chance to learn and do better.

it’s making fun of meltdowns! its formally called “autistic screeching”, its a stereotype made to mock us and its absolutely offensive 💞💞

[ID: tags reading #whats that last thing about ??? /end ID]

If I use the word queer in my posts and you don’t like that, don’t reblog them. If you tag my posts as q slur I will block you and never let you reblog another one.

Also the last person who did this literally had “Don’t follow if you say Q**** community despite not everyone reclaiming it” in their BYF but doesn’t have the same respect for people who have reclaimed it.

You are not entitled to other people’s posts. Don’t touch them if you don’t like them. I said queer people and not LGBT for a damn reason. It’s not that hard to not interact with things that make you uncomfortable. Respect the boundaries of queer people. The universe does not revolve around you.

when i say “unfollow me if you support trump” im not saying it ironically. no, seriously, if you support trump then i dont want your disgraceful ass to be in any way associated with my blog. get out.

if you think that you are entitled to know a celebrity’s sexuality, block me. if you think you are entitled to know anyone’s sexuality, block me. if you constantly throw around the word queerbait when you don’t even know what that word is, block me. if you think real people with real lives and real feelings are capable of queerbaiting, block me. if you think that you are owed something just because you are a fan of a certain piece of media or actor in the spotlight, block me. and also fuck you

If I use the word queer in my posts and you don’t like that, don’t reblog them. If you tag my posts as q slur I will block you and never let you reblog another one.

Also the last person who did this literally had “Don’t follow if you say Q**** community despite not everyone reclaiming it” in their BYF but doesn’t have the same respect for people who have reclaimed it.

You are not entitled to other people’s posts. Don’t touch them if you don’t like them. I said queer people and not LGBT for a damn reason. It’s not that hard to not interact with things that make you uncomfortable. Respect the boundaries of queer people. The universe does not revolve around you.

We all talk about how other people shouldn’t have to explain their “weird” triggers and we should be willing to tag them until something like this happens. How hard is it to ask if the anon is asking bc they find it “gross”/feel uncomfortable with it, or bc it’s a legit trigger?

One example would be if anon is gay and was assaulted for gay pda and feels fear for the couple and/or has flashbacks when they see pics of gay pda. How do you think this response and all the notes it’s gotten would make them feel?

Odds are that that’s not why the ask was sent, and that it’s bc the anon is homophobic, which isn’t a good reason to tag gay pda, but is it that hard to be thoughtful enough to consider other possibilities and ask in case your initial assumption is wrong?

Well, for one, people can personally curate their own tumblr feed and if they don’t want to see PDA, and a blog posts PDA, they can just unfollow it.

And see, here’s the issue. People only ever ask for GAY PDA to be tagged. If someone is legitimately triggered by PDA, they should request that PDA be tagged, not specifically gay PDA. Asking for gay PDA to be tagged is no different from asking someone to trigger tag gay people. The emphasis is on it being gay, not being PDA, so there’s always an ulterior motive.

Marginalized people are not a valid trigger, and if someone is triggered by the existence of an oppressed group, they need to get over themself.

one time i told a friend “hey we cant be friends anymore if the second you learn my deadname you use it for me.” and then she shut up and never did it again.

what I’m saying is that you DONT need to take shit from cis “friends”. not respecting your pronouns? you don’t need to be treated like shit. saying you’re a special snowflake? why are you still with them. talking shit about you behind your back about your gender identity? LEAVE THEM!!!!

PLEASE dont feel obligated to stay with transphobic friends. they arent worth  it.

If a friend won’t show you basic respect, they’re not your friend.

Hey, y'all, for real: If you are going to reblog a post from me do not add comments telling people to kill themselves. Do not add comments to my original posts telling people to kill themselves. If you think telling anyone to kill themself is okay: unfollow me and do not engage with me.

I'm, no pun intended, dead fucking serious about this.

I very firmly believe in restorative justice and deradicialization and do not think people should die by anyone's hand, let alone their own, because of their beliefs.

Also? As someone who's been impacted by suicide it's really fucking triggering - so cut that shit out. If you really, absolutely, so deeply desperately need to tell someone to die, do it where I won't fucking see it at least.

i notice when y’all reblog my posts abt the grief and fear jews in the diaspora are experiencing right now, and then two minutes later reblog from people who have called jews “whiny entitled brooklynites who need a taste of their own medicine.” it’s been three weeks. i am no longer giving any of y’all the benefit of the doubt that you simply haven’t seen any of these posts from the people you follow. i don’t care if you’ve been following me for years or if we’re mutuals, if i see you reblogging from people who have been extremely vocally antisemitic these past few weeks, i am blocking you on sight.

when i say “unfollow me if you support trump” im not saying it ironically. no, seriously, if you support trump then i dont want your disgraceful ass to be in any way associated with my blog. get out.

I wish someone would of told me this back in high school. This would of helped me a lot.

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