(((Digimon Is Forever)))

Can you do something for me, please?

I want you to reblog this if you believe that two people can be very close and physically affectionate with one another, but still have a completely nonsexual, non-romantic relationship. 

Even if the two people in question are capable of being sexually or romantically attracted to one another. 

Because the friendship I share with someone I consider family in a way that transcends blood has been typecast as a romantic relationship ENTIRELY too many times, and I’m beginning to get sick of it. 

Stop seeing people who live alone as something temporary. Stop assuming they’re waiting to marry to live with someone. Living alone and not marrying for the rest of one’s lives are also options.

The type of relationship you have with someone doesn’t say anything about how deep or meaningful it is. It doesn’t say who is or isn’t the most important person/people in your life. Only you can determine that.

Your relationships don’t have to fit neatly into either friendship, qpr or romantic relationship labels. Some relationships have elements of multiple types of relationships, some fall outside those labels entirely, some shift over time or fluxuate between different labels.

hey so some people are just happier & more functional not living with a partner. this isn’t necessarily even an aromantic thing. some people are just genuinely better-suited to living alone, no matter their relationship status. 

not everyone needs to move in with their partner, and moving in together doesn’t have to be the ultimate goal of every serious relationship.

and some people would rather live with friends or roommates, even if they’re in a committed relationship with someone they’re not living with! there are more long-term options than “live alone” and “live with your partner”

this! is a very good addition!!!

You’re allowed to prioritize one part of your identity over another. You’re allowed to see it as all equally important and all just as much a piece of who you are.

You’re not responsible for other people’s romantic feelings towards you.

You can be sex repulsed and sex positive. Sex repulsion is an involuntary reaction to sexual situations personally involving you, it's not a judgment on others sex lives.

Sex positivity is acknowledging that sex can be positive and healthy for the people doing it, and not judging people for their sexual choices so long as they're not causing any harm. This means allowing people who choose not to have sex to have their autonomy respected as well.

hey so some people are just happier & more functional not living with a partner. this isn’t necessarily even an aromantic thing. some people are just genuinely better-suited to living alone, no matter their relationship status. 

not everyone needs to move in with their partner, and moving in together doesn’t have to be the ultimate goal of every serious relationship.

and some people would rather live with friends or roommates, even if they’re in a committed relationship with someone they’re not living with! there are more long-term options than “live alone” and “live with your partner”

this! is a very good addition!!!