you don’t even need any factual backup to headcanon a character as autistic tbh. they don’t need to have whatever you consider to be “common autistic traits”. if an autistic person wants to headcanon a character as autistic because they identify with that character, or because it makes them feel good, or for whatever reason, let them.

I’ve seen allistic people reblogging this post and that actually makes me really happy. thank you for listening to autistic voices stay tolerant and stay lovely

#actuallyautistic #autism #autism headcanons #headcanons #fandom positivity #fandom #autism positivity #autistic characters #autistic coding #reminder #*ALLISTICS DO NOT REBLOG TO DEBATE OR ARGUE OR I WILL BLOCK #*OK to Reblog if youre Autistic #(Points At This)#(Again)#(!)

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koushirouizumi

facts-about-bisexuality

Fact: No one has the right to tell you that you aren’t really bisexual. Not other LGBTQIAP+ people, not your friends, not your parents, not your partner. The only person in charge of labeling your orientation is you.

#lgbtqiapn #lgbtqiapn psa #lgbtqiapn intracommunity bigotry #lgbtqiapn positivity #bi positivity #bisexuality #bisexual #bi #bi psa #bi identity #bi visibility day #not dgmn #important #*DO NOT REBLOG TO ARGUE OR DEBATE OR I WILL BLOCK #*Boosting in Support without derailing commentary OK #(Points At This)

izzyizumi

Just DigiAdvs Things TM

Me, Simple TM DigiAdvs Fan: Koushiro is a good character!

The Entire DigiAdvs Hate-dom: L M A O.... well I'll give you that he was good in {specific Adv moments like Adv episode #38 ONLY} but outside of that actually----

ME, RAISING MY VOICE: KOUSHIRO (+EVEN AS HE IS IN THE VARIOUS CANONS /AND NOT JUST YOUR OWN PERSONALIZED FANON!/) IS A WONDERFUL AND AMAZING CHARACTER WHO DESERVES SO MUCH BETTER THAN HE GETS FROM THIS FANDOM!!!!!!!!

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peerieweirdo

i’m starting to realize the “friendship where we bully each other” thing is a complicated subject for me, because as a survivor of bullying and my interests being mocked for basically my entire life, i don’t really find it funny or endearing when pals do it. i don’t mind gentle insults and inside jokes, but idk, there has to be a point where you go “maybe i shouldn’t cut on my friend’s new oc or special interest” and stop yourself. i think we should all try a little harder to know that boundary and not put our friends in those situations

phoenixiancrystallist

My best friend and I used to greet each other with insults (“hey bitch!” “wassup slut?”) and generally poke fun at each other all the time. It’s how we showed affection, just constant little pokes and prods and minor nuisances. But I noticed that these exchanges were wearing her down through little behavioral ticks, like she’d go quiet or her laugh wasn’t as bubbly. So I changed how I show her affection and now scream “hi Dawn I love you :D” at the top of my lungs when I say hi. And I hear her stifle a giggle and she answers with either “love you too” or “hiiiii, love you!!!” depending on her mood at the time.

It’s fine to have a close friendship where you can pretend to be mean to each other and you both understand that none of that meanness is real. But the second it starts to feel real to either of you, that behavior should change.

i think that like, little jokes and ribbing can be okay but you need to make sure you’re not always bullying someone about the same thing constantly

like joking ‘hey idiot!’ is fine, but if you call one of your friends stupid all the time and literally never let them have any identity other than ‘the stupid one’, thats not a joking friendship. that’s actual bullying.

#friendship #izzyizumi autism #izzyizumi autism and anxiety #izzyizumi social anxiety #autism #autism relevant #special interests #ableism #anti autistic ableism #bullying #toxicity #toxic friendship #friendship issues #ribbing #not dgmn #FANDOM RELEVANT #fandom issues #(Points At This)#(PLEASE familiarize yourself with my interests ships fandoms favs etc BEFORE FOLLOWING AND INTERACTING)#(....Back around 2012 i had a mutual who often kind of did this more specific kind of thing too where they'd just like)#(treat me as the 'silly one' and tweet things like 'pUNCHES' all the time at me)#(i laughed it off a lot at the time because negl I do the ribbing on myself often too)#(but it kind of does tend to get to me a bit when)#(when i actually WANT to be considered seriously and yet yEAH)#(when people decide out of the blue to start ribbing on my special interests too yEAH)#(i don't mind joking around and even silliness jokes I LIKE BEING SILLY but there comes a point where it often can feel like This TM)#(Sharp eyed readers may be noticing an ongoing theme with topics i'm reblogging about lately and it Might be for Many Reasons)#(Late adds tag. There was Also that particular instance around 2018 when a longtime mutual decided to go completely off the rails)#(and suddenly started posting a ton of ship hate for alternative ships to our ship which also coincidentally included most of mine)#(Let's Just Say i unfollowed that mutual VERY FAST and im still not sure they ever realized for exactly this kind of reason)