I just hope all closeted nonbinary people have a nice day and remember they won’t have to be closeted forever even if it can sometimes feel that way. one day you will meet people who use your pronouns, your name, and/or the language you prefer to describe yourself.
I really wish I could properly put into words the differences there are between not caring about white men and men of color. I’ve seen too many fandoms go “well I just don’t care about men” and act as if it’s okay when it comes to the disgusting behavior they have towards male characters of color on their shows, and that’s not right. Men of color do not have the same privilege as white men do. In fact, white women have greater privilege than men of color do. So when I see fandoms shitting on the men of color in their shows, especially when it’s to uplift white women, I immediately go on the defense. There’s a whole history behind this and fandom doesn’t exist in a fucking bubble and y’all need to check that shit.