Sounds most like Ti-Fe to me, so a xxTP type probably

ENFP ESFPESTPENTPINTPISTPISFPINFPINFJINTJENFJENTJESFJESTJISFJISTJ

I think my answer for INFJs was mainly about their introverted intuition function, so most of that would be exactly the same for INTJs (also Ni-dominants). For INTJs though, I think procrastination is pretty common in INTJs that are in an Ni-Fi loop. Te generally helps ground them, tying their thinking to concrete plans and goals. If they lose touch with their Te function, then they can get caught up in a cycle of thinking through things internally without being able to implement them in the real world.

Let It Go: ESFP, INFP, ENTJFor the First Time in Forever: ENFJ, ENFPFixer Upper: ESFJ, INFJIn Summer: ESTP, ENTPLove is An Open Door: ISFJ, ISFPReindeer Are Better Than People: ISTP, INTPFrozen Heart: ISTJ, ESTJ, INTJ

Probably Si, potentially Ti.

ISTJ: "I don't want to be thought of as a survivor because you have to continue getting involved in difficult situations to show off that particular gift, and I'm not interested in doing that anymore."ISFJ: “I act like someone in a bomb shelter trying to raise everyone’s spirits.”INFJ: "There are definitely some things that are only mine. I am someone who dreams at night, and you don't know what I'm dreaming."INTJ: "I am a spy in the house of me. I report back from the front lines of the battle that is me. I am somewhat nonplused by the event that is my life."ISTP: "I was street smart, but unfortunately the street was Rodeo Drive."ISFP: "I don't want my life to imitate art, I want my life to be art."INFP: "I don't think Christmas is necessarily about things. It's about being good to one another, it's about the Christian ethic, it's about kindness."INTP: "Life is a cruel, horrible joke and I am the punch line.” ESTP: “I shot through my twenties like a luminous thread through a dark needle, blazing toward my destination: Nowhere.”ESFP: "Instant gratification takes too long"ENFP: “Someone has to stand still for you to love them. My choices are always on the run.”ENTP: "If my life wasn't funny, it would just be true, and that is unacceptable."ESTJ: "There's no room for demons when you're self-possessed."ESFJ: "Two of the saddest words in the English language are, 'What party?' And L.A. is the 'What party?' capital of the world."ENFJ: "Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die."ENTJ: "There is no point at which you can say, 'Well, I’m successful now. I might as well take a nap.'"

ISTJ: "Do we simply stare at what is horrible and forgive it?"ISFJ: "You see, I take the parts that I remember and stitch them back together to make a creature that will do what I say or love me back." INFJ: "Sometimes you get so close to someone you end up on the other side of them."INTJ: "The light is no mystery, the mystery is that there is something to keep the light from passing through."ISTP: "Everyone needs a place. It shouldn't be inside of someone else."ISFP: "It should be enough. To make something beautiful should be enough. It isn’t. It should be."INFP: "I sleep. I dream. I make up things that I would never say. I say them very quietly."INTP: "...you're waiting because you thought it would follow, you thought there would be some logic, perhaps, something to pull it all together but here we are in the weeds again, here we are in the bowels of the thing: your world doesn't make sense."ESTP: "The way you slam your body into mine reminds me I’m alive, but monsters are always hungry, darling."ESFP: "You wanted happiness, I can’t blame you for that, and maybe a mouth sounds idiotic when it blathers on about joy but tell me you love this, tell me you’re not miserable."ENFP: "Everything affects my poetry, every day something happens that changes me forever. I’m susceptible and plastic, thin-skinned and moody."ENTP: "Let me tell you what I do know: I am more than one thing, and not all of those things are good. The truth is complicated. It’s two-toned, multi-vocal, bittersweet."ESTJ: "We have not touched the stars, nor are we forgiven, which brings us back to the hero’s shoulders and the gentleness that comes, not from the absence of violence, but despite the abundance of it."ESFJ: "We can do anything. It’s not because our hearts are large, they’re not, it’s what we struggle with. The attempt to say Come over. Bring your friends. It’s a potluck, I’m making pork chops, I’m making those long noodles you love so much."ENFJ: "I don't know where I end and the world begins. My best guess? Skin. It's the only actual boundary between the body and the world, between a body and any other body."ENTJ: "I’m not suggesting the world is good, that life is easy, or that any of us are entitled to better. But please, isn’t this the kind of thing you talk about in somber tones, in the afternoon, with some degree of hope and maybe even a handful of strategies?"

Typically something like this

ENTJ INTJESTJ ENFJ ESFJ INFPISTJESTPINFJENFP ENTPISTPINTPISFJESFPISFP

ISTJ: Where Have You BeenISFJ: UmbrellaINFJ: StayINTJ: DisturbiaISTP: Breakin' DishesISFP: Love The Way You LieINFP: We Found LoveINTP: Needed MeESTP: Don't Stop The MusicESFP: Only GirlENFP: Pon de ReplayENTP: Rude BoyESTJ: Run This TownESFJ: SOSENFJ: DiamondsENTJ: Work

ISTJ: Grave of the FirefliesISFJ: Kiki's Delivery ServiceINFJ: Howl's Moving CastleINTJ: When Marnie Was ThereISTP: Tales from EarthseaISFP: Castle in the SkyINFP: Whisper of the HeartINTP: My Neighbor TotoroESTP: My Neighbors the Yamadas ESFP: Pom Poko ENFP: Spirited AwayENTP: Porco Rosso ESTJ: Only YesterdayESFJ: Arriety ENFJ: PonyoENTJ: The Wind Rises

I would probably be most protective over ISFJs because they are so precious and sweet. My younger sister is an ISFJ though so I'm probably biased because of that

ISTJ: Perfectionist, domestic, shrewdISFJ: Childish, neat, home turfINFJ: Clumsy, paintbrush revolutionary, observantINTJ: Genius, quick learner, professorial ISTP: Loner, handy, independent ISFP: Creative, piper, creatively giftedINFP: Bookworm, muser, poeticINTP: Geek, webmaster, savantESTP: Active, loves outdoors, broESFP: Dance machine, alluring, never wearyENFP: Insider, noncommittal, belovedENTP: Goofball, hot-headed, hilariousESTJ: Family oriented, natural leader, great storyteller ESFJ: Cheerful, outgoing, perfect hostENFJ: Good, gregarious, companionENTJ: Ambitious, snob, business savvy

It's possible she's in an Ni-Ti loop, but I've also seen people who have tested as INFJ and have had that personality be mistyped. They can be INFP, INTJ, or ISFJ and all of those types tend to be more blunt or insensitive than INFJs.

There's the possibility that you have an unhealthy dominant function that manifests itself with some of the traits of an unhealthy inferior function. It sounds like you don't resonate with the descriptions of Ni-dominants; do you resonate with the description of Ni in the inferior position? What about the position of Fe and Ti? If that's the only thing that is difficult for you to see in yourself, then I would guess you're probably an ESTP with an occasionally unhealthy Se.