im-only-joking reblogged
You know what I think its grossly under-rated in fandom? Second loves.
What it's like to love and lose and then love again. To suffer through either the death of a loved one or the death of a love you used to share. To know that loss, to know that hurt, and to still make yourself vulnerable to someone again. To love scared, to love wounded, to love anyway.
By under rated in fandom I mean so often past loves are either erased completely or downplayed like "oh yeah they weren't really in love.". I think it flattens the character. Humans are capable of so much love. Each relationship is different and you can learn from each one! And yes, there's something brave in learning to love again, something incredible romantic, why pass it by?
#this with Scott and Kira#ok yes Allison dies after they kinda start dating but like#to be continuously vulnerable even after that.#and to stick by someone who has lost their first love that you saw firsthand???#shit is wild and I am so mad Jeff Davis made all the wrong decisions for pairings#Malia and Scott makes no sense dude.#teen wolf