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I have so many disconnected thoughts about dandadan and gender- it’s just so chock full of brilliant allegory. Haven’t read the manga and don’t want spoilers but the anime has been so good

Aliens and ghosts as the ways that patriarchy hurts men and women respectively. Once Okarun and Momo experience this first hand, they understand eachother better.

Okarun essentially being emasculated by the representation of rage stemming from older women who want to protect women who are victims of assault. Through understanding this rage, he finds a power that he uses to protect Momo. Through all of this emasculation he finds stronger connections and a sturdier sense of self.

His want for masculinity isn’t inherently in opposition to understanding the women around him, but he must first work closely with women to find it.

The way Momo is made to feel ashamed of her grandmother’s supernatural practices. The complicated feelings of being embarrassed but also pissed that people were insulting her grandmother. Something something the way that society encourages women of different age groups to be alienated from one another.

The way that Momo finds her power in accepting and understanding her grandmother. The way she chooses to use it so protect and uplift herself and those around her.

The fact that Momo and her friends are all Gyaru. So unapologetically confident, loud and themselves, despite the way that it can cause issues for them socially.

Idk I just have a lot of feelings rn

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it's interesting that episode 3 shows turbo granny is kind of a hypocrite? she says she hates cheaters, but immediately cheats (by human standards) in the game of tag. it's speculated that she consoled the spirits of assaulted and murdered girls, but she herself assaults okarun and calls seiko and momo "hag," "bitch," and "skank" constantly. i think it's really indicative(?) that one of the last things she says before she fuses with the bound spirit is this:

but ultimately, momo is able to outsmart her using a combination of her grandmother's - also an elder - wisdom and modern technology.

still working on how to interpret this and fit it into what dandadan is saying. the easiest/most obvious would be something like 'you don't have to respect your elders if they disrespect you,' which is a sentiment that is applicable to future arcs as well i feel, but i do think there's more to it than that.

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it is completely understandable to be uncomfortable with the sexual assault in dandadan. it's important to discuss how it's framed, whether it's handled poorly, or if it could be been portrayed better. but the number of people - even fans - stating that it is only fanservice, irrelevant, or could be removed is frankly bizarre to for SO many reasons, starting with the fact that this parallel exists.

the anime made it even more obvious by interpolating cuts from the first scene into the second one.

i thought this scene showed that momo gaining her powers by believing in her relationship with her grandmother gives her the strength to fight back against what is basically a horrific, much more aggressive and abstract (maybe even absurd?) representation of her shitty gross ex - who was demanding she 'put out' and pay for the love hotel in very first scene.

while the escalation from one scene to the next is surprising, it's not something that comes out of nowhere. this first scene is meant to be a set-up to what will happen later. it sets the tone, though significantly more lighthearted at this point. it tells you that sex, sexuality, etc. is something dandadan will touch on - though you don't know what the scope and depth will be until later in the chapter.

i cannot recommend this video enough, as it discusses some interesting interpretations of what the serpoians and turbo granny represent in their respective assault scenes, as well as how right now the treatment of both scenes is unfortunately uneven.

more notes about plot and thematic relevance below the cut. spoilers for anime-onlies (up to chapter 8, will probably be covered in episodes 4/5).

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the first episode/chapter of dandadan has sexual assault scenes, and while nothing past that point is as intense as that first scene, sexual assault does NOT go away. on top of that, there is non-sexual nudity of teenagers, there are jokes about okarun's balls throughout the whole manga, there broadly seem to be themes/discussion of violating bodily autonomy - if those things make you uncomfortable, i suggest either bracing yourself or checking something else out

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im not gonna say okarun is transgender, but there's definitely something to be said about the fact that he's a "less traditionally masculine" guy who's possesed by a woman spirit that makes him depressed and literally takes his "manhood" away, which causes him significant distresss, and the driving force of most of the narrative so far has been about getting it back 🤔 really makes you think

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EXTREMELY scattered thoughts about dandadan's portrayal of sexuality and sexual assault under the cut

like why does the prevailing opinion seem to be that it would be better that the sexual assualt gets dropped after the first chapter - therefore proving that it was only ever included for shock value - rather than it being revisited, especially with other characters, to show that it may have actual thematic relevance to the story? what is going on

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