If there ever was a life ruiner, Tom Hiddleston would be the one. I'd marry him if I wasn't already dead-set against getting married or falling in love right now. Some idiot spoiled it for everyone else. It will be a long time before I trust anyone again when it comes to this stuff--I could be dead by then. So, for now, I'll make myself useful and work. See where that leads me. Hopefully, across the pond to a place more like me.
I just spent about an hour talking to another guy who wanted to read books more. I just said pick up one and read it. He thanked me for that. I guess it was okay. Then he asked if communication was important in a relationship--a no-brainer. That not just important in a relationship, that is a relationship. Otherwise, all the other stuff you’re doing is pointless and leads to nothing but wasted time.
I didn’t have time to waste at 25 and I don’t have it at 45. I get tired of wasting time. Now is the time to do something--anything--that means something. Change the world, help someone, make someone smile. It might not sound romantic, but it’s something. I wonder when being honest became a liability rather than an asset? I wonder when guys will stop trying to save a damsel that doesn’t need to be saved because she’s strong enough to do it herself. Sometimes she just wants help down off her horse and someone to listen to how she slay a dragon.