wilson fisk is literally involved in human trafficking and extortion but he treats one woman with consent and tumblr is like what a great man towards women.
I’m pretty sure that post is just pointing out the fact that he doesn’t pursue her or push her into saying yes. I can’t think of any instances right now, but I’m sure we’ve seen some “heroes” continue to ask once a woman refuses, so that’s something…
We’ve only seen him interacting with only like 3 women–Vanessa, Gao, and his own mother–all of whom he treats with respect, arguably. He’s seen his mother being abused by his father, so he at least values women enough to back off when they say no.
Nobody’s praising him on high for being such a gentleman or anything. I think the post was just saying that his treatment of women (or at least the women he respects) isn’t one of the things that makes him the “bad guy.” He’s a lot of things, but he would never pressure a woman he liked into anything that would make her feel unsafe. Idk, I just think that’s worth mentioning.