shout out to all my fellow autistic (and non-autistic) folks who are big on wording and semantics because they take everything literally .
but when people notice or when they tell people then they only get upset at them and see a stubborn master manipulator working loopholes easier than they breathe and refusing to take responsibility for their own shortcomings by outlining everyone else's.
they're wrong about you.
you're not stubborn.
you're not manipulative.
you're not finding loopholes in the simple request of "you told me to unload the dishwasher, not put the dishes away. the dishes on the counter are not in the dishwasher."
you are different from the socially accepted norm, and that is okay.
you are being different and communicating that you're different and informing people how they can avoid this interpersonal complication and that is perfectly reasonable.
keep going on.