So i had this dream where i was on The Bachelor but still aro-ace and i actually made it pretty far. I like refused to kiss Mr. Bachelor on the mouth (even tho we were pretty tactile with each other) but no makeout sessions actually meant we got to know each other better so I kept advancing plus he didnt really like the other girls all that much. He eventually ask why i wouldnt let him kiss me so I told him but we still had a fun day together and i didnt get cut till like 2 episodes later where he was finally down to all the girls he was pretty into and Mr. Bachelor really didnt want me to go so he was trying to get the crew to let me stay with him so i could help him out along the way because by now we were pretty good friends (tbh i was his best friend at that point but he wasnt mine...). So of course the other girls didnt like that because they saw me, a aro, as a threat (???? Ok...). Either way i didnt want to stay with him because i was tired of being filmed 24/7 so i went home but we still texted a lot and facetimed when our timezones allowed. Idk who he ended up with but he didnt propose because he wanted to date long term before a engagement so twitter kept joking that i was the real winner because the show had showed that we still talked and that boded better for a long time relationship compared to whatever he had with the winner. Then as a joke we posted a video where he was giving me a promise ring down all serious down on one knee but it was ringpop. We then posted a literal professional photoshoot with my red ringpop and his green one. We grew kinda distant tho because he lived on the other side of the US