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Art/writing blog: @hinacu-arts
Current Main Fandoms: Deadpool & Wolverine
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mermaidonsororityrow asked:

hi, sorry, i saw your post abt yelena being aroace, and for some reason i had no idea! when i watched the black widow movie i sorta headcanoned her as lesbian, but that’s really cool that she’s aroace! i was wondering where that came from? (sorry again that this is really random)

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Its fine! I had personally no idea until after Black Widow came out. And lesbian!yelena is a very popular headcanon for mcu!yelena on ao3 and tumblr. And another fun sexuality fact you may not have known about: according to her wiki comic!Kate Bishop is explicitly and repeatedly said and shown to be bisexual in the comics

But back to Yelena

I dont actually know where it came from other than it came from the comics. Back when Black Widow came out a few people posted about how she's canonically ace/aroace with some comic panels of her talking (i think the panels said something like "i dont like men. And no, i dont like women either, so dont ask."). When people say "its canon in the comics" it usually means its actually very vague and more of a popular fandom headcanon (i once looked into the "comic!steve is canonically bisexual" claim and it all boiled down to one panel where the villain was like "the ladies. Or men, if thats what youre into" which to me was just saying the villain didnt want to assume anything but to a lot of people it was more oh the villain knows something we dont), but the way it was worded sounded a lot like the "this is what i am, im not going to use labels because that will confuse you more" coming out technique. So i have chosen to see it as a somewhat-explicit Yelena is Aro-Ace scene

Ive also heard from a couple of posts i saw last night on the subject saying someone (it was either the creator or one of the writers) has stated in a interview before that Yelena is Asexual

#hinacu ask#hinacu mcu#yelena belova#aroace#aromantic#asexual#aspec#i didnt do hardcore reseach on Steve so there may be other stuff out there#and i chose not to do reseach on Yelena because i dont want my hope to be shattered#but the amount of people ive seen make a post on how she's aroace in the last 2 days is a lot so i think it must be pretty solid#sadly the majority of those posts are made specifically to bash kate/y shippers#which isnt cool#ace#aro
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I know i got excited and crushed only yesterday about the exact same thing in a different book but...

aspec rep? ASPEC REP????

#context: that guy is her childhood best friend she thought died 7 years ago and ran into for the first time that night#and said two words to her before running off#so shes mad and heartbroken with him#thats all the info ive gotten at this point in the book#hinacu#aro#ace#aspec#aro spec#ace spec#aromantic#asexual#if u look at that post i was like:#am i a fool for hopping? probably#and then i got excited because a side character was confirmed aro and i was like IM NOT A FOOL FOR HOPING OMG#and then by his own mouth he was implied to be bi but he refused to date because he wanted his family line to end with him#im choosing to believe he uses that as a excuse bc he is actually aspec
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Ive been meaning to make a post on aroace Carmen for awhile and i cant sleep right now so here we go

  • The first time anyone asked her who she was into was Sheena when Black Sheep was 16. The answer is clearly no (right?): she'd grown up in isolation, this was her first year actively hanging out with people around her age, all these people were 2 or more years older than her so why would they take interest in her, and most importantly she'd never had a crush before. Sheena is one of those people who thinks if you havent had boyfriends since at least 5th grade youre not normal AND Black Sheep doesnt wanna go around telling people she's VILE raised (and she wants to fit in) so all she says is "no have you seen the boys here?" and points to the boys who are making a racket in the cafeteria.
  • The second time is by Brunt. Black Sheep quickly shuts it down and reassures Coach Brunt she does not need to beat up her new guy friends 
  • Cleo is next. She notices how all but one of Black Sheep's new friends are boys. 1) it was embarrassing enough Cleo held her after class to confront her 2) Countess Cleo somehow makes it both innocent questioning and hostile questioning. But thats not enough. Black Sheep is given 3) the birds and the bees talk AND 4) boys are horrible talk. She leaves the classroom two hours later traumatized.
  • Sheena HAS to be the center of attention and uses flirting to get this attention. Its why her "friend group" is all guys and why she's always taking digs at Black Sheep. Black Sheep knows Sheena knows that she doesnt like Gray like that but whenever Gray wont pay her attention she'll bring up how he likes Black Sheep more and insinuate things and it makes Black Sheep's blood boil and occastionally her skin crawl
  • ((Gray thinks she's cute, and was into her in the begining. But then they became friends and age gap (aka missing social skills) made her feel like a kid sister to him. He puts up with Sheena's remarks because 1) its not true 2) he knows where he stands with Black Sheep, so why should it bother him?))
  • Black Sheep never went to high school but she thinks this is how it would be. Its close enough to the movies: blonde mean girl, boy best friend, goofing off in class, sneaking off to break the rules. She could do without the talking about boys. She always prefered nature doctumentarys anyways.
  • After Gray becomes Crackle, Sheena becomes Tigeress, etc and Black Sheep begins her redo year of crime school no one bothers her about boys and dating.
  • After her escape and integration into the real world she begins interacting with many strangers everyday. The first few times people flirt with her it goes over her head. The first time someone asks her out she tells them she's leaving town later that day. She finds all the senarios where she imagined herself being the girl in movies who's pretty and is always drawing eyes to be actually be a hindrence since she's suppossed to blend into the background. Its the first time and everytime that someone makes some flirty comment about her body her blood goes cold. She doesn't tell Player this. Figures its because she was always the youngest and the baby of VILE she wasnt used to being seen in a "adult" way. Carmen never really minded her appearance, and likes how her hair extentions make her look: older, pretty, taller. Her new makeup look makes her look different while still looking good. She looks the part she's occasionally imagined being: that pretty girl in the movies. But she doesnt feel like she expected to feel. She's not getting excited about having this type of attention. So she has a brief moment of wanting to change everything, to make herself look as unattractive as possible. She decides not too, listens to the logic that is Player went through all this trouble to make her IDs that if she changed her look now it would make things worse... Besides disguises are about not looking like yourself
  • Getting it though Zack and Ivy's heads that no, she doesnt want to talk about how hot a actor is or talk about dream dates took several tries. At first they backed off because they were balancing the line of friend and boss and then completely when Carmen would attempt to contribute to those conversations very awkwardly. They notice she's fine with romcoms and listening to those types of conversations, its just participating that bothers her.
  • They still make fun of her "date" with Graham though. Carmen is fine but finds it easy to try to remain calm instead of letting her blood boil like it did when Tigeress insinuated things. She figures its because Zack and Ivy are real friends who respect her boundries. They eventually stop talking about it because it makes Player of all people upset.
  • ((Player now has to dodge accusations they throw at him about having a "little crush". Truth is he's still hurt over the fact Gray was Carmen's best friend back when Black Sheep was Player's))
  • Having someone refer to Devineaux as her boyfriend would have thrown her off anyday (he's in his late 30s and she just turned 20, WHY would she be dating him?), but to hear it come from Brunt was so out of place it made her realize that Brunt truely didnt know who she was. That hurt.

All right thats all of season one, ive been typing for one hour, ive been constructing this on the spot so it makes 0% sense to my sleep deprived brain, and i'll fix it in the morning

#hinacu cs#cs#carmen sandiego#aroace#aro#ace#aromantic#asexual#carmen sandiego netflix#carmen sandiego 2019#player#zack#ivy#tigeress#graham calloway
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Whenever ever a new ship gets popular

A) is the fact im oblivious, aro, or ace the reason i dont see it?

B) have the straights decided to jump on the "hes a boy, shes a girl" bandwagon once again?

C) are the gays desperate?

D) is this another projection/self-insert shipped with "i think this character is hot" situation?

E) the rare occurance the ship is actually canon AND popular

#hinacu#aro#ace#aroace#aromantic#asexual#aspec#omg the amount of ships that pass my dash and ppl are like ''just look at the gifs you can see the moment he fell in love'' and that person#has no change in expression AT ALL#shipping
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so my family was looking for a movie the other night and watching trailers and one of them was about a woman whos pushing herself into sexual situtations (porn, sex toy stores, dates) that shes uncomfortable or scared with because her last boyfriend dumped her for "not being that into sex". So either theyre shaming people who like vanilla sex and/or people who are ace-spec OR by some impossible chance theyre baiting horny allos into watching a movie that ends with revealing asexual people exist and their boundaries should be respected

its probably the first one but i can pretend that its the second one

besides imagining her going through all this and trying to impress her new love interest just to find out at the end of a date that he's ace/ace-spec which leads to her researching and realizing she's ace-spec (and both of them keep dating) would be a better ending

#hinacu#ace#asexual#ace spectrum#ace spec#asexual spectrum#THAT TRAILER WAS SO UNCOMFORTABLE TO WATCH#as soon as it opened with her bf trying to have sex with her and her voice over going#''think sexy thoughts think sexy thoughts'' to then start thinking about work I KNEW#and then her bf is mad she stops him to write something down for work so she wont forget and he says ''why cant we just have sex sometimes#i think you dont even like sex'' and i was like IS SHE ACE IS THIS A MOVIE ABOUT BEING ACE#and then it was a montage of her going to sex store and watching porn and all that bc she made a list of things shes not comfortable with#and i was like NO because i KNEW this movie was about shaming vanilla sex people#i dont remember the name but i think it was Looking For A Nice Girl#the end of the trailer she put erection cream on her lips so if you seen that scene thats the movie im talking about
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So i dont watch the Riverdale show but sometimes gifs pop up and basically they can have a mlm couple, a wlw, couple, interracial couples, INCEST, but refused to have a aroace character and instead put him in a realtionship with A LOT of explict sexual scenes????

#riverdale#jughead jones#aroace#aromantic#asexual#hinacu#bughead#smh#''sex sells'' really#u going to far#plus am i really supossed to believe teenagers can dp that level of makeup AND EVEN EYELINER everyday omg
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