You Will Be Mine
Since doing “Bride and Prejudice”, I have consciously realized that Gaston exhibits behavior like that of a stalker in his ruthless pursuit of Belle’s hand in marriage. And out of inspiration from my analysis on what makes Hans a sociopath, I wanted to write an analysis on what makes Gaston a stalker.
By definition, “stalking” is known as unwanted and/or repeated attention or surveillance by an individual or group towards another person. Stalking behavior generally consists of a person constantly following another person around and spying on them and their actions. In many stalking cases, the individual receiving the attention does not want it in the first place, and is repeatedly pursued and sought out, even after the stalker has been repeatedly told that the victim is not interested in them and/or wants to be left alone. When a person grows more committed to stalking another person, they grow more persistent and ruthless. As a result, the victim finds themself facing more frightening situations from the stalker, such as harassment and intimidation, even while not in the physical presence of the stalker.
Stalking always begins with fantasy and turns obsessive, and the most serious cases escalate to the point of being deadly. Stalkers can be anyone, from complete strangers to people we know. Female stalkers often target other women, while men primarily stalk women. Men who stalk women often do so because they have a romantic interest or infatuation towards the women they pursue. Though not all stalkers are the same, the following traits or behavior pattens are seen in most stalkers, particularly those who are romantically interested in their victims:
- Narcissism
- Egotism
- Obsession
- Delusion
- Jealousy
- Possessiveness
- Deception
- Manipulation
- Sense of entitlement
- Falls “instantly” in love
- Needs to have control over others
- Difficulty separating fantasy from reality
- Unable to cope with rejection
- Dependent on others for sense of “self”
Most if not all of these traits fit Gaston to a T, though some only become more obvious over the course of the film as his evil nature begins to surface, so it’s safe to say he is indeed a stalker. Despite having a handsome face, muscular physique, and brutal strength ability that no other man in town can surpass, Gaston is also extremely vain, narcissistic, conceited, egotistical, and arrogant. The fact that he is so popular, admired, respected, and regarded as the best man by almost everyone else in the village (primarily by women, especially the Bimbettes) just for his handsome, muscular appearance, brute strength, and the “good” qualities that come from them is what exacerbates Gaston’s already large ego. He relies on his own traits and the villagers’ positive opinion of him for his sense of self, and the image he has created for himself in the eye of the public means everything to him. Gaston’s high opinion of himself is such that he believes he is superior to everyone around him in every way, showing perfectly that he has a massive superiority complex. In regarding himself as superior, Gaston also has a strong sense of entitlement to always have his way, especially when it comes to his own desires. In other words, he sees himself as a winner, someone who is always meant to get his way, to get whatever he wants. Gaston hates hearing “no” as an answer because such a response makes him look like a loser and a failure, which something he finds totally unacceptable and intolerable to his image. Even when he initially doesn’t get what he wants, no matter how much humiliation he receives or how much he is rebuffed, Gaston refuses to give up on his goals until he finally succeeds in getting whatever it is he wants.
Seconds after he first appears on screen, Gaston announces to LeFou that Belle is the woman he is going to marry because she is the most beautiful woman in town. Her beauty alone is the reason why Gaston shallowly believes that she is the best woman. Because she is “the best”, he feels that he and he alone deserves her, as emphasized the way he asks LeFou “And I don’t I deserve the best?” Then Gaston sings, “Right from the moment when I met her, saw her, and I said she’s gorgeous, and I fell”, which implies that he fell in love with Belle, or rather, with her beautiful face, when he first laid eyes on her. Though Belle never outwardly show any signs of interest or attraction in him, which is a stark contrast to the Bimbettes, Gaston is so overconfident in his own outer beauty that he develops a delusion that somewhere deep within, Belle IS just like all the other women in town by having an infatuation with him. In fact, Gaston organizes an entire wedding outside Belle’s house to surprise her before he even makes his proposal. This act, along with him saying, “This is her lucky day”, shows that Gaston is totally convinced, though also lost in this delusional fantasy, that, even though she doesn’t show it, Belle is in love with him. Therefore, he is completely confident that EVERYTHING will go like he expects, and that NOTHING will go wrong. Gaston not only believes that Belle will accept his proposal in a heartbeat, but that she will agree to marry him on the spot. This is why he has the whole wedding prearranged without her knowledge and prior to his proposal. When he gets inside Belle’s house to make his proposal, Gaston says today is the day her dreams comes true, and claims he knows “Plenty!” about them right before describes his visions as a married man, which include more sexist remarks about women and housewifery. This is another moment that displays Gaston having this delusional fantasy that Belle not only has love for him, but also shares his visions of married life. And in having this delusion, he does not doubt at all that she will approve of becoming his wife.
However, when he invites Belle on a date to the tavern and makes his marriage proposal to her, Gaston gets rejected both times, though the second time is much more blunt and explicit on her part. When they have their first interaction, immediately after exchanging hellos, Gaston rudely and curtly snatches Belle’s book out of her hands and tosses it into the mud. After she picks it up and cleans it off, he takes it away again and forces her to walk with and beside him as he “invites” her to come to the tavern with him. But Belle successfully grabs her book back and walks away from Gaston as she politely tells him she can’t go, much to his disappointment. Throughout this entire scene, Gaston taking the book from Belle, trying to keep it away from her, and forcing her to walk with him and come to the tavern shows his deep-rooted desire to dominate, control, and possess her. His reason isn’t just because it’s part of his stalking behavior, but because he sees men as superior to women. To him, women are property possessions that are meant to be owned and controlled by men, especially in a marriage. If Gaston married Belle, he would see her just as his slave whose purpose would be to obey any command he gives her, without question, argument, defiance, resistance, or refusal. And since he wants to marry her, Gaston starts his pursuit Belle with ways to try and make her his property. He takes her book away and attempts to make her come with him to the tavern to try and get her to submit to him, to make her see things his way, to show her that she should do what he tells her and wants her to do (particularly since he doesn’t want her, or even any woman, to read and become smart). But Belle quickly figures out what Gaston is trying to do by being forceful with her, and she fights back because she absolutely refuses to let him do that. On the contrary, she does not view him as someone who has the right to control her and give her orders, especially if it’s to force her to do something she doesn’t want to do. So Belle manages to resist Gaston’s efforts by grabbing her book back from him and walking out of his “embrace” before she makes her way back to her home.
Besides the facts that she has to get home to help her father and that she already doesn’t like him, Gaston’s attempts to force Belle to do what he wants her to do, and even not to do, are why she refuses to go out with him. While he becomes frustrated and disappointed that he fails to charm her, he does not take this rejection very seriously. Since Belle is kind and polite when she turns him down, Gaston doesn’t not consider her rebuffs as a true rejection, or even a lack of interest in him. He is given clear evidence to the contrary by her subtly resisting, defying, and fighting his efforts to control her. But due to his delusion in thinking that Belle is in love with him, like all the other women in town, Gaston likely thinks that her refusal is just her playing a game of “being hard to get” with him. However, though he is annoyed and frustrated when she refuses going to the tavern with him, Gaston becomes totally furious when Belle rejects his marriage proposal. This is primarily because she does so by tricking him to get out of her house as she says, “I just don’t deserve you!”, and he doesn’t even realize she is leading him into a trap until it’s too late. Belle lures Gaston towards her door and after he corners her there, then he closes his eyes and tries to kiss her, making him totally unaware that she is opening the door to get rid of him. Once she opens it, he loses his footing, causing him to fall headfirst into a mud pond in front of the cottage. Since the villagers witnessed that Gaston was rejected by Belle and was the victim of a trick she played to lure him out of her home, this results in him being humiliated. He is so enraged by the rejection and resulting humiliation that by nightfall, he is still sulking about it and refuses to let it go. While sitting in his chair at the tavern, Gaston loudly complains about it, first by ranting, “Who does she think she is? That girl has tangled with the wrong man! No one says ‘No’ to Gaston!”, then he finishes with “Dismissed! Rejected! Publicly humiliated! Why, it’s more than I can bear!” As he says the final word, Gaston gets physical in displaying his rage over the situation when he throws two mugs of beer he grabs from LeFou into the lit fireplace. These words and this action perfectly display Gaston’s stalker trait of his inability to cope with and accept rejection.
So from the way his marriage proposal is turned down, Gaston finally learns the hard way that Belle is not in love with him and has no desire to marry him. But even though he learns that he was wrong about Belle, that doesn’t mean he accepts it as a final answer. Right after he is kicked out of her house, Gaston grabs LeFou and vows that he will have Belle for his wife by any means necessary, regardless of her refusals. Despite having been proven that Belle does not want to be with him, Gaston does not care what she thinks or feels. His determination to marry her even after she refuses him reveals a more possessive, persistent side of him. It drives him to obsession, and he decides to resort to more forceful measures of deception and manipulation to win her hand in marriage. Gaston comes up with a plan to have Belle’s father Maurice locked up in an asylum (due to his claims about the Beast, which no one believes) unless she agrees to marry him. But Belle refuses Gaston once again and also proves her father’s sanity by revealing the existence of the Beast to everyone. When she talks about the Beast in such a positive way despite his monstrous appearance, Gaston quickly deduces that Belle is not in love with him, but with the Beast. With this concept in mind, and enraged by a second refusal from Belle, Gaston grows extremely jealous and decides to kill the Beast just so that he can have Belle all to himself. He further displays manipulation when the speech he makes to get the mob to kill the Beast is a claim to protect the village, when in reality, it is nothing more than a ploy to get them to help him infiltrate the castle, and he cares nothing for the villagers themselves. When he is at the castle and fights with the Beast, Gaston taunts him by saying that Belle would never love a monster and that she belongs to HIM.
So from all of the scenes I described above, Gaston fits the profile of a stalker all too well. But just what kind of a stalker is he? 🤨
According to the article "A Study of Stalkers" by Mullen et al. (2000), five different types of stalkers have been identified:
- Rejected stalkers follow their victims in order to reverse, correct, or avenge a rejection (e.g.; termination of a romantic relationship).
- Resentful stalkers make a vendetta because of a sense of grievance against the victims, motivated mainly by the desire to frighten and distress the victim.
- Intimacy seekers seek to establish an intimate, loving relationship with their victim. Such stalkers often believe that their victim is a long-sought-after soulmate, and that they are meant for each other.
- Incompetent suitors, while having poor social or courting skills, develop a fixation and/or a sense of entitlement to an intimate relationship with those who have attracted their amorous interest. Their victims are most often already in a dating relationship with someone else.
- Predatory stalkers spy on the victim in order to prepare and plan an attack (usually sexual) on the victim.
Out of these five types of stalkers, I would classify Gaston as an incompetent suitor, though his actions against or towards Belle also make him a bit of an intimacy seeker, a resentful stalker, and a rejected stalker.
As an incompetent suitor, Gaston develops a fixation on marrying Belle, but his attempts at charming her always end poorly because his boorish, brazen behavior, combined with his inferior opinion of women, do nothing but annoy and repulse her. Additionally, Gaston’s superior views of himself, combined with the same feelings the villagers shower upon him, has given him a sense of entitlement in which he believes he deserves anything he sets to get for himself. Since he and the rest of the town view him as the best man around, Gaston thinks he is entitled to have the best woman, that being Belle, and only because he and the other townspeople regard her as the most beautiful woman, as his wife. Once he makes up his mind to marry Belle, Gaston immediately starts trying to schmooze and woo her by inviting her to the tavern with him and looking at his trophies. However, right before and as he makes his invitation, Gaston attempts to get Belle under his control by taking her book away and discourage her from reading while making sexist remarks about how it’s wrong for women to read since they shouldn’t become smart and think for themselves. Because he insults her intelligence and love of reading, Gaston ultimately fails in his attempt to court Belle, and she turns down his invitation to the tavern. Right before he makes his marriage proposal, Gaston disgusts Belle by not only dirtying her book with his mud-covered boots and smelly feet, but also by his description of married life where his wife would massage his feet and their six or seven children would only be “strapping boys, like me!” Further appalled when Gaston admits he wants her to be his wife and tells her to say she will marry him, Belle rejects his proposal, much to his fury. Gaston also fits the incompetent suitor type of stalker because he becomes consumed with jealousy when he learns that Belle is in love with someone else: the Beast, whom she describes as “kind and gentle” even though he has a hideous exterior. Refusing to lose Belle to someone he thinks is nothing more than an ugly monster, Gaston decides to kill the Beast so he can have Belle all to himself.
As an intimacy seeker, Gaston does sees Belle as his soulmate, the only woman meant for him. With his “handsomest man in town” status, and Belle being the most beautiful woman in town, Gaston thinks that he and Belle are a perfect match, that the two of them alone are meant for each other. However, Gaston is much less of an intimacy seeker than he is an incompetent suitor because he does not actually seek to have a true loving, intimate relationship with Belle. Like I’ve said before, Gaston has very misogynistic, sexist, inferior views of women, believing that their sole purposes in life are to serve and obey men, and be their sex partners. Therefore, he does not see women as people who are capable of having individual personalities and have equal rights to men, but rather as objects, possessions, and potential property that are meant to belong to men.
Gaston could also be classified as a resentful stalker because he develops a vendetta against Belle following her rejection of his proposal and tricking him out of her house, all of which humiliate him in front of the villagers. With his pride and ego damaged by her actions, Gaston feels that Belle has wronged him, so he sets out to be righted by forcing her to be his wife, regardless of what she thinks about it. While they barely have any kind of relationship, much less know each other well enough to have one in the first place, the fact that he wants to correct and avenge Belle’s rejection of him by forcing her to marry him, even if it is against her will, means that Gaston can classify as a rejected stalker, too.
In most infamous stalking cases that have led to the murders or attempted murders of the victims or other intended targets, especially where the stalkers follow their victims out of a romantic interest, stalkers tend to be lonely people with few to no friends, withdrawn, unpopular, socially awkward or inept, regarded as strange or nerdy, and keep to themselves. At the same time, the victims tend to be popular, intelligent, well-liked, respected, and socially competent with a good number of friends. But Gaston and Belle are quite the opposite as the stalker and victim, respectively. Gaston is popular, respected, admired, and well-liked by virtually everyone in town, while Belle, despite being considered the town’s most beautiful woman, is unpopular, withdrawn, friendless, and regarded as odd and nerdy due to her intelligence, love of books, independence, and free spirit.
After careful consideration, one conclusion that I can make about Gaston as a stalker in regards to his pursuit of Belle is that, no matter what he would have done and how low he would stoop just to get her to be his wife, Belle would never agree to marry him. Gaston sought to kill the Beast just so he could get his competition out of the way and make Belle his once and for all. Had he succeeded in his murderous goal, I believe that Gaston would have then resorted to other forceful measures to get Belle to comply, such as physically assaulting and beating her. However, in my confidence that Belle would always refuse him, even if she was threatened with physical harm, I truly believe that if Gaston continued being told “no” as Belle’s final answer, it would make him so furious that he would decide to permanently end her refusals by killing her in a blind rage. I believe this because if Gaston felt couldn't he have Belle, then no one could, But he wouldn’t kill himself, he would kill her because she would be causing him the “suffering” by her nonstop rejections of him. Therefore, she wouldn’t deserve to live any longer.
In the film, Gaston thinks that murdering the Beast to get him out of the way would be how he could finally win and marry Belle. Though like when he underestimates her wit and intelligence the first time she rejects his proposal, Gaston also underestimates Belle’s inner strength, independence, and assertion. She has her own mind, can make her own decisions, can stand up for herself, and is confident in who she is and the decisions she makes. She hates Gaston and hates the idea of marrying him, so she would never change her mind and agree to become his wife under any circumstances. This is why I believe that, had Gaston succeeded in killing the Beast, but was still refused by Belle again and again, he would end his “suffering” caused by her unending rejections of him by murdering her.
If Gaston could not win by making Belle his wife, then he would find another way to come out on top and win. And to me, that would be by him ending her life, not his own.
And so there you have it on all the reasons as to what makes Gaston a stalker. Although Gaston is the Disney villain I hate the most, I do think he has a good role in the film to help the story move along, particularly with how he serves not only as a rival to the Beast, but as a dark reflection to him, too. Considering how much his obsession with Belle gradually turns him into a twisted, sadistic, ruthless, dangerous, murderous monster, it’s safe to say that he would resort to physical violence to get Belle to surrender and marry him. But since she would never give up, never change her response, never submit to his desires, I have no doubt that Gaston would gradually grow so furious about receiving umpteen rejections from Belle that he would kill her, just so he could still come out on top and win.
By the time of his death, Gaston was a true danger to both Belle and the Beast, so his death was the best way for him to be defeated. And while he fell to his death all alone, the curse on the Beast was broken because of his and Belle’s love for each other. In the end, Belle got rid of her stalker and found the true man of her dreams. ❤️❤️❤️
Hope you all enjoyed another analysis from me! Thank you all for reading, and thank you, @minervadeannabond, for coming up with my section title “Stalk Like a Man”! Until next time, everyone, and have a wonderful day! 😁😁😁