Lately, I noticed that there have been a lot of questions about self harm on the site, so I thought I’d do my best to answer them. Here are four of your questions about handling self harm–whether it’s yours or someone close to you.
This is to you. To the girl who still cuts herself. Maybe in a way I’m writing this for myself, too. Because I was you. Somedays, I still am you. Somedays, I want to cut so bad that it’s almost unbearable. Almost. But I don’t. And here’s why you shouldn’t either.
My left arm is full of tiny, delicate raised lines that gently remind me of how much life once burned. My left thigh tells a harsher story of a girl who wanted to dig deeper. It’s the story of a girl who was her own enemy. Every single day.
This is my deepest secret. This is my shame. But I need to share it with you...
I've been having problems and a few years ago I started cutting and it became addicting, I never told anyone and I've always been afraid of how my parents would react I they ever saw the cuts or scars. I recently moved to the beach and with summer approaching I have no idea what to do.
Read this story and this story, including the supporting comments. If you’re still uncomfortable talking to your parents about cutting, we recommend going to a school counselor or calling one of these fantastic anonymous self-harm hotlines that can provide the help and support you’re looking for. We’re sorry to hear you’re going through a rough time. Please take care of yourself and be aware that these great resources exist for teens in similar situations for a reason - take advantage of them!
All our love,
gurl