When it comes orgasms, no one is going to complain about having one. If they did, you would probably wonder what exactly is going on with them. When O’s feel that good, who is going to find something to complain about, eh? However, if you had to choose, between having one orgasm and having multiple orgasms, everyone is going to pick multiple orgasms every single time.
Sex is weird. It’s one of those things that, no matter how many times you do it, never really seems to become totally normal. Everyone, it seems, tends to be in agreement on this–there are a ton of Tumblr posts and hilarious tweets that are specifically dedicated to just how awkward sex can be. Basically, when you get the Internet and sex involved, weird things happen. (But we all knew that already. Probably.) In fact, sex is so strange that, when it’s happening, chances are good that your focus is mostly on yourself.
Experimenting sexually and trying new things, such as using a vibrator, is totally normal. The first time you use a vibrator, it may be a bit intimidating. “How do I use it? Where do I put it? Which setting should I have mine on?” The good news is that using a vibrator is pretty basic: you put it down there, find a position that feels good, and go with it. The bad news is that there is no handbook on how to do everything, so your first time using it can be a little confusing, regardless of how basic it is. Plus, you feel like you can’t ask anyone about it, which makes things even more of a struggle.
Real Talk: Orgasms can help relieve menstrual cramps.
The Big O…the Climax…the Happy Ending. However you say it, it’s supposedly the “goal” of every sexual experience. Orgasms are the beautiful moment when all of life’s cares melt away into sheer bliss. Yes, your body may contort into unrecognizable positions and strange animal sounds may escape from your mouth, but it’s just the price you pay for entering Pleasure Town.
However, sometimes you just aren’t getting to that climax, and you don’t want your partner to know. There are a few reasons why you would decide to fake an orgasm: your partner is very intent on making it happen for you, you don’t want to hurt their feelings, or you’re just looking for a way to end the situation quickly. Usually, guys and girls decide to become an Oscar-winning-actor in the the bedroom to avoid telling their partner what is really going on with their body. Some people find “faking it” extremely offensive while others view it as par-for-the-course.
We went on Reddit to get the scoop on whether or not people are faking their “O” face. 10 real guys and girls spill on if they fake orgasms, and if so, why.
this is super, super, super embarrassing but... so guys often ask why girls don't get orgasms when they use tampons and i have no idea what to say. Any ideas?
Say that most women cannot orgasm with vaginal penetration alone. Then have them read up on the fabulous thing that is cliteracy.
Also mention that tampons aren’t exactly a turn on.
xo,
gurl
Ah, orgasms. How can something so popular and wonderful be so complicated at the same time? For dudes, orgasms come pretty easily – they can just touch themselves down there for a bit, and voila! They’re done. But for girls, it’s not quite as simple. For some ladies, achieving an orgasm can be a difficult task. Some girls can’t climax during sex, and some girls can’t even figure our how to climax at all.
We’ve gotten every question you can possibly get about The Big O. I’m not making fun of anyone, because I know how hard female orgasms can be, and I totally understand that there is a lack of information out there. Want to know everything from how to orgasm to how to know if he fakes it? Here are 20 of our best posts about orgasms that will answer all of your questions.
The legitimacy of the G-spot has been discussed for years now. Is it real? Is it made up? Is it just an extension of another part of our vagina? Does it really give women the most amazing, intense orgasm of their lives? Is there something wrong with you if you’ve never felt it? When it comes to the G-spot, there are so many questions, but so little certain answers. It’s actually pretty frustrating. Don’t you want to know what the heck is going on down there?!
Your questions, answered.
