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My first kiss was not particularly exciting or eventful, and I really wish it had been with someone else. But I was one of those girls who just got it over with. For whatever reason, there’s a lot of pressure to kiss someone by a certain age, which is just silly. It shouldn’t be like that! You should kiss someone on your terms when you’re ready and when it feels right for you!
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Yep, you read the title right. I am a 23- year-old woman who has never been in a real relationship. I’m Candice, “the friend,” “the cool girl who guys can watch sports with” but girlfriend? Nope, not a box I’ve checked. Now, before you think “Poor girl” or “Wow, she must have some serious issues,” I want to state that I’ve been single my entire adult life by CHOICE. I have remained unattached for many reasons. Some may say that I’ve made excuses, that I have trust and commitment issues or that I haven’t really lived because I’ve never had a boyfriend… Well I say “Whatever! I’m just doing me!”... (Read More)
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Anonymous asked:
Girls, I want your opinion. I'm 18 and I never had boyfriend. And all the stuff that comes with it. Is that normal? Is there an age when "things" have must be done? Will be waiting your answer (Sorry If I didn't express well, I don't speak english actually). Kisses.
Hey gurl,
There is no age when “things” are supposed to happen. 18 is still very young. Here are some great articles to show you how incredibly normal your situation is:
Remember that your most mature relationships you have will most likely form after high school. We know this is cliche to say, but there are going to be plenty of fish in the sea.
All our love,
gurl
xo
Anonymous asked:
Almost 18 and never been kissed. That's not what's bothering me, though. I was raised to be independent and to have set goals, but lately I've been fearing that I'd never have a guy interested in me. I'm slightly below average looking and very reserved and quiet. Mostly introverted, but I'm able to open up once I get close to someone. But there's never been a guy who seemed even remotely interested in me. I feel inadequate even though I know it's stupid thinking it.
Read I’m 22 And I’ve Never Been Kissed…And It’s Not A Big Deal, especially the comments. TLDR; You are not alone and it's seriously nbd.
We feel you, sometimes it’s super hard to see anything past the present. But not being kissed by 18 is soooo common. Keep embracing that independence and wait for a guy that can see everything that makes you amazing. Trust us, this is only the beginning! You are going to meet A LOT of people in your life, guys included. Some of those guys won’t be interested, but some will. Just please please never settle for someone who does not treat you right.
All our love,
gurl
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