When it comes to the topic of masturbation, vibrators, fingers, and sex toys are the methods that typically first come to mind. But why are we leaving out humping? “Humping?” Yes, I’m talking about humping an object, such as a pillow or stuffed animal, as another method to find pleasure without the help of a partner. If you’ve never given humping much thought, I bet you are now.
It is appropriate for me to pick “Love Myself” by Hailee Seinfeld as my own personal song of summer. Why is this? Well, I just like Hailee Steinfeld in general. Plus, this song is pretty blatantly about female masturbation–which, if you’ve ever been on this site before, you’ll know we’re pretty into. In honor of this song, I decided to do a roundup of your own personal “loving yourselves” routines. From the boards, here are 9 of the weirdest ways you guys like to masturbate.
While there is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating, there is definitely a time and place for it. There are some places where you probably shouldn’t masturbate, but you know, to each their own. If you do choose to masturbate in public, be careful because it’s definitely illegal in certain spots.
But apparently a lot of people do like to masturbate in public. Some even get a thrill out of it!
Although literally everyone masturbates, it’s still a really taboo subject that most people don’t talk about – like pooping or farting. We all do it, but for some reason, most of us are kind of embarrassed to admit it. That means we’re also embarrassed to ask the many questions that we have, which is really a shame.
Okay so do when you masturbate do you rub the clit hood thing or do you go in betweeen because i feel like sensitive there like im going to start bleeding or something idfk
xo
gurl
Masturbation is always a hot topic here because, well, it’s awesome! It’s super healthy, puts you in touch (hehe) with your sexuality, and it’s fun. There are a million reasons to masturbate, but is it strictly a solo activity?
On the message boards, a bunch of y’all are discussing whether or not it’s normal to masturbate with your friends.
asturbation is a touchy subject (no pun intended there). Seriously, it is something that many people do or want to do, but are way too afraid or embarrassed to talk about. I understand the feeling. It took me a long time to not feel ashamed and even longer for my friends and I to even mention the word to each other. But guess what? Everyone does it!
There is nothing wrong with exploring yourself and seeing what you like. In fact, it’s really healthy. I know a lot of you may be shy about the subject, but there is no need to be. Masturbation is natural and completely normal. If you’re still a little iffy about it, that’s okay too. Here are 5 comment questions from readers about masturbation.
oneandonly4 said:
"Maybe just the edge of my mattress that's it."
Simple and effective.
Masturbation! If we could put that word in bright, shiny lights, we would, because we think it’s great. Masturbation is just another step on that giant staircase we’d like to call self-discovery. Just like knowing exactly what kind of music you need to listen to after a bad day, or knowing if you like sandwiches with or without the crust, knowing how to turn yourself on is just one of those things that we figure out some way or another...
If there’s one thing we love talking about here on Gurl it’s self-love. Self-love comes in lot’s of forms, from positive body image to making healthy choices. But self-love also includes a little something called masturbation.
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Hi gURL, first of all, your blog is so awesome, I just spent 2 hours on it! I have a question that I'm scared to ask anyone about. Even on here, but here it goes- I'm 13 and masturbate, but I like to get aroused first. I sometimes watch porn to do this, and it does not make me uncomfortable in any way but I'm worried that it's wrong! Should I be watching it? Is it ok to watch? I always feel SO guilty afterwards!! Help!
Hey gurl,
Don’t sweat it. Watching porn while you’re masturbating is totally normal. Porn is a controversial subject, especially because the industry is known for abusing porn stars. However, there is a wide variety of porn that does not include malicious content. There is nothing ‘wrong’ with watching it. Read 7 Reasons Watching Porn Isn’t A Bad Thing for a deeper look at gurl’s attitude towards the subject. You do you.
xo
gurl
