Growing up, I had two best friends I did everything with who I had known almost my whole life. I met one girl in pre-school and the other one on the first day of kindergarten class. We were an inseparable trio. Everyone knew that we were a package deal – you couldn’t be friends with just one of us, you had to be friends with all of us.
Imagine this situation: Your friend just told you that they’re gay. Whether this is shocking to you or something you’ve been expecting, you might not have any idea what you’re supposed to say or how you should act. Or, maybe you think you know what to say and how to act, when in reality, you’re saying/doing something offensive or upsetting. Being supportive to someone who is going through the sometimes difficult process of coming out can be a tough thing to figure out. It’s important to keep in mind that this is their process, and they’ve decided to invite you on their journey. Even if you identify as gay, you might not say the right thing – this is not just one giant experience, and each person has a different story to tell.
For some people, realizing what your sexuality is (AKA realizing you aren’t a straight, cis-gender person) and then telling the important people in your life comes easily. But for many people, both of these things are very tough and emotional. Coming out to the people you care about the most can be a stressful and nerve-wracking experience. It’s a time when you might feel very alone, and that can be the scariest part. We hope that our newest Real Gurl Advice video on coming out makes you feel less alone and makes this experience a little less painful for you.
Degrassi is a roller coaster of emotions. One episode will make you laugh and cry at the same time. Some people say that Degrassi was too dramatic and like a soap opera, but it’s probably one of the most realistic shows for teens.
Thank you Thank you @ingridnilsen for being so honest, articulate and REAL about the intricacies of coming out. You are beautiful and a true role model.
I was raised in a very open household. My mom and I talked about everything from sex, to periods, to drugs. She always told me I could come to her with anything, so I did… a lot. I think being so open with my mom really allowed me to become the person that I am today. I think it’s super important to have a close relationship with your parents and know that you can go to them with anything. At the end of the day, support from your parents is something that everyone needs. Especially, if you are a gay teen.
