Americans are weird about sex.
It might surprise you to find out that some of your favorite stars won’t put a label on their sexuality. Whether it’s because they just don’t want the public to know or because they genuinely do not label their sexuality, it doesn’t matter: it’s still pretty badass.
Bisexual people often feel a lack of community. Gays and lesbians can often be exclusive and hypocritical when it comes to bisexuality. Called the “Invisible Majority” in a report by the San Francisco Human Rights Committee, bisexuals make up the largest sect of the LGBTQ community but lack the same support. It’s time to change that!
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You may be familiar with the Kinsey Scale, which explains that sexuality is not black and white (heterosexual and homosexual), but a continuum between the two. Living in a world that subscribes to the orientation dichotomy can be difficult for people who fall near the center of the Kinsey Scale. However, times they are a changin’, and it is becoming more and more acceptable to admit that you’re attracted to both males and females. Yay, progress!
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Obviously someone who has dated both genders would be the best person to ask about these dating differences – and that’s exactly what Reddit users did. In this Ask Reddit thread, someone asked bisexual members to discuss the biggest and most surprising differences between dating guys and dating girls. So, if you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to have a female significant other vs. a male significant other, this is the article you want to be reading.
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Anonymous asked:
Hi Gurl! First of all, I've been following your tumblr for ages now and it's really helps me out with some complex issues. Now that I've established that I really do have a crush on another girl, it's driving me crazy! My brain physically can't stop itself from thinking about her and making up these scenarios in my head, and I constantly crave her presence. She's also quite a few years older than me and straight, so that makes it worse because I know I'll never have a chance with her. Help!!!!
First, of all, thanks for the support. Our followers are dabomb.com and we’d do anything for them!
We’ve totally been in your situation, and it’s a real toughy. Take a look at What Should I Do About My Straight Girl Crush? …It gets you.
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Figuring out who you are — whether we are talking in terms of sexuality or just in general — is really effin’ hard. Trust me, even I don’t have myself entirely figured out yet and I’m supposed to be an adult or something. I’m constantly discovering and uncovering new parts of myself and my identity. It’s exciting and scary (and sometimes a little strange) all at the same time. But I’m sure you already know this.
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Pornhub, which is the largest porn site in the world, recently released a stat that many of you might find interesting: female viewers are more interested in watching lesbian porn than male viewers are. In fact, lesbian porn ranked at number six for the things men are searching for on the porn site.
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So you’re a girl who likes girls and you want to hook up with a girl. But there is one teeny, tiny problem. You don’t know any queer girls. Like, zero. I mean, seriously. Where are they all hiding? Cause they certainly aren’t around here!
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