Obviously someone who has dated both genders would be the best person to ask about these dating differences – and that’s exactly what Reddit users did. In this Ask Reddit thread, someone asked bisexual members to discuss the biggest and most surprising differences between dating guys and dating girls. So, if you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to have a female significant other vs. a male significant other, this is the article you want to be reading.
Figuring out who you are — whether we are talking in terms of sexuality or just in general — is really effin’ hard. Trust me, even I don’t have myself entirely figured out yet and I’m supposed to be an adult or something. I’m constantly discovering and uncovering new parts of myself and my identity. It’s exciting and scary (and sometimes a little strange) all at the same time. But I’m sure you already know this.
Pornhub, which is the largest porn site in the world, recently released a stat that many of you might find interesting: female viewers are more interested in watching lesbian porn than male viewers are. In fact, lesbian porn ranked at number six for the things men are searching for on the porn site.
So you’re a girl who likes girls and you want to hook up with a girl. But there is one teeny, tiny problem. You don’t know any queer girls. Like, zero. I mean, seriously. Where are they all hiding? Cause they certainly aren’t around here!
If there is one thing that frustrates every well-meaning ally about queered sexuality, it’s all of these labels. Yes, us queer folks really like to think up a lot of labels for our sexuality. We aren’t trying to make it hard for you straight-leaning lady allies. We just want to have choices. A lot of choices, at that.
One Gurl frequenter asked: “There are a lot of labels when it comes to the LGBT community. I’m not sure what they all mean. Can you help me out with some definitions? I want to know what I’m talking about!”
I'm very confused... I like men, I am attracted to men & I want to be with a man. But i get very turned on by women... I really could never see myself being with the same sex relationship wise, but I fantasies being with a girl sexually... I also prefer lesbian porn. Is this normal? These thoughts make me feel selfish.
Very normal! No reason to feel selfish. You can appreciate another woman’s body/climax without being a lesbian. You should check these articles out:
Stay you.
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hi :) I've been feeling kind of bicurious lately, like i'd like the experience of making out with a girl. But at the same time I know that i'm straight and I wouldn't want to actually date a girl. So I feel like i'm probably never to going to act on these thoughts because I don't want to mess with anyone's feelings, and of course my friend who's gay is out of the question so I don't know who'd i'd kiss anyway. Am I alone in this? Do you have any advice or thoughts on this? Thank you so much
You are definitely not alone on this. Sexuality is fluid and always changing, so having these feelings are completely and utterly normal. In fact, we have a ton of resources on our site for ladies like you:
And most importantly, we have a wonderful forum community here for Bi, Lesbian, and Curious support.
Stay you.
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