got dumped 🫡
#he said he's too busy with school for a relationship which is fair bc i didn't date anyone while i was in school to avoid distractions too#and yet he was the one who asked me out 🤨#and i was the one who reached out after our date to say it was nice maybe i should have waited to see if he did idk#bc its felt like im the only one putting effort in a lot of the time since then#so maybe it should have been obvious#it occurred to me that he might not be very interested anymore but i thought i was being paranoid and insecure 😔#dating is a minefield and i hate it#this is only the second guy i have dated since high school so i'm batting zero#last guy i broke up w after a few months bc he was not very nice and was kinda controlling and weird#anyway#ugh#dating is a minefield. and in your late twenties too. inhumane#one guy scared of commitment one guy about to propose after a month where can i get the emotionally mature regular guys#the bar is on the ground my standards are so low what gives ughhh#this post is not an invitation to send me weird anons or weird asks of any kind