i should be able to google my own family lore
#my dad's side of the family is so weird literally nobody has ever given me a straight answer of what my grandma's name is#i asked what the maiden name was of my great grandma bc there's a dispute abt her ancestry and my dad can't remember her first or last name?#his own grandma???#he knew her she was alive for a long time including in my lifetime#he's basically been estranged from most of his family for 30 years but that was his dad's side not his mom's#but even estrangement isnt a reason to forget her entire name?#on my mom's side i know my grandma great grandma and great great grandma's married and maiden names#but in my dad's side i only know my dad's last name#he remembered his grandma's married last name but that gives zero information about her and her ancestry#anyway#not that it matters in the long run it just seems sad she's been basically forgotten