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ugasanie

@gorkaya-trava

ru/eng // don't dm me please I won't answer you anyway // death to russia, death to putin, death to everyone involved in war crimes against ukraine
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hi! I'm Rhine, 21, he/they/she, and looking for moots here!

• nonbinary sapphic

• autistic & spoonie, diagnosed with OCD, severe depression, ED and PTSD

• csa and abuse survivor, I post trauma-related stuff really often

• dsbm, symphonic bm, atmospheric bm, blackgaze, dark ambient, death metal, blackened death metal, post-hardcore and other stuff I don't remember lmao. if you're a metalhead you're VERY welcome here <3

current interests: genshin impact, the elder scrolls, dead space, the owl house, good omens, the lord of the rings, moomin valley, sanrio characters, heaven officials' blessing, black metal scene, tarot readings, magical crystals, magic in general, mineralogy, makeup

• somewhat a writer/poet

• third year musical student (viola and screaming crying throwing up)

• english isn't my first language so it kinda sucks sometimes

I'm not pro ana or pro any self-destructive behaviors by no means, I just suffer from these and share my experience with them. if you're not comfortable with things I post, please block me and don't report, this is my safe space and place for venting <3

dni: terfs/radfems, transmeds, queerphobes, misogynists, ableists, nsfw/k1nk blogs, n*zis, pro-russia/pro-p*tin/z-patriots, minors

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mochabunnies

i like imagining sunday doing the sibling thing hgdfhgjdfs

(original below by @/kronkydei_ on twitter!!)

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This a a reminder to not fall victim to the sunk-cost fallacy. Just because you invested time and energy into something, does not mean you should indefinitely waste more time and energy on it, if you decide it’s not what you want anymore. This goes for anything, from books, to relationships, to jobs, to hobbies, etc.

If it’s not serving you anymore, move on.

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finnglas

This is honestly one of the places I find Marie Kondo's advice most helpful. I stop, look at the thing I've spent time and money on only to realize I dislike, and I say, "Thank you for teaching me something about myself and my preferences. I think I've learned this particular lesson and we can part ways now."

And then I don't feel like I "wasted" things or made a mistake. I just tried one path of learning about myself, learned something, and now it's time for a different path. Works a lot better for my brain.

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ekjohnston

The time Marie Kondo said "you can thank a a shirt you've never worn for teaching you about your taste", thereby making it NOT A WASTE literally rewired my whole brain. Acknowledge the thing and move forward, even if that means leaving the thing behind.

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recent-rose

i jsut think its so funny and interesting and hmmmmm that ratio meets sunday and has one conversation with him basically and goes 'oh yeah this guy is the same breed of crazy as aventurine (who needs therapy yesterday)' and then sunday is control/fate/future and aventurine is chaos/luck+chance/present. both of them hiding their true selves/feelings behind facades, and it being commented on directly in the narrative. they both even have/had a sister they depend on. like they're PERFECT narrative foils. they're perfect reflections of each other.

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